@AmoraLi I appreciate your perspective and that's great that you will engage with a simple, "Hi." That said, I think there is a distinct difference between pros vs. enthusiasts when it comes to the expectations, engagement, and posture of entering into a cuddle agreement. One is a business transaction, the other is between two co-equals seeking the same thing on a mutual level (or at least that's the idea). I could walk into a Burger King and look to purchase a meal without their being any kind of formal interaction and/or familiarity. I wouldn't approach abstaining a meal at my neighbor's house the same way.
Again, you offer some solid advice from those seeking to secure a cuddle with a pro.
@AmoraLi I see what you mean. I made an assumption that OP's post was referring to enthusiasts, as there wasn't the usual mention of Pro.
I don't think this angle is neccesary against the grain., OP's message is fine if aimed at pros. But the lack of response is surprising if he is meesaging pros.
Since the OP @ArtemisPrime has been on the site and chosen to not respond to anyone directly tagging him here, I'd surmise he has answered his own question. "Why doesn't anyone answer?" LOL
I just give it my best Butthead opening line and they come a runnin to my arms.
@pmvines
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@Sooson I know what I meant. 😁
Some women think that means you’re married or in a relationship.
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@g_w_t_w
During my past online dating experiences, that's exactly what it means when I take notice that the relationship status is left blank.😶
@ArtemisPrime has been on the site and chosen to not respond to anyone directly tagging him here, I'd surmise he has answered his own question. "Why doesn't anyone answer?"
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@starrynitecuds HA!
I really do appreciate everyone's input. A very nice gentleman sent me a message and pointed out that my attire might have been to blame, and I certainly think that didn't help, so I changed that right away lol.
Hi @Katota. You may have tagged me but I was not being notified of any messages. Maybe because I'm using a browser for access and not the app? I don't know, but I clearly have no issues responding. I do truly appreciate everyone's feedback and perspectives. Quite honestly, I didn't realize there was a difference between pros and enthusiasts until I started reading all the comments. My ignorance, I guess.
I've done everything right (as far as the advice goes in the forums) when it comes to sending messages, and I still have yet to get any replies from enthusiasts who stick around as enthusiasts. Then there are some who seem to have a great deal of luck when it comes to getting responses. And while looks may be a part of it, I'm positive the vast majority is just pure luck of the draw (otherwise I'll need to consign myself to being butt ugly, and I ain't ready to do that quite yet).
@ArtemisPrime This cuddling thing is a learning process. I recommend checking many of the forums as you can. Mostly good stuff to know. I wish you much cuddling success.
@Vocalist100 hope things change for you soon.
Sounds like there maybe more pros to enthusaists where you are. I'm not sure how wide your location search currently is, have you already tried expanding it?
Personally sense of safety not just physically is more important. I'm more interested about whether i can relax and be comfortable cuddling someone.
@4cuddles I use 100 mile radius for my search
@Vocalist100 Oh I stand corrected then. I tried checking your profile for that and didn't know how to.
@ArtemisPrime Good luck . You seem interested in receiving feedback as opposed to the typical piss and moan post so I commend you for that . Hopefully things will get better for you on here wish you luck..
Artemis, I commented before just on your message but I did look at your pic and think that your outfit seemed a little too sexy. This is much better. Women have to be soooo careful if they are to stay safe while cuddling with strangers. Anything that hints of sexuality can scare us off because there are a LOT of creeps on here who have sexual motivations for cuddling. This is not that kind of site. Get your first response, be very respectful, follow the rules and you should be on your way!
Anything that hints of sexuality can scare us off because there are a LOT of creeps on here who have sexual motivations for cuddling. This is not that kind of site.
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Good luck . You seem interested in receiving feedback as opposed to the typical piss and moan post so I commend you for that
@pmvines I noticed that about @ArtemisPrime and his responses here as well. I too wish him the best of luck here and plenty of cuddles!😁🫂
OT: It just hit me that the name @ArtemisPrime might be a Transformers pun. If so, much respect for that.