Does it freak you out when people view your profile? Does it make you feel comfortable? I once had someone block me because I looked at their profile.
I can choose to “hide” my profile whenever I want, so no.
It’s actually nice when folks stop by.
It’s not gonna bother guys too much but women are more likely to get weird vibes from it. There’s such a fine line it seems on how many times you can view a profile. I’ll look at new profiles in my area but I try not to do so repeatedly.
No, it doesn't.
I think you can’t completely hide your profile unless you deactivate or delete. I’m muted so I can’t be seen through searches but my profile is viewed many times every day because we can be accessed through forum comments. If there’s a way to be active on the site but not be viewed in any way, I don’t know what it is.
Does it freak you out when people view your profile?
YES!!!
From that dreaded moment I created my profile, I was like, gawd, I hope nobody looks at this.
So I blocked everyone on CC.
This is a public site it shouldn't freak someone out to just have your profile viewed. You can however mute your account to my minimize this
One reason someone might keep checking a particular profile is to check for Karma. The search page doesn't show karma until there are at least five. Someone might want to make an appointment but is hesitant if there is no or few karma, so he keeps checking a profile to see if there is new karma. Saying that, it would be odd if someone checks profile several times a day over a period of time.
I secretly like it ... (but don't tell anyone 👍)
I'm fine with people looking at my profile for whatever reason. I often look at the profiles of people who look at mine or who pique my curiosity with a forum post, etc.
I do recognize other people have different levels of comfort and expectations around their profiles, so I'm glad there are tools such as blocking, deactivating, and so on to let us manage our presence here in different ways.
I don’t mind it at all. There are plenty of reasons why people can visit a page. Sometimes, I might even send a message if I think they have visited more than once over time, just to say hi, introduce myself. And without any expectations of a returned message. Just trying to be friendly and helpful as other people were to me, when I first joined the site.
I used to, but not anymore. I post more often new pictures on a daily basis now and expect old or new visitors stopping by my page.
Lol 😆😆😆
@TxTom I don't blame you, I can be a bit "stalkery" with MY profile viewing habits.😜😆
I like it but I'm an extrovert. I hope my profile reflects that.
No I like when people view my profile.
I can't imagine anyone signing up on a cuddle site (or dating site) and then being concerned that their profile is being viewed.
It doesn’t freak me out when someone looks at my profile, but I’m curious as to why they would look at my profile if they be men or women when they are in a different part of the country than me. Maybe it was an accidental hit and they open my profile, even though they didn’t want to. I have also been answering questions quite a bit so people are curious as to wanting to know more about the person that is answering the questions in the forum. I’m sure people have thought the same about me but nine times out of 10. I probably fumbled my phone while I had the site open and accidentally hit their name and opened their profile. 🤣
I also wonder why people from halfway across the country or halfway across the world look at my profile. I figure either they're forum lurkers or they click on whoever shows up on the front page, which is not limited by nearby.
I don't get freaked out, i do get curious what did i say in the forums that has this guy looking at my profile. I always assume it's from the forum because 95 time out if a 100 it's someone far far away. Most of the ladies are also from out of range. The only other reason they look is probably because i looked at their profile. But ehh whatever.
I guess I’m a creep sometimes I find myself playing profile tag… lol like if someone views me I literally have to go look lol so idk 🤷🏽♀️ I don’t get freaked out
This is a social media site. Other people are supposed to look at your profile. That's part of what you signed up for. You are perfectly entitled to look at anybody's profile, whether they have looked at yours or not.
Posting on the forum is a good way to increase traffic to your profile.
Previous threads on this topic have established that you cannot even begin to imagine all the reasons that somebody might look at your profile, and that a significant minority of views are by mistake
Similarly, you cannot even imagine all the reasons people block. Blocking is commonly used as an administrative tool, and in the absence of additional information it is inappropriate to infer any kind of rejection. Blocking is almost always about the blocker, not the blockee.
You state you were blocked merely for looking at someone’s profile. But you have no evidence to support that assertion. The claim strikes me as a straw man, with no one.
But it got me to check out your profile.
Congrats on that, by the way. Your profile gives the clear impression that you’re making a successful run at being a male cuddle pro who only cuddles women. It’s just incredible how you’ve managed to get so many other pros to book your services in such a short time here.
Hats off to you, /Sir.
Hopefully you didn’t initiate contact first, as a Pro, because that’s against TOS. I could be totally wrong without the whole story but if a Pro is checking out profiles, someone might think they’re being pressured to book? Idk…
Is it possible to know how many people have blocked you? Because I've visited a lot of people once and would never know if they blocked me or not. I noticed i had one personal blocked recently from years ago, that person blocked me too. I think that's why i blocked them just being petty and I'm assuming from interaction in the forums. But this week i noticed another person blocked me, i think they are both men, i don't really know. I was trying to check this guys profile for some reason, some comment in the forum and boom I'm blocked before i checked it surprised yet not affected. So if there is a way for me to see how many people have blocked me I'm curious to know. It be helpful to know who I've offended by visiting their page or offended in the forum.
@PeopleLikeUs You say that but you literally block everybody from being able to visit your profile lol
Sometimes I do revisit profiles just to remind myself of who they are.
I've accidentally clicked on profiles and feel like a creep for it, but I don't normally look at someone's first. If someone looks at my profile, I'll usually look at theirs in return.
@Kegman i do the same thing all the time, but i don't notice myself being blocked
I look at profiles often.
Because they are public, and I want to.
I do this as well; especially if the picture changes. Or sometimes I didn't remember I visited them before; I often have a hard time remembering names.
@CharlesGrove I know you don't mean it this way but your comment makes me think of those first amendment auditor videos lol