Are you a cuddler that likes to receive cuddles or to give ir initiate? We might be both during the session too.
During virtual greet you get to hear expectations etc but who will take the lead when in person? I am curious as a new cuddler who wants to understand the culture here 🤗🤗 LatinaBaby
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I have read that sometimes when people hire pros, they are looking more for cuddling for themselves. I would probably do both, I don't think I would be comfortable being just the receiver.
Are you a cuddler that likes to receive cuddles or to give
I don't understand the difference. How are two people not cuddling each other simultaneously?
Both ? What madness is this ?
Many times when I was a Pro, I didn’t receive cuddles or being cared about in return. I was there to be a caregiver and was paid for my time and attention. It did take a mental and emotional toll on me eventually. But there are people who have done this for years and it must not get to them.
I enjoy both but being a pro, sometimes I am giving more than I am receiving.
@g_w_t_w thanks for the insight it makes a lot of sense
@LadyVel As a Pro do you initiate cuddling based on what the initial conversation was about or do you allow them to initiate the cuddling session. Just curious to hear your perspective as a pro.
@pmvines its not madness it’s a simple question. Obviously everyone is both as I stated on my comment. I would like to get to know others perspectives and understand the ambiance here. If you think my question is madness then move along.
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@TxTom yes it can happen that way but sometimes I noticed that people can be shy at first ( eventhough there was already a virtual greet) and I was curious to understand if it’s okay as a pro to initiate ( based on agreement) or follow their lead.
@WriterGF yes that’s a good point. I like to give and receive too.
Lol @LatinaBaby you mean you actually took that seriously 😂 that was meant to be lighthearted humor. Tried to message you but I apparently ticked you off enough to block me so my bad that you saw it as anything other than silliness, my apologies
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@ReltvlyCanshes what is 99
@LatinaBaby Although I'm not shy, I personally prefer when my Pro takes the confident lead. However, even as a client, I try to understand what she likes as well. After all, she's still human, and I want her to be happy, too, and eager to return.
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@ReltvlyCanshes 😄
Mutually entwined, feeding into the synchronization of energy… I don’t think one is preferred over the other as long as the energy flow is there 🤓🫶🏻✨✨🤍🤍✨✨✨
@pmvines I got a good chuckle about your humor. I mean this is not that serious of a subject.
@BlessedEnergy4U that’s a very good point, thanks for sharing.
@TxTom I appreciate you sharing your thoughts from the clients perspective. It really does help me understand a couple of things better
In my best cuddles we start with a long hug. It feels mutual to me.
Lol @LatinaBaby you mean you actually took that seriously 😂 that was meant to be lighthearted humor.
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@pmvines Lol! I understood it friend, but that's because I got to know ya over the years to pick up on your light sarcastic humor (without emoji usage), as for other CC commenters I am figuring them out.😁🤔
Not everyone is obsessed with EMOJI USAGE like me, and that's okay! 👍
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@Katota Yup, popcorn and emojis lol.
Although how could my response have been seen as serious in the first place, it's such a ridiculous response to the question that at this point you must possess no common sense or sense of humor at all if you think actually a literal or serious statement ? No emoji needed me thinks
@pmvines I've seen people take the most ridiculous things seriously. I've seen large groups of people lose their minds over obvious jokes. People tend to interpret things the way they want to.
@LatinaBaby
As a Pro do you initiate cuddling based on what the initial conversation was about or do you allow them to initiate the cuddling session. Just curious to hear your perspective as a pro.
Initiate sounds so weird for some reason. lol. I do take what we talked about before into consideration. I guess I initiate the start of the session by offering a big hug right upon meeting. Then, once cuddle clothes are on, we both usually sit or lay and start cuddling. They sometimes sit or lay down first or occasionally they may ask "can we (cuddle position) first" or I'll sit or lay down first and open my arms or ask "hey do you want to (cuddle position) first?".
There are many things that are the same between sessions with different people but no two sessions are exactly alike.
Thanks @LadyVel for the details I can definitely visualize it with your description 🤗🤗
As a pro cuddler it is 💯 about giving my client the cuddles they want. I’m a natural Nurturer and enjoy making others happy and comfortable and making sure they enjoy the experience. I’d say it’s been about 50/50 as far as cuddlers that only want to be cuddled and those that want mutual Cuddles with maybe 2 clients that didn’t want to be cuddled at all but wanted to cuddle on me. Even those who want mutual cuddles it’s about how they want to cuddle me not how I want to be cuddled. But when I have a pro to pro Mutual cuddle … that’s different that’s when Itruly feel like I can fully relax into being cuddled.