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DinehBeeDinehBee
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Why do Pro cuddlers get offended when you don't request their services in a specific time frame? Also some don't like people visiting their profiles. What if someone is seeking their services and taking their time to decide on when or if they should book with them. I've gotten blocked a couple of times already by just looking at profiles and not requesting services. I thought this website and especially for Pro cuddling was to search their expertise? What am I doing wrong? 🫤

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  • pmvinespmvines

    I've never had a cuddle pro offended that I've visited their profile to my knowledge

  • Sheena123Sheena123

    I know some pros will reach out to ppl looking at their page and blocking them if the looker expressing zero interest. And there are also times where pros feel creeped out when the same person looks at their profile every single day but never responds to a hello from her. Some pros don’t want someone window shopping if they aren’t going to book. It’s their business so if they see it as if it’s a physical storefront and someone keeps popping their head in every day to look at you and then leave, it can get annoying.

    For me, if I say hi after you look, I’ll write in the notes that I’ve said hello so I don’t keep doing it because I get a lot of repeat visitors to my page daily.

    I don’t understand what you mean when you say “search for their expertise” what does that mean? Like, you say to them you don’t want to book them but you have questions you’d like to ask them?

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles
    edited February 2025

    @DinehBee
    Some people are over the top ridiculous. If they want to block potential clients, it's their loss. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    There are absolutely cuddlers here who deal with social anxiety, shyness, etc. who take a long time to work up to messaging someone.

    There are cuddlers here who have never cuddled before...and I mean ever, anyone...and it can take months or years to work up the courage to dive in.

    There are cuddlers here who have a very difficult time making decisions, who will torture over the specifics on who to contact, how to contact them, and whether or not they are properly approaching them and including everything demanded of them in the Pro's profile.

    There are cuddlers here who check back to see if you're traveling, if you've updated your profile, etc.

    And yes, there are cuddlers here who are simply creepy, and will visit the same profile daily or multiple times a week, without ever saying a word. If people wanna block this type, I think it's more understandable...

    But from what others have shared on this subject, it's not usually that drastic. It's this weird alternate universe where people get pissed off for someone looking once or twice and not booking.

    Profiles are meant to be viewed... 🤣 If people are lookin' and not bookin', perhaps the profile needs some work.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🫂 Enthusiast 🌄 Travel Junkie 📸 Shutter Bug

  • RapidCuddlesRapidCuddles

    I don't mind if I visit someone and they say, “Thanks for stopping by.” Some believe if you stop by, it means you're interested. Not long ago, I had someone send me “thanks for stopping by” that then went on to have a 7-10 minute read on all they require, expectations, etc. Much the same info was in their 12-15 minute read profile. Too much and well, it’s not for me.

    Some here come across pretty demanding to me, “ I require…, and require…, also require… oh yeah and…”

    This is a personal flag to me they lack the personality of some one I would enjoy spending a few hours with. They maybe perfect for some one else.

    If we start talking about booking I get it 100% and agree 100% in it being done. Before that, my read is its the wrong personality for me. I want some one who is client focused any time I'm paying for a service. If your a pro, keep it simple. No one starts a sale with terms and conditions.

    In a way, look at it as easier for your. Mesa is a great market. Lots of pros. Upward and onward.

  • Mike403Mike403

    I had a pro accuse me of having non-platonic intentions just because I clicked on her profile twice.

  • txhoneybeetxhoneybee
    edited February 2025

    I just say thanks for visiting my profile. If they come by again, a week or 2 or 3 weeks later. I just say thanks for re-visiting. Sometimes they respond on the initial thank you. I personally don’t care if they book or not. But the spinning the block over and over and never booking, I MIGHT block.

    Some say they were just looking. Some respond about whatever. Depending on how I feel and what is said, I may or may not block.

    But if someone asks a bunch of questions and doesn’t book, I might block. Sometimes I don’t. Mood dependent. If I feel they’re time wasting…blocked. Definitely potentially blocked, if books and cancels last minute and claims they will reschedule and never does…blocked

  • SsbbwcuddlecakeSsbbwcuddlecake

    You can tell a time waster.

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