For wheelchair users (me). What's the best cuddling position if I ever requested? I was debating whether or not to post.
Lay on bed side by side and let her help you figure out by trying different things possible
In my opinion this is an excellent topic for a post.
Hello! Great question. It really depends on your mobility (also effort/time it may take getting into some positions), comfort, and personal preferences. Finding a cuddler who is patient and willing to work with you to explore different cuddle positions with you is key.
If you can lay down on your side, cuddles like spooning and face to face work well. Laying on your back, cuddles like where the other person lays against your side and puts their head on your chest/shoulder would work. Sitting cuddles like side by side, possibly mama bear baby bear, or even them sitting and you laying your head in their lap are just a few that may work.
Wishing you the best and future warm cuddles.
I don't have the experience yet to give a useful answer, but if you edit the title of your thread to include the vital aspect of "for wheelchair users", I imagine a lot more people who do have helpful advice would notice the thread. 😊
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There is no standard answer for this. Please be more specific.
Wheelchair user encompasses a massive range of ability levels. You have people with amputation who may be incredibly athletic and have no other issues, all the way to quadrapalegics. Body weakness, deformity, range of motion, and ability to move independently just has such a wide range.
Personally I can use myself as an example. I am an ambulatory chair user. I can stand on my own, transfer, and even walk a bit but I'm really bad at it. A thing that I cannot do is lay on my back for extended periods, or for any period at all with any extra weight because I have reduced muscle mass and eventually I struggle to breathe.
As a member of a wheelchair floorhockey league for a bit over a decade I have experience with quite a range of ability levels.