I'd rather have a talk or text chat. I'm high energy and not for everyone and a little bit of a chatty patty at times. I like to see if we vibe.
"I have a strict 'No Barnyard animals involved in cuddle sessions' rule . . . .NEXT!"
Albania got you too uh?
I definitely prefer to chat some First but I have had clients who rather just get to the specifics of day, time, rules and move forward to the session
Weird that (especially for women meeting a man) that you would NOT want to meet/chat/facetime first. Platonic as it may be you are still being somewhat intimate with a total stranger. Men or women, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. How many people who have used online dating go on dates without talking on the phone or video chatting first. Not many
Also didn't think I'd have the opportunity to use the line "I have a strict 'No Barnyard animals involved in cuddle sessions' rule . . . .NEXT!"
But what about going on a horseback ride? That might be fun, as long as you don't get thrown off the saddle
I don't think I ever will hire a pro but it doesn't matter if they're a pro or not I would have to get to know them first, make sure they're not crazier than I am, I would be too uncomfortable cuddling someone I barely knew.
As a pro, I wont just book and meet without chatting at least exchanging a few basic messages. I actually dislike when someone just tries to book and says nothing. To me, common courtesy and small niceties show me you're human and kind. Also, if they have anything that I might not be comfortable with (types of cuddles, places, convos), its best to get that settled before hand. Plus you can get an idea if it will work or not just with a few messages.
Some chat is important and definitely want to see if we’re on the same page. But there’s a fine line between let’s see if we click and I just want to keep talking to you because you’re answering.
If i DO not talk fist i look for certain Red Flags, aooearance, picture on site , what they sayabout themselves, etc,
I always prefer to talk with a potential cuddler first to better gauge what kind of person they are and to get better acquainted.
I just book and go from there, I hate texting or messaging.
I also find that if you don't wanna talk first perhaps a staring contest or even a primal scream will suffice
@pmvines oohh ... I dont think my voice could handle a primal scream ... but I am pretty good at staring contests ... do you think it'll really work?