What are you most grateful for on Cc ?

brownglucosebrownglucose
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I’ll go first, I just want to take a moment to say how grateful I am for the people I’ve met on this site over the past few months. Back in September, I had my first IRL pro cuddle, and since then, I’ve met over 50 incredible humans in four months. When I first joined, I just needed a reason to get out of the house—too much screen time, talking to my plants a little too much, the usual. But through Cuddle Comfort, I found something so much bigger.

This experience has let me do what I love most: caregiving, making people feel less alone, and, of course, professional-level snuggling. Every single person I’ve met has left an imprint on me (some more literally than others—looking at you, Swedish masseuse cuddler. Thank you!).

I’m not sure how much longer I’ll be here (for no particular reason, certainly not impending doom), but my heart is fuller, my cuddle count is higher, and my cuddle list is stacked—Chicago, Boston, Philly, NYC, orlando Baltimore, Reston. I even have friends in countries I never dreamed of cuddling in, just know it’s been an honor. My heart is so much fuller having met some of you.

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  • AlyLaurenAlyLauren

    I love this post so much! I have seen your profile and seen you in the forums. While I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you, please add Colorado to the list of places with friendly faces for you!

    I didn't realize we had so much in common. I just started in August! I am also grateful for similar reasons. I have met so many interesting people, both clients and enthusiasts and people at events and other pros. That has definitely been wonderful.

    I am also grateful for how much I have learned! I have gotten so much more comfortable and confident in my boundaries and asserting them, I've learned so much about connection and intimacy and the MANY ways humans can be close. I have had experiences I didn't even know I wanted to have until I started cuddling.

    And I'm grateful for you! Thanks for posting something so positive and encouraging gratitude and a warm fuzzy thread for people to share and connect. Gratitude is as important a practice as regular hugs! You are a wonderful human being. 💛

  • HuggycatbearHuggycatbear
    edited February 2025

    As a client on Cc, I want to say, thanks for the love. <3

    What I learned is true value in myself over time. I take pride in trying to be the best host and to make others feel safe. When I first started, I made the mistake of asking a cuddler out. I don't do that anymore. I learned to enjoy the moment.

    There are times cuddlers felt so safe with me things got more sensual. There was even a moment where we had the audacity to do the Eskimo kiss! It turned into a playful, laughing moment. I don't push boundaries. I just hold them tight, despite the sensations and feelings wanting to go places.

    I learned from a cuddler, that all that energy can go right back into the heart and become something completely new and unique I have with them.

    And of course the mix of personalities. As a connector, I enjoy the stories and glimpses into people's inner universe as they allow me. And I love being seen.

    Don't feel so invisible anymore!

  • [Deleted User]easylike (deleted user)

    When your married and in a content but AFFECTION-LESS marriage not wanting to destroy the family unit, it's tough at times and being retired you lose that daily connection with people. The truth is CC has opened the door to somewhat, though some may disagree, innocent affection and human connection.

    I have had one physical cuddle session with a wonderful young lady that stayed, for which it was intended, strictly platonic with cuddling, conversation and laughter but this is something I choose not to do on a regular basis but hope to find someone who would enjoy messaging regularly to discuss life's experiences.

    That is one reason I keep coming back to this forum,

  • [Deleted User]CharlesGrove (deleted user)

    @Sideon @sillysassy @pmvines

  • HollydollhugsHollydollhugs

    I’m most grateful for the forever friendships that I have made here, the ones that last a lifetime. Also the connections I’ve made with people I’ve met with. I went so long with what felt like a missing piece to a puzzle and I feel like this was that missing piece and I’m eternally grateful.

  • pmvinespmvines

    @CharlesGrove

    It's the poops stories isn't it ?

    Grateful for you my friend 🤗

  • ThetaKittyThetaKitty

    I’m grateful for the opportunity to expand my vulnerability skills. I didn’t realize how closed off I had become, it happens so subtly, and it’s been amazing to have the space to stretch out and take up space and fill it with love. 💕

  • [Deleted User]CharlesGrove (deleted user)

    @pmvines I am, admittedly, a sucker for a good poop story.

    But it’s also because you are a good human, and do your growling best to engage with the world with kindness, patience, compassion, and courage.

    I appreciate you too.

  • JargogleBearHugJargogleBearHug

    I've made a good friend that I met through this site and had a cuddling session with. I wasn't expecting a true friendship, but I'm grateful that it happened.

  • JackNJJackNJ

    I have not had many cuddle sessions with people on this site, but even without cuddling, I have met some really cool people and have had some really great conversations with them. I still hear from a couple every now and then.

  • HoosCuddlingHoosCuddling

    Ooh. @brownglucose has been super active in the forums, and she was even in my city for a brief period of time. By all accounts, seemed like a conscientious pro cuddler. This message was really nice!

    And now, she's banned. Just goes to show you can't really know someone over the Internet, I guess....

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    I’m not sure how much longer I’ll be here (for no particular reason, certainly not impending doom)

    But there was an impending BOOM!

  • [Deleted User]gem7 (deleted user)

    Ooh, that must have left a mark.

  • cheeseboycheeseboy Mod

    @HoosCuddling she made this farewell post knowing that she was likely heading in that direction, as the moderation team deeply investigated a recent incident.

    Leaving the post active for now, as there are a lot of genuine people making genuine connections here and this was showing gratitude towards them.

    Let's continue to keep it positive. :)

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    I am grateful to the mods for keeping the site and forums civil and safe as much as possible. Thank you.

  • [Deleted User]gem7 (deleted user)

    So very grateful for the team of moderators who muddle through the messes to keep this site as close to safe and platonic as possible.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    Well regardless of the ban, this is an opportunity…
    I’m grateful for CC for a wide variety of reasons. But the most important are the connections I’ve made with real live people - those who open up about themselves and contribute valuable insight, a chance to learn about others who have had such different life experiences than myself.
    And…
    For all the many kind hearted people who make me feel that it’s safe to open up with my pov.
    For those who I’ve had the privilege to meet irl and cuddle!
    For some of the humor and 🙄
    Of course for the Mods being there to keep an eye on the chaos.
    And for the time killing potential that keeps me from the tough job of figuring out my life!

  • waynewvwaynewv

    I’m glad I found the site, by accident.
    I have met some really nice people here.

  • HuggycatbearHuggycatbear

    Dayum I'd like to know how she got banned.

  • QuietTimesQuietTimes

    I'm grateful for each and every one of the pro cuddlers I've met with. I've never once had a bad experience.

  • BigSpoonBlanketBigSpoonBlanket
    edited February 2025

    Being able to take a two minute break from work and check to see if you have any messages. Always always disappointed but always that glimmer of hope.

  • HoosCuddlingHoosCuddling

    @cheeseboy all of that makes sense. Thanks!

  • pmvinespmvines

    I am grateful for never having made any real interwebs enemies here, even though I know I can be an ass sometimes

  • Nature_Lover_Nature_Lover_

    Endlessly grateful for the friendships I've made through this site ! Deep conversations, impactful connections, and lasting friendships. 💗

  • cheeseboycheeseboy Mod

    I've met some amazing people through the site, and know that there are still many amazing people left to meet - where we all share a common interest of cuddling.

    One of the things I enjoy about traveling for work is repeat sessions with cuddlers I've previously met. You get to catch up on everything that happened in the last [however long] and usually jump right back into the comfy snuggles about where you left off. Also getting to see their pets again is heartwarming. :)

  • tiffanybabytiffanybaby

    Connecting with people

  • [Deleted User]Analyticalace89 (deleted user)

    🤔

  • CambridgeGuyCambridgeGuy

    I’ve met some lovely people through this site. As well as for actual cuddles, some have just been online friendships. But everyone, without exception, has been wonderful and bighearted, generous and lovely.

  • pmvinespmvines

    The anthology of boner threads. Now I finally know what happens if you get a boner when cuddling after 50 long years of being in the dark

  • lovingspoonfulllovingspoonfull
    edited February 2025

    Im still pretty confused about it. I thought you needed to call a nurse to put a pin in it.

    Just goes to show you need to treat the forums with a pinch of salt. 😇

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