Need help

AxisAxis
in Cuddle Requests

This is so confounding & frustrating. I've been on this site on-and-off for almost 6 years now w/ absolutely no success. Needless to say, my patience is worn beyond thin. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Can someone please give me some advice on what to say, and how long to wait until I suggest a public meet up? The user who viewed my profile said she's shy and doubts she'll ever meet up. How can I gently persuade her?

Here's my profile: https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/Axis

Comments

  • TxTomTxTom
    edited December 2024

    Unfortunately, there's nothing magical about this site that will expedite meeting someone. Nobody is obligated to do anything in that regard.

    Your approach here will need to be the same as, and supplemented by, real world interactions.

    Potential connections will be partly determined by your proximity to other Users. You can use the map linked below to help locate CC members nearest you, or request to have yourself added to it:

    https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/12745/map-of-cuddlers/p1

    Keep in mind, this map only shows Users who asked to be added to it, and does not necessarily reflect current or full membership.

    Anyway, continue practicing patience, use this site as just one means (but not the only means) for making connections.

    Hope this helps. Good luck to you.

    Edit: My bad. With all the "A's" in your profile header, I got Australia stuck in my head. Corrected for New Zealand. Still, not many of you there.

  • AxisAxis

    Update

    I'm thrilled to say that I finally cuddled with someone from this site! A young lady from Oregon was staying in Auckland for a few days & she managed to squeeze me in at short notice. She also squeezed me during our session. 😆 We enjoyed 2 hours but the only real downside was that I wish we had more time. Still, it was a decent cuddle for the time we had.

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