What's your ideal sesh? Held? The holder?
The images that your wonderful question brings to mind!!!
Honestly, it depends on my cuddler.. If he wants, at 6'11", to be the "little spoon," he's gonna get that! I like BOTH OF THEM... A LOT... so I can't pick just one! lol I've heard of "cuddle puddles," too, so maybe we could ALLLL get to be both the holder AND the held!
Fanning my pearls! lol
Precisely..
Cuddles are good both ways. I’m naturally a big spoon but would appreciate a person who was kind to me and comforted too.