Just lost my wife of 40 years

[Deleted User]Danv (deleted user)

Hi I’m scared to live the rest of my life by myself

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  • Dear @Danv
    I am very sorry for your loss. I wish I had the words to help take away the pain and anguish you must be going through.

    PLEASE reach out to someone outside of this website for professional support. There are many good intentioned people on this site but I doubt anyone is really qualified to help you with what you are likely going through.

    John

  • I'm so so sorry for your loss.

    I hope you can find support and reprieve here, but as the other user said it's definitely essential to find support outside of this site as well.

    I see you live in Venango County, you may want to use their Warm Line when you need someone to talk to. It is non-emergency peer support telephone service that is in place to assist individuals who need someone to talk to or just listen. Phone representatives have been trained to facilitate supportive conversations and are available to take calls Monday through Friday from 4 to 8 p.m. (excluding holidays). All conversations and calls are 100% confidential. The number is 814-678-5235.

    Fox Street Church of God (229 Fox Street
    Franklin PA, 16323) also hosts a bereavement group that meets the 2nd Thursday of each month from 5 to 7 p.m. A meal is always provided, they suggest you call to RSVP- but are pretty okay with walk-ins.

    You are never alone and there will always be community and individuals to support you. Don't feel like you need to walk this extremely hard path alone. We all need support sometimes. We are here for you. 💛

  • @Danv I'm so sorry for your loss. 🙏🏽 That's heartbreaking. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  • edited January 2025

    @Danv I am so sorry. Please take the time to grieve and heal. Sit with yourself and your memories of her. You will get through this.

  • May you have a friend who can comfort you with their presence.

  • @Danv
    I see you have deactivated already, but huge hugs going out to you, sir. 🫂 Great advice has already been given, so I will simply say that I cannot begin to know what you're going through right now, but there are people here and out in the 3-D world who are or will be there for you through your grief and beyond.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🫂 Enthusiast 🌄 Travel Junkie 📸 Shutter Bug

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure that must be sp heartbreaking. losing anyone we've known that long is rough, but when it's our person; that quantifies beyond measure.
    I do understand plenty about loss and grief having lost almost everyone who ever loved me unconditionally. it's such a journey you go through when nothing will ever be the same again.
    I send you lots of love and light during this time. just know there is no real right or wrong way to grieve. you don't have to do it on anyone's time table.
    if you have people offering support; be sure to lean on them because it usually only lasts for a while. be sure to be gentle with yourself.

  • My deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family

  • [Deleted User]SweetlyBlissful (deleted user)

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. 💜

  • Losing a partner is not easy. Here’s to hoping you can find comfort and solace as time passes.

  • Loosing a partner is a great lost. May God grant you the fortitude to bear the lost.
    Accepte my condolence😔

  • I hope someone has connected with @danv sounds like he needs someone right now.

  • The OP deleted his account yesterday.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🫂 Enthusiast 🌄 Travel Junkie 📸 Shutter Bug

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