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iameantobeiameantobe
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Why is it so difficult to find a cuddle buddy for a single man ? I have been asked twice about getting a karma first before they would consider. How do I get a karma if you don't cuddle me. I am sorry but I am not into paid cuddles. I can't afford it.

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  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    It’s the constant feeling by mostly the men here. (Apologies if I’m not correct)

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @iameantobe It's certainly not unusual to have no interest in pros, but that is the fastest way to get karma. Male enthusiasts outnumber female enthusiasts here by at least 16-1 ... so while it is possible to find a woman to cuddle for free, it generally takes a lot of time and effort.

  • HuggycatbearHuggycatbear
    edited January 2025

    I have been asked twice about getting a karma first before they would consider. How do I get a karma if you don't cuddle me.

    This reminds me when I was younger and I was seeing the help wanted cashier signs asking for register experience lol

  • iameantobeiameantobe

    Thank you both for responding. I understand, but every profile user talks about healing and mental health but would charge £100 an hour & minimum booking time is 2 hours. I don't get it. I really don't.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @iameantobe What don't you understand? Getting any kind of mental health service costs money. And if a woman can make money cuddling, why would she do it for free?

  • AuroradreamAuroradream

    As a paid cuddle provider, when someone does approach me with the sentiment that they aren't inclined to use a ""pro" but in my case they might pay or need Karma, it's a flag and someone I'll avoid, block, sometimes report (since often they're also giving out phone numbers or emails) Also, until you've experienced the services of a reputable cuddle provider, how can you estimate it's worth??

  • iameantobeiameantobe

    @Auroradream I understand, but how would you describe if a man can't afford to pay £200 for a session ? Just because he can't afford, does that mean he is not allowed cuddles ?
    I understand it's a source of income for you, I totally get it.

  • dkapoordkapoor

    @iameabtobe i have done many cuddle sessions for free with whoever is local .you will find someone. Just stat active on here. And keep searching. And for rest of the peole.i thi k he is trying to fi d a genuine connection. And he prolly doesn't feel good to pay someone for cuddles.after all what do Male clients get to take home ? For paying $200 or whatever fee might be ? . You dont take anything home.im sure if I go to anystore spend $200.. there will be plenty of things i will be taking home.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    There are so many things we all need - like a home or food or a car that runs, but have to accept that we can’t have it because we don’t have the income.
    The best way to find human interaction or free hugs is to figure out how to have a friendship or relationship, get out more, join meetup groups. Be the kind of person someone wants to hug.

  • iameantobeiameantobe
    edited January 2025

    Reported by a member of the community and reviewed by a moderator. Please make comments about pro pricing in the pro pricing megathread.[CharlieBear]

  • ChrissyNoirChrissyNoir

    @WriterGF i appreciate your response. Men like you are highly valued ❤️

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @iameantobe And you have a right to your opinion. But if someone pays for a massage, what tangible thing do they bring home? Zip. This is about emotional comfort, not something tangible.

    That said, I can't afford pros either right now. But I have lived without cuddling a long time and the facts of life are I won't get any until my financial picture changes.

  • [Deleted User]gem7 (deleted user)

    @iameantobe Your opinion is similar to that of numerous men on this site and you are entitled to it. However, what @g-w-t-w said applies here. It really is no different than anything else that is not affordable.

  • dkapoordkapoor

    @WriterGF Getting a massage
    You are working on yourself on your body for better good. And we do all know spending m9ney on here isnt always worth it. You never know if you will be met with the expectations.

  • AuroradreamAuroradream

    @iameantobe I can't spend and I don't believe in it's worth spending are two different things.

  • RadiantHugsRadiantHugs Mod
    edited January 2025

    @dkapoor writes:

    For paying $200 or whatever fee might be ? . You dont take anything home.im sure if I go to anystore spend $200.. there will be plenty of things i will be taking home.

    If that’s how much you value those who provide you cuddles, it won’t surprise me at all that you aren’t getting success finding enthusiasts.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @dkapoor If I go to a new restaurant, I don't know if the food will meet my expectations. If I go see a movie, I don't know if I'll like it. You can certainly choose to only spend your money on sure things, but there are no sure things where other people are involved.

  • sillysassysillysassy

    Welcome to the site @iameantobe 😊

    Cuddle comfort is a fabulous place to meet people….. and it looks like you just joined TODAY

    There’s already a million threads that discuss why a pro is one great avenue, but it’s also completely reasonable that you are not interested in paid cuddles. Unfortunately finding a stranger to get comfortable enough to snuggle up to is not as easy as ordering a burger through a drive through. It happens… I am proof of that, but…. you just joined a few hours ago.

    Having this statement (that same as your original question) in your user profile doesn’t really tell an enthusiast much about who you are or why you joined a cuddling community.

    Why is it so difficult to find a cuddle buddy for a single man ? I have been asked twice about getting a karma first before they would consider. How do I get a karma if you don't cuddle me. I am sorry but I am not into paid cuddles. I can't afford it.

    It might be REALLY beneficial to read a few threads about other peoples experience and find some tips and tricks through other users responses.

    @CuddleDuncan has a great post that gives some guidance for newcomers….

    Wishing you all the best in your journey and as always… “May the Cuddle Gods be EVER in your favor.”

  • btc13btc13
    edited January 2025

    It's simple microeconomics. There aren't enough women to supply enough cuddles to all of the men who want them, so women in your area have set the price at £200. Enough men in your area are paying it for them to charge it and if there weren't, many women wouldn't be doing this, meaning it would be difficult for you to find a cuddle on this site anyway. If that's not in your budget, that's unfortunate but it is correct.

  • Ironman294Ironman294

    @iameantobe theres plenty of cuddlers in London that do not charge 100 pounds an hr nor do they ask for a 2 hr minimum.
    But if you save up 10-20 pounds a week in 10 or 5 weeks you will have enough for a cuddle. If it’s something you really want you will find a way to pay for it. Good luck!

  • pmvinespmvines

    Well your username and your whiny profile isn't helping your cause...

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