@JessicaGirl I'm sorry that happened to you, and glad you managed to avoid it. Did you also report him to the kink studio? The kink community tends to be very big on consent, and him trying to lure someone in would probably get him banned. If it helps, most likely any hesitation on your part would have gotten several people in his face.
And speaking of consent, I'd like to mention enthusiastic consent, which is not "no means no" but "only yes means yes". Things like "maybe", "I'll think about it", or hesitations (all of which are common evasions when you're afraid to say no) are not no, but they're also not yes.
That is it in a nutshell. We are all adults. The purpose of saying that is that as adults we have control only of ourselves.
Trying to take advantage of anyone mentally, physically or through communication is what will be the demise of him an society as we have yet to find a solution of destroying such behaviour before it becomes a norm.
As adults we should be stepping up and more empowered to agree on terms to fight it, but instead revert to childish ways to deal with it by passing the problem on to whoever else we can. Or apologizing then retreating. It leaves people confused and discouraged.
I've seen 23 females on this site, and 16 have been open to sex, I've had sex with 13 of them.
And, of the 23, ONLY ONE paid the full amount to the site. ALL of the others saw me for longer than the proposed time on initial visits, and on subsequent visits by-passed the site entirely. So it seems like almost everyone is getting screwed.
So the moral superiority is all on THAT side of the room.
See you in 2 years (under an alias, of course).
Yeah, to anybody who wanted to stick up for this creepy weirdo I point you to above posts ...
@Larry007 im not sure what point you tried to make here. You're the worst kind of fellow. If you're proud of yourself you shouldn't be.
….so you outed yourself (and some women) to prove a point that many of us had already concluded about activity on CC
@Larry007
And another thing, if you were to participate in adult activities with a consent by adult for any reason, sir you should know to keep it to yourself. To not only violate the terms of this site but the violate the trust of these ladies is pretty disgusting.
This ladies and gentleman is why stitches get stitches. You've demonstrated all the negative characteristics of what decent men have to hide from. By "bragging" such a pathetic thing to do. Attempting to prove a point of what? I hope you are banished from the site and all the little action you've been getting dries up. And those ladies learn not to deal with guys like you.
@Larry007 must be trying to get banned. Openly admitting to breaking the rules in the forums.
Wow. Just wow. Knowing he'll likely be banned, but just as likely to return, is chilling.
And nothing will stop him from returning because there’s no identity verification required for Enthusiasts on CC. I wonder about any damage caused by his behavior.
Stay classy douche canoe
There have been so many documented sexual assaults that it feels truly irresponsible to continue without any form of verification.
@pmvines 😂😂😂 perfection
@warmlyhelena Exactly. But it sounds like in his case it was offered and consensual. Too much of both.
@Sooson I think you might be right with the Gary Busey reference
I previously pointed out (page 2) that it is obvious that Gary Busey was looking for sex here.
@Sooson And women are advertising and offering it. Is that why he originally shared those photos? He proudly made his point.
@g_w_t_w
And women are advertising and offering it.
You can say that, but when I do, everyone and their seventh cousin runs after me with a pitchfork.
And our friend @pmvines knows that as well as both of us, if not better than us. And I agree with a lot of what he says. But there are 3 sides here and It seems that none of the 3 sides is trying really hard to stick to the stated mission.
Only side I see is this creepy weirdo announcing his deeds in the forums like a smug braggadocios dude bro. Even worse that it's on this thread that in case it needs to pointed out again is in response to a woman being frustrated over clients not acting right, and also features women sharing about literal sexual assault. Which makes the context of Mr douche canoe posts trying to prove himself a man for allegedly paying women for sex and posting pics shaming women for being too sexy so they must want it even more pathetic. Gets no respect from me don't care what side he's at .
@pmvines I would add that it feels predatory. He clearly doesn't care. At all. Nor is he trying to understand the broader social context. This is why people need to screen. I really wish this website would create some better safety measures. His posts took over the thread that wasn't about him.
The fact that he announced his success rate without losing a beat is chilling and I am not naive or blind that this stuff happens between consenting adults on here. What I am concerned about is the unsuccessful encounters—what did he try or push in those sessions? Those women are truly victims who merely wanted to comfort and cuddle. Did he push them at all? Force them?
We’re aware that everything that can be imagined (and even the unimaginable) is happening on this cuddle site, even beyond the original vision for CC. It’s just a cross section of human behavior.
@FunCartel_ My thoughts exactly.
He's banned now.
He may get banned and he obviously still has not read the original post and the point he is trying to make should have been it's own thread.
But, boy-did he open up a WHOLE other discussion that some are clearly not ready to have. There is obviously more than cuddling happening here [no surprise to any adult with any life experience] and it really is no one's business what people choose to do or not do.
@Larry007 When 2 Consenting Adults decide to take a Cuddle Session further, that is their right and it should stay between them. This was really a weak move to bring it here to the forum and jeopardize the "Cuddlers" who made that Adult decision with you.
What are we supposed to do with that information?
Don't you think there are plenty of men who have had that experience but have not felt the childish need to broadcast it?
How does that change the fact that women who DON"T offer extra services should not be dry humped or asked to give a client a hand-job?
There may be alot more than cuddling going on with some "Pros"- I don't think that is even debateable at this point.
Not all Pros are looking to cross that bridge and it is way out of line to ask for sex during a cuddle session -just because some women don't mind it.
@BrianOcean - It's different if two consenting enthusiasts want to take things further. If it's a pro charging money for sex, that can get the site into legal hot water since it's prostitution.
Pros offering should be reported.