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WakeCoNativeWakeCoNative
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I'm not sure about going forward with CC. I really like the concept of this site and the idea of being able to schedule appointments for cuddling when you feel like you need it. However,.....because of what I do for work, I absolutely cannot post a profile pic.
I have attempted to set up a couple of sessions and things go well and then Im asked to send a picture. Even after they have given their address. I really am not comfortable doing that, especially after a prolonged conversation. I get the safety aspect of it, but all of my information is on the site. I also provide a really accurate description of myself.
I truly want to be fair, but if a cuddler says "you cant wear/do/say "x", I would respect that boundary. Is there a suitable and fair comprimise for a picture request? Or, given my situation should I just delete my account and not participate?

Thanks in advance!

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  • MajesticMangoMajesticMango
    edited November 2024

    Fine, I’ll take this one.

    If you don’t want to post a profile picture, that’s fine, a lot of people don’t.

    Personally, If someone can’t send me a picture of themselves onsite then I won’t meet with them. What are you trying to hide?

    You’re seriously not doing anything wrong with being on this site and using the services that’s provided unless you’re using it for the wrong reasons.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne
    edited November 2024

    OP - Will you meet someone, let them come to your house or you go to theirs without ever seeing how they look? No idea of their appearance, size, shape, expression, etc?
    You can tell a lot about someone from a smile or look in their eyes! Do they look the age posted? If you’re choosing to cuddle a woman - is it even actually a woman who you will end up meeting?
    Best of luck, but for a zillion reasons I’m not meeting a Stranger from the Internet without knowing about their appearance and visual clues I get from a photo. And btw, women are also picky about who they cuddle up with.

    Are you willing to video chat? Meeting in person at a public place first and then deciding would be the only thing I might consider without a photo.
    Just my opinion but If you’re paranoid & embarrassed to be here, it’s probably not going to work for you.

  • Mike403Mike403

    Why are guys afraid to send their picture? I don't get that. Are you afraid she will send the photo to your boss?

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    @Mike403 lol I always wonder the same.
    Maybe self esteem issues.

  • SoosonSooson

    Legitimate reasons for that were provided when that subject was discussed in the past.

  • CaramelNotesCaramelNotes

    @Sooson do you know where that thread is? I would like to read it please.

  • supadupasupadupa

    He’s probably a politician or a CEO! Usually most guys that won’t post a profile is because of their work or safety issues! And I for one do not believe what some professionals have said about guys who won’t post profile photos because they have a girlfriend or wife and don’t want to get caught. I truly don’t believe that! I believe these profiles are operating on good faith and definitely not cheating on their girlfriends or wives. Definitely not!

  • IronicMaidenIronicMaiden

    This isn't really about profile pictures. It's about being asked to send a picture in private message, and refusing

  • JoyfulHeartJoyfulHeart

    @WakeCoNative Were you using this account when you tried to set up these sessions?

  • pmvinespmvines

    Yeah me too , as you can tell from my profile I am super opposed to posting pics of myself

  • SoosonSooson

    @CaramelNotes It will require using the search function using keywords. I will see what i can find

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    @supadupa
    Based on personal experiences here, it’s usually because of hiding their activity on a cuddle site but of course there might be exceptions.
    Politicians and CEOs often have many people surrounding them - in their circle of friends & family - so they’re not as in need of a hug. But some are known to hire women for some types of services, secretly, and they have plenty of $$$ to do so.
    Again, only speaking about what I have experienced!

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @WakeCoNative I'm not going to question your reasons, because I don't know you at all, but I would guess you will find it very challenging to succeed here under the circumstances. If you are worried about your photo getting out, meeting people online may not be for you.

  • WakeCoNativeWakeCoNative

    @JoyfulHeart yes.

  • SoosonSooson

    @CaramelNotes its like looking for a needle in a haystack i would just use keywords that make sense.

  • WakeCoNativeWakeCoNative

    @g_w_t_w
    No...its not a self esteem issue. Im plenty accomplished and Ive been told, attractive. Its not that I cant find someone out in the world to do this with. Its just that I dont have time to give to a relationship at the moment. CC is more conveinent for me, as it is in fact a service and not a relationship that has layers of needs and commitments that cant currently fulfill.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne
    edited November 2024

    Well, it’s great to read that you have lots of self confidence also, so I imagine you will find a way to get what you want. But maybe, as someone else said, it won’t be online if you feel the need to hide.
    A secretive attitude is not attractive to some women.
    Something else to consider, even if you find someone trusting you enough to meet and cuddle, there’s no guarantee that your image won’t somehow be captured.
    You should be very worried

  • WakeCoNativeWakeCoNative

    @g_w_t_w
    I didn't mean to sound arrogant. Just trying to be brief, but you did take a dig at my "self esteem'.
    I do agree with what you said about the possibility of my image being captured. Good insight.
    Thanks for responding!

  • Cuddlehouse17Cuddlehouse17

    With the right platforms, you can reverse image search and learn a lot about someone.

  • WakeCoNativeWakeCoNative

    @supadupa you are 100% correct on this.

  • WakeCoNativeWakeCoNative

    @supadupa well, Im not a politician or CE0 however. Maybe one day!

  • Cuddlehouse17Cuddlehouse17

    @WakeCoNative…Even a job like a teacher, could be a big “no, no”?

  • Mike403Mike403

    @Cuddlehouse17 - That's why you take a photo solely for this website that is not used anywhere else.

  • WakeCoNativeWakeCoNative

    @Cuddlehouse17 i can definitely see that being an issue in that profession.

  • WakeCoNativeWakeCoNative

    @Mike403 true. Youd be surprised the number of people that use the same pics on CC as they do on social media, etc. Good point though on a photo just for here.

  • pmvinespmvines

    @supadupa
    That would be believable if the vast majority of people who are in relationships also happen to not post pics and are reluctant to provide photos when requested

  • Cuddlehouse17Cuddlehouse17

    @Mike403 reverse searches are getting better and better. The more pictures you have on the web in general make it easier. Do one picture of say Michael Jordan, Oprah, you will see a LOT. If you take some one with enough online pics it will identify them.

  • Cuddlehouse17Cuddlehouse17

    @WakeCoNative some even use the same screen name here as other places. Then you can learn even more.

  • Mike403Mike403
    edited November 2024

    @Cuddlehouse17 - Because the A.I. links the photo to Michael Jordan or whoever so it's going to show you more photos of him. If you take a photo that is only on this website and nowhere else, it's not going to know who you are. It'll just link back to where it found the photo.

  • Mike102Mike102

    Why dont you have a zoom call or meet up in person

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