I need to move to a state that has a big cuddle comfort scene. Any recommendations?

CozyCuddles23CozyCuddles23
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I’m a 24 year old guy who has been living in nashville since august of 2022. To put it frankly, the cuddle comfort scene here is completely dead. Before this I used to live in florida and there were so many professional cuddlers to choose from.

Now I can’t even find 1. Since the entire time I’ve been here in TN I’ve literally only been able to see just one professional cuddler and that was back in 2022. She unfortunately deleted her account due to the bad experiences she had with some other guys.

Anyone have any advice on which states I should try to move to that have a big cuddling scene? Hiring a professional cuddler is like a form of therapy, so being able to see one at least once every few weeks would do wonders in providing me intimacy and companionship since I’m not able to get that irl.

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  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    Florida has many awesome individual cuddlers and facilitated parties in select locations. I can message you more information. Denver/Boulder areas of Colorado have awesome and active CC/other cuddle communities too!!! We had many events this month!

  • VitaminJVitaminJ

    Asheville has an amazing cuddle enthusiast community. And you’re always welcome to head over to Knoxville!

  • Mare_BearMare_Bear

    Aw, sorry to hear that. Hope you find your cuddle buddy

  • CuddlesofcuddleCuddlesofcuddle

    I have tons of competition here in Texas! So much to choose from. Great cuddlers. If i was closer to Austin I'd try to book with them too.

  • petewonderpetewonder

    Just searched to within 100 miles of Nashville, filtered to active within a month. There's a ton of options?

  • Bryan123Bryan123

    Washington and Baltimore have a descent amount of pros, both within the cities and in their surrounding areas. The cities are so close together that certain pros might be down to commute to the other city. If you live in between the cities would be your best option, like in Laurel and Jessup Maryland.

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited January 2025

    I honestly would advise against choosing where you move to and make a life and home for yourself and possible future generations based off of how many people of a certain thing or hobby are signed up to a niche interwebs site

  • LadyVelLadyVel

    Extend your search a little bigger than Nashville maybe? I live in Bowling Green and travel to Nashville for sessions all the time.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    The two biggest cuddle areas are both in in the USA. The northeastern megalopolis (Boston-DC) and southern California.

    The map in the sticky topic at the top of this board may aslo be useful.

    But remember that for somebody in your situation cuddling is a means, not an end. If you like Nashville in other ways, then their are other means to be found.

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc

    Los Angeles has a gigantic population obviously here, but female enthusiasts are rare. I have noticed that there are a lot of great profiles in Texas too! I’m gonna be there in two months so that will be a new experience for me.

  • CozyCuddles23CozyCuddles23

    @WestsideMarc Nice! You’re the 2nd person here that’s mentioned Texas. I checked the cuddle scene in Houston and Dallas and they both look pretty good! Can’t wait to get out of nashville so I can have a more consistent cuddle life lol.

  • BlessedEnergy4UBlessedEnergy4U

    Arizona …. Weather is nice, great variety of food choices and plenty of cuddlers to choose from that I’ve seen… good luck to you and your cuddle journey💛💛💛

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc

    I’m gonna be in Austin in two months. I’ve already begun my search. Lol.

  • cheeseboycheeseboy Mod

    Not states - but high concentrations of members can be found in: San Francisco bay area, Los Angeles/San Diego, Phoenix AZ, Orlando, Dallas/Houston, Minneapolis, Washington DC area.

  • [Deleted User]donhulio (deleted user)
    edited January 2025

    Why are you having a hard time finding cuddlers in Nashville? A quick search shows 33 within 20 miles who have been active in the last week, including 4 with 30+ karma (meaning they work frequently and there should be no reason you can't find a time to book with them).

    This is very confusing to me and a bit suspicious without further explanation from you.

  • KStarrKStarr

    DFW is definitely not a great recommendation as it's already declined overall due to too many "pros" joining. I've been here almost 3 years, and it's gotten crazy here. Its just flooded already.

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited January 2025

    Not trying to sound mean but just consider what's important. It seems a bit impulsive and short sighted to move somewhere based off of cuddle site members. There are sooo many important things to factor and that shouldn't even make it near the top of the list

  • UREverythingUREverything

    Im moving to a state.
    And a city.
    Abode.
    Bed.
    CC.
    🧞‍♂️

  • UREverythingUREverything

    Goals...

  • UREverythingUREverything

    Locked in...

  • PeopleLikeUsPeopleLikeUs

    Best Places for a Thriving Cuddle Scene:

    California:
    San Francisco Bay Area: Known for progressive attitudes, the Bay Area has cuddle professionals, cuddle parties, and organizations like Cuddle Sanctuary.
    Los Angeles: With its openness to alternative wellness practices, LA has a significant number of professional cuddlers and events.

    New York City, NY:
    NYC has a dense population and a demand for alternative therapies, making it a hub for professional cuddlers and cuddle groups. Organizations like Cuddle Comfort have a strong presence here.

    Seattle, WA:
    Seattle is home to several professional cuddlers and events like Cuddle Party. The city’s culture is open to exploring nontraditional forms of therapy.

    Portland, OR:
    Portland is arty, progressive, and touch-friendly. You’re likely to find both professionals and community events there.

    Austin, TX:
    As one of the most progressive cities in the South, Austin has a growing cuddle scene and alternative therapy communities.

    How to Research the Scene:
    Cuddle Comfort: Use the site to check the profiles of professional cuddlers in different cities. Look at the most active areas where professionals have lots of reviews or availability.

    Cuddle Party Website: This organization hosts platonic cuddle events and lists gatherings nationwide.

    Social Media/Meetup: Search for "platonic touch" or "cuddle therapy" groups in specific cities.

    If you're considering moving purely for this reason, try booking a short trip to a few cities to get a feel for the cuddle scene before making a big leap. It could save you time and resources. I think it’s great that you’re proactive about your needs and self-care.

  • AchterbahnAchterbahn

    @PeopleLikeUs I assume that was (mostly) generated by chatgpt or similar. It's probably a decent overview, but I wouldn't necessarily rely on it. As an example, for Seattle, it mentions Cuddle Party events. I went to one of those events in 2019 and kept following them, but they pretty much fell apart during covid. There are still some events in the area, but not under the "Cuddle Party" name.

  • PeopleLikeUsPeopleLikeUs

    @Achterbahn Yeah, chatGPT is only so current. Good to know.

  • Mela_BMela_B

    Philly, NYC, LA, Miami.

  • roni56roni56
    edited January 2025

    State doesnt matter, cash does ! Take enough of them out, will have people at your doorstep.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @roni56 He has plenty of pros in his area. Sounds like he wants a change of scenery.

  • [Deleted User]EmbraceSpace (deleted user)

    I’m a professional cuddler in Nashville,TN.

  • NYCCuddlerNYCCuddler
    edited January 2025

    [...] my friend is a pro cuddler and she's in Nashville..she doens't always check the site but [I can provide her username] if you want to cuddle with her..super sweet woman and maybe two years older than you..

    Flagged and reviewed. Modified comment. Pros should only be contacted by potential clients directly through the site. [CharlieBear]

  • stargazer04stargazer04

    Louisville KY has cuddle parties! I've been to one. And San Francisco has lots of cuddlists.

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