Public Cuddles? What to do? Where to have?

[Deleted User]Holly412 (deleted user)
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Hi all. i have not done a public cuddle before.

First question: what do you do/have you done on a public cuddle before? I know verbal cuddling and non-touch activities like eye-gazing are possible, but what touch activities have you done on a public cuddle?

Second, its grtting too cold here to meet a park. Where have you done your public cuddles?

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  • [Deleted User]galaxyyes (deleted user)
    edited October 2024

    Pick a park and have a cuddle picnic, complete with cheeses and treats. For cold weather outdoor cuddling there's nothing like a cafe with couches, a local campfire on a beach, or even a large subway or bus terminal where people huddled up isn't out of place. Oh, and malls - malls often have seated areas within to take a shopping break or people watch. 😊

  • KittyPukkaKittyPukka

    Cuddles in a Hammock!

  • [Deleted User]galaxyyes (deleted user)

    @KittyPukka that is simply the laziest cuddling I've ever heard of... and I love it! Plus, I actually did this once before. Once we got in the hammock safely, we were mushed together as gravity did it's thing.

  • starrynitecudsstarrynitecuds

    Are there any indoor arboretums or botanical gardens nearby? They may have sitting areas.

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc
    edited October 2024

    “Verbal cuddling”?
    NO COMMENT.

  • [Deleted User]gem7 (deleted user)

    @Holly412 I don't understand your question " but what touch acivities have you done on a public cuddle?"

  • goodbyehuggoodbyehug

    A trip to the cinema 🥰

  • moveandgroovemoveandgroove

    Some movies have double recliners!! You can cuddle and snack etc..

  • zaleazalea

    that sounds like so much fun!! especially to watch a scary movie together 😬

    now I'm trying to remember which theaters have those in Seattle...

  • timbear50timbear50

    Here’s the IPIC in New York. I haven’t tried it yet but hope to someday!

  • TenderEmbracesTenderEmbraces

    Definitely movies , indoor theater or drive in

  • epicfeoepicfeo

    Trip to the junkyard. You’re helping me look for parts

  • warmlyhelenawarmlyhelena

    @timbear50 That looks amazing!
    @epicfeo I bet I'll spot it first 😜

  • [Deleted User]lovelydelight28 (deleted user)

    Public cuddles are completely optional. However, some of the best ones are going for coffee, walking in the park, or grabbing ice cream. It’s a great way to break the ice and get to know the person you’re going to be cuddling with.

  • [Deleted User]Holly412 (deleted user)

    Thanks for these ideas folks

  • SoosonSooson

    How about on one of those flatbed carts at Costco?

  • VitaminJVitaminJ

    Just had an amazing public cuddle in the lobby of a hotel. They had lots of sofas and so we purchased a beverage at the bar (so we had legitimacy to be there) . We were able to trade hand and wrist massages. Once we were comfortable, I expressed that I would like to get my hands into his beard and so he laid his head in my lap, and I did beard scratching and some other facial, touching and chest and arm touching, and then I laid my head in his lap and he did some hair and scalp and neck And face touching. At one point another customer walked by and made the comment “I am next. “ But other than that, we were able to kind of out whatever else was going on and just zone in on the cuddle.

  • KuddleKinggKuddleKingg

    Beach cuddles or movie threaten cuddles even better if you are close to a drive in movie to cuddle in the back of a truck bed

  • MakaMaka

    I love movie cuddles. I’ve also had car cuddles in the back of a van (all seats taken out and lots of pillows! Along with cuddles in the park.

  • [Deleted User]ceh (deleted user)

    Had cuddles in my van with a pro that I had already seen. Was during a thunderstorm with lots of loud thunder and lightning. So very cool!!! TWO HOURS of bliss!!!

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    Well, you're an adult, so you can do whatever the hell you want to do .... and accept the consequences. Which for public cuddling within the rules of the site, are extremely likely to be nothing more than happiness and relaxation.

    Lots of good tips in this thread so far.

  • BitCoinCuddlesBitCoinCuddles

    @WestsideMarc agreed. Verbal cuddling? And how about virtual. I don't get. 🤷‍♂️

    Therapy is just as expensive a lot of places and by a trained pro, you know a therapist.

    Don't get it here. Love to understand how its not therapy(ish) . And if it was described how would it be described.

  • lovingspoonfulllovingspoonfull

    @epicfeo nothing good ever happens in junkyards. Just ask Hollywood! 😇

  • lovingspoonfulllovingspoonfull

    I personally can’t see movie theaters working for me. The lounge options look nice but I’d probably keep getting shushed (deservedly) because I’m finding myself to be a chatterbox during cuddles.

    How do you guys handle that? Just keep quiet?

  • VespurrrrVespurrrr
    edited November 2024

    Please keep advertisements in the pro section of the cuddle request sub forum. Thank you! -JoyfulHeart (moderator)

  • [Deleted User]donhulio (deleted user)

    @lovingspoonfull, if you get an early matinee to a movie that's not just out, you might have a good chance at an empty or nearly empty theater.

  • [Deleted User]donhulio (deleted user)

    Also, it might be a bit easier to keep quiet when cuddling in a theater, when there's a movie playing and other nearby that you know would be annoyed by your talking 😅

  • KariMeiSnugglesKariMeiSnuggles

    I've had several cuddles at movie theatres it's always nice. I have also gone on a walk at a park and cuddled on the bench.

  • Muggle_MikeMuggle_Mike

    If you're going public because neither of you can do it at home but you still want the privacy there are hotels that offer discounted rates for shorter uses than an overnight stay. One place you can find them is here dayuse.com

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