It may be nice for the pros to be able to post their calendar availability for the month. It would make the whole process of setting up apts easier. cuddlers could see what days were available and just be able to pick the day and time slot themselves. Just an idea.
Also id like the standard for photos to be the same across the board, and maybe it's just me but I'm still salty because my beach pictures were not ok and I was told to remove them. No sexy or anything just me in a big hat bathing suit picture,when I've seen way worse. A moderator then told me after looking at my profile the would have removed the too.like what?
@virbert I think that should apply to all, pretty tired of looking up cuddlers in my area and have haven't logged in ,in months
@Janelle19 Can't you search based on when they were last online?
@WriterGF yes but I was responding to a comment above. And basically just saying these people should be removed as well
Well I think that all of my thoughts and suggestions should be taken under advisement and that rules and policies should be adjusted to reflect maximum accommodation for me. Because, well, I'm important. My gripes. My grievances. My appeasement. My way.
Not sure I can get behind removing people just because they aren't active on the site. I know there are sites, like Hubspot, that do mandate you log on every so often, but I'm not sure what it does for them. Basically, you log on for five seconds, leave, and that's it. Somebody who is a member here but not active isn't blocking other people from joining and can easily be avoided just by searching for people who have been on recently. Who are they hurting?
@WriterGF agreed. If they get kicked off, they would lose their karma and friends. Some people come back after years away. It would suck to have to start over from scratch. The filter can be set so they never show up in a search, so it's really a non issue that they be allowed to keep stay
[ @roni56 , there is one and only one thread where you can complain about Pro prices. This thread is not it. [-Sid]]
@LadyVel @WriterGF unfortunately when I look at my karma I don't see any option to view hidden Karma. Feel free to message me and let me know how to find this. But I guess my addendum to my suggestion would be it shouldn't be hidden anywhere. Karma should be Karma where everyone can see it when they initially click "Karma".
Also- is there a way to get a notification when someone @'s me? I would have never seen you all's responses if I hadn't come back. (Found it! I had it on pop up only which wasn't happening so I added email)
Yay for the stickied topic!!! SUCCESSSSSSS lol Thanks @Sideon !
Add a like button to the threads. Also a notification when someone responds so there doesn't have to be an @ or searching through multiple pages to find it. And can we perhaps get a "read" notice on introduction messages that are opened vs those collecting cobwebs by aloof users? I'd rather know I was left on read than wonder.
Allow a field in profile to specify payment methods accepted.
I love all the suggestions! Strongly would recommend an actual app though. For whatever reason I can't get notifications that I have a message even though I have my notifications on. So I'm constantly having to either login or check my emails.
Remove the women that are here clearly looking for sugar daddies
The gray scale text is a little too gray for some of us. Could it be made a little bit darker?
@mistic233 Mods can only do this if these people are reported. If they are asking for money and not a pro, they'll get dealt with.
@u12dans it's set at #33333 which is pretty standard across most websites, The dev team can easilly change it to #11111, Not sure who gets to raise a ticket though
I looked back through several pages and did a forum search but didn't find the same suggestion(s). Apologies if these are retread ideas:
Searching profiles: While the default sort is last online, it would help to add to advance search options 'not viewed yet'.
I sometimes search up to 6 weeks in advance of a trip as a first pass then again as the date approaches which can result in me viewing profiles 3+ times, mainly because the main profile pic changed.
It would also help to see a visual prompt if a profile has been favorited at the search results level. Maybe a heart or something. I use favorites like an initial bookmark (which I'd guess is pretty common) so seeing that prompt would help me avoid unnecessarily viewing a profile again. While most don't care it does alarm some people out so I'd prefer to have options to reduce repeat viewings.
@DogsTrave Interesting ideas. In a similar situation, I have jotted down the names of people I have visited, especially if they are not people I see a reason to visit again.
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Making it easier for a non-cuddler to post their picture. I had to use too many pics and adjust sizes all the time to finally get my pic accepted. It's still not the one I want but it will do.
I think it would be a great/welcoming addition to add a button for “personal pronouns” just like the height, pets, fav movie filter. (People can choose to fill it out or leave it blank like everything else) When sending a welcome message it’s great to have clarity about those filters and it also adds another layer of relating.
ALSO, I would LOVE to have the first few characters of “notes” show on the first search of the profile.
I think this would accommodate a lot of the suggestions for “previously viewed”, liked, favorites, no-go, already sent a message, blocked, kinds of reminders in profiles that can be seen before you ever click on someone’s profile. Making a short note that pops up as a reminder but only viewed by yours truly would be delightful.
Thank you for all that is done to make the website user friendly and easier for connecting!
Definitely agree with all of that. And in addition to that, an option to display pronouns on the forums. Most names are ambiguous, not everyone has a profile picture, not everyone bothers to look at profile pictures. I've still got a few months before I can do the once-a-year name change to add "she/they".
It would be wonderful if the Block feature extended into the Forums.
It would make the Moderator’s jobs far easier too.
It would be great if we weren’t required to pay to use the site until we’ve booked a session, I’m not in a hotspot for platonic cuddling here in the inland northwest. So not getting much business. Also is there a cost breakdown somewhere on the site? I’m currently paying like $20 a month just to have a profile. And that’s the “discounted rate”? What’s the typical rate and why did I get a discount? Does everyone that uses the site pay? Or just pros? Just seeing how I can continue to justify my desire to do this work if I can’t afford to be on the site because I’m not even booking sessions here. I really want to make this work, but there has to be a return on investment if I’m paying monthly to be here.
@CozyCudy - Ask them to take the pro badge off your profile then it will no longer cost anything to be here. Male pros usually don't get clients anyway especially if they only cuddle women.
@CozyCudy What Mike403 said. It's likely not about where you live. There's virtually no demand for male pros here. There are loads of guys lined up to cuddle women for free, so no reason to pay for it. Save yourself the money and quit being a pro.
The platform definitely need a app to download
@Asya Ask, and ye shall receive! Go to your settings...
The ability to categorize via distance, recent activity, price etc etc