Is their a need for professional male cuddlers for females
Demand is very low, I hear. That’s why men pay a flat fee to be a pro since turnover is pretty high.
I think the thing that might make women, who have the disposable income, consider this as an option is if the man in question feels very safe.
Fot a lot of women it is very easy to find male cuddle partners, but harder to find ones who one feels safe with. So as a male pro, you have to figure out how to convey your brand as absolutely safe and being client-oriented too. Most people paying for cuddling want it to be all about them rather than a give and take.
What do you have to offer in a way women such that they should pay you for a service they can get for free?
If you can make that happen, then you might be able to make a go. A very few men, I'm led to believe, do. Most do not.
Most women would choose the bear. So anybody who says there's a demand for women paying strange men money to cuddle is blowing smoke up your poop chute
I agree, I think for the most part the demand is very low.
To my knowledge, there are no successful (meaning, they make their monthly fee back) male professionals, except those who cater to a male clientele.
Men can hardly find a woman on this site to give a hug to.
Finding one to pay for cuddling seems like hunting unicorns.
Yes there is such a need, but the number of potential clients is small.
I have met two women in person who wanted to hire a professional man cuddler, both of whom would have paid me to cuddle had I been a suitable professional. I've chatted to three or four others.
Such women do exist, but they are very particular and neither they nor I have ever seen a professional man's profile who was anywhere close to the standard they require.
I’ve said it so many times here, I would pay a man to cuddle in order to get all the attention. I’ve been a Pro to some very demanding and needy men. I’d love the chance to enjoy that feeling. So tired of assumptions about people you don’t know. I also don’t want to cuddle other women. And I choose a man instead of a bear. But I’m not a fearful woman. I’m not afraid of men. I think the one thing about the forum that is bewildering is that the majority of people think they can speak for others.
Oh, yes, and I forgot to say that in my four years here I must have seen a dozen women post in the forums to say they would like to be able to pay a professional man to cuddle, of whom @g_w_t_w is the latest.
Such women are not unicorns, since they are manifestly not mythical. More like the Scottish wildcat: genuinely rare, but if you're looking you will find one, and even if you're not but are in the right place you'll see one sooner or later.
I happen to know a few pro female cuddlers who have told me they would definitely hire a male pro.....
One in particular is very successful on this site, but cuddling with a client is nothing like cuddling with a pro. She talks about how when she shows up for a session, she is fully prepared to serve; that is, to listen, to hold, to provide affection, and to hold space....in that scenario, there is no letting go, no seeking support. Were she to hire a male cuddler, she would expect the session would be about her, with space held for her needs.....the assumption that cuddling is simply about the sharing of affection and physical touch is at least a bit naive, insofar as most of the most effective and successful pros are ones who show up to serve the needs of the client, not expecting theirs to be met.
When she has discussed it, she is also wanting to be certain that the male pro would not even consider pushing boundaries, something that occurs quite often in sessions with her clients.
No woman would ever pay for cuddling. This is a fact.
lol @LowBMC57 Says the guy who tries to speak for all women.
There was a point in time that I needed to be held really badly and asked my best friend who is a male if I could pay him to cuddle with me he wouldn't let me pay but I genuinely wanted to. I intentionally hold space for my clients and while I enjoy cuddling with them it is not the same for me typically. If I could afford it I would probably hire a professional cuddler right now
No
I have paid for a male pro & would do it again. It was a great experience! I felt comfortable & safe. We got to know each other via text beforehand. Then we went to dinner before our cuddle session. Sometimes it's easier when you can't find an enthusiast who you can build trust with.
Yes I would pay a pro but as other users have stated there is really none that have good profiles on here. I know some enthusiasts that I have cuddled with and they are so good if they were professionals I would pay them because I like having all the attention too. I’m an attention hog lol.