I just saw my 2nd post about what Men want in cuddling. Women don't want/need ciddling ?
Really curious,
Grego
@Grego1 How did you come to that conclusion?
@Grego1 Of course they do. The reason you are seeing men brought up is because there are seemingly a lot more men actively looking here. Male enthusiasts outnumber female enthusiasts by a lot and men are the primary clients of pros. Common wisdom is that women don't have as much of a challenge finding a cuddle partner and don't need to hire pros.
That's not an intelligent observation
Let the gender generalizations begin. I’m just thankful I know many wonderful men who know the answer to this question. The answer being - of course women need touch just as much.
This is only my own situation! I’m not speaking about the needs of other women. No, I personally don’t, not to the extent that I read about from men here. I joined to be a care giver. Not expecting much in return and that’s mostly been my experience. But I’m in such a different point in my life. Much older, independent, strong & not needy. I do love to be cuddled if it’s available, in the moment it’s wonderful but I’m ok if I’m on my own also. I have family for giving me hugs also so I may be in a very different situation than others. ⭐️Please don’t say anything ugly to me because your needs are different - I’m about to do something scary today and I don’t need it 😭
@NikkiFM agreed to some degree on the generalizations. I have cuddled with dozens of women from this site (98% were enthusiasts), almost all became repeat cuddles, and virtually every first cuddle was focused on their needs/wants, which was fine.
Women do want and need cuddling. We are human after all.
I just think this is another piss/moan thread about not getting attention from the women on the site and about the existence of cuddle pros.
Strange post. I just verified with my girlfriend that she is human and that while she doesn't need ciddling she does enjoy cuddles.
This confirms my assumption that generally humans enjoy cuddles.
I think the OP is really questioning the type of threads he is seeing, it's not really him stating women don't need it. I know I'm saying what you already know,
@ReltvlyCanshes that's how I read it, too.
I notice that the OP has disappeared from this thread. Conclusion: it was a drive-by trolling.
I think that's an incorrect conclusion, my assumption would be ran away by accusations. But i could be wrong, i doubt it though. He could come in and defend himself but for what purpose? Minds were made from the beginning
Says he's paused .
@pmvines he was trying to charge for services without being a pro. I reported his profile.
Ah gotcha lol so that's why the survey
Usually at this point in this type of thread we’ve sometimes gone past the original question and the OP doesn’t always return - often because by going public they’ve caught attention that they might not have wanted. Planning to get more attention from Cuddlers but get paused or banned instead.
@g_w_t_w I think I’m on a similar trajectory as I get older. I definitely still need touch, and I still love it, but it doesn’t seem to dominate my thinking the way it used to. I have seen a professional regularly for a long time, but recently I have started to scale back my appointments. It’s just not on my radar as much as it used to be and, possibly that’s one of very few benefits to aging. For me anyway.