What’s the worst experience u had on this site ?
A ghost or two. That's it. Nothing a trip to Carl's Jr. won't fix.
Rejection is God protecting.
Had a good first session with a gal. After scheduling a second session, then confirming one hour prior, she texted me 20 minutes prior to cancel because her sister was bringing sushi. She was eventually banned but not because of me.
@Cessna_guy She was banned for sushi breath. It created a toxic environment.
@TheFunCartel, I thought something smelled fishy about that situation.
@imurqueen 100%
Burped up there lunch in my face/breathing air during the entire session
Tried to pressure me to get undressed and said that I was the only one to refuse. Then took down his profile. Very shady.
There is soo many that happened to me over the years that I lost count. Moderators are amazing for getting those people off the site so that's a blessing.
She arrived high. I always meet in public first with someone new. She mentioned she was high coming from a party. I was concerned because I didn’t know this person and unknowns. I decided to let her know I was not feeling well and paid her rather than things going sideways.
My first ever booking on the site. The professional, or should I say 'professional', had been wearing so much make up in the photos that I genuinely struggled to recognise her and nearly didn't let her in to my flat.
The cuddle itself was nice but she let it run well over time (which I didn't notice) and not only tried to charge me for the extra but charge for more time than we had had. I was willing to work something out but my budget was incredibly tight at the time. She quickly became angry and aggressive. It was obviously a deliberate ploy. Happily for me she stormed out, and then blocked me.
I wanna say I …I had a cuddler that became sort of obsessed with me . Like he was respectful during the cuddle session . Then it went south.. I blocked him his number and blocked him off the app . Then he made another page and said tried to cuddle again .
Creepy. When I host for a cuddler I always say I appreciate the courage they have for coming into a stranger's house to cuddle.
Having someone take money out of my bag when I went to the restroom. Needless to say I think he deleted his account and I've never heard from him again. And another, where in my opinion, was a very awkward session. He kept bugging me afterwards just about everyday to rebook. Finally had to block him.
Met a new enthusiast at a hotel. At the end of our 2 hours, she asked for payment. I asked what she meant because she was not labeled a pro. She said she thought everyone got paid, because "what woman would do this for free?". I showed the site to her and explained the difference. I told her I didn't have money to pay, since I paid for the hotel. She got upset and I left. In the parking lot, there were two guys who jumped me, beat me, and took my wallet. By the time I got back on the site, she was deleted already. Apparently this was the plan all along.
@4bearhugs So much for "hotels are more secure."
I have had more horror stories on this forum than on the site. I did have a scammer who was not very good. I cottened on very early into it but decided to see how far she would go. She ended up asking money for her dying mother. I blocked and reported her.
@4bearhugs Omg, that is the worst story I've heard so far. You, sir, get an award. Don't know how good that award is though.
Ugh, too many.
Award for whomever wins horror cuddle buddy story...
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@4bearhugs I'm so sorry that is awful. This site can be kinda dangerous for real. I'm suprised you're still here after that. You didn't deserve that.
@CuddleAngel333 I did quit for a while after that. This is my second profile. I've actually been here since 2017.
Had a guy keep extending (which was fine) but he then only paid for 3 hours instead of 4 because "we weren't cuddling just hanging out." He was still in my space and we were still both touching eachother. After he left, I blocked him. Worked out fine cause he was the most annoying and boring person I've ever met
The worst was flying out of state to meet somebody else who was also flying there. We had been communicating for a few weeks and everything was seemingly perfect. However they ended up being the poster child for covert narcissistic personality disorder. I was told a personal story and didn’t react how they expected, basically I asked a simple question as to show interest and express empathy but they interpreted it as a slight. Went off the deep end and spent the rest of the weekend being overly abrasive, insulting, demeaning, repeatedly, I mean it was bad, straight up verbal abuse. The whole experience probably cost me $3,500 total just to get chewed out all weekend for total nonsense plus had to sleep on the couch.
Other minor stories
One girl was adamant about watching the news. Ok so I turn the news on, and there were all these reports about crazy murders. Perfect apparently. She is just glued to the tv without moving nor talking listening to these murders for over an hour. Just weird.
One girl went into great detail about how Russian hackers were watching her place and who comes in and they were sending fake cuddlers to spy on her. Freaked me out.
One girl apparently hosted a lot and she had this nosy neighbor who was giving me the stink eye when I arrived. Nice experience otherwise but yeah made me pretty uncomfortable.
One girl immediately fell asleep on my chest and started snoring loudly. Basically I paid her $200 to snore on my chest for two hours.
I booked a session over a month in advance, at a hotel, like on a Thursday night. Maybe a week later I get a message with directions to her house. I try to figure out what’s going on and she’s like you’re flaking on me aren’t you? Chewed me out because she spent all day buying a new couch and moving it ion to her apartment so we could watch tv on it. I mean she was furious. Thought I was coming over that night. Cancelled the session then left this long nasty note about how I should be banned from the site for wasting peoples time. I finally point out that we were supposed to meet on September 9 not August 5 and she’s like oh nevermind then, rebook it. lol. No.
@hoosierdan76 Omg those are some bad cuddle experiences, why are people so weird and kind of selfish? I mean that’s my view of their behavior. And it’s alien to what it’s supposed to be - for me at least. I put my heart into cuddling, that’s why I don’t do it much anymore. Hope you have some great experiences here after all of that!
It involves badly dubbed French films, morning farts, and a 3 pack of mouse traps.
I made a booking with a new cuddler and she sent her digital payment link so that I could pay a deposit. Since there were no karmas I did a Google search on the name on the payment site just to see if anything pops up. Lo and behold the search listed articles that show her pics tied to car jacking and meth. Additionally there was mention of parole violations. By the time I went back on the site to cancel the booking her account had been banned. I am glad the site scrutiny works but I thank my stars that I did a search. The only caveat is that now I am hesitant to see someone with no karmas which is not fair for the 99%+ new pros who have so such issue 😞.
I once cuddled a pro who has since been banned. She was stiff as a board. I couldn’t even move her an inch. Her place also strongly wreaked of cigarette. I almost just up and left more than once but I stuck the hour out. It was so strange.
Exchanging typed messages. On threads. To strangers. Stranger🎯Danger!!!!😳