What's missing in a person's profile ?

happybearhappybear
in General

I've been finding some many profile's that don't have any info for their profile or whether or not they host or can be a guest, pros or non-pros the same, or generic locations.
For pros the missing info becomes difficult because you have to go back and forth to get schedule and,location to get to the point of setting something up. What other things are missing that could help the processes go smoother ?

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  • MaxCuddleMaxCuddle

    I see a certain rate at the top of the profile page. Then when I read on their rate is usually more the first hr than previously stated. Top may say $80 an hr. As u read on it will say $100 the first hr $80 ea hr. Alot of ppl don't mention age preference but I know alot due discriminate Pros and non Pros.

  • [Deleted User]SJSpooner (deleted user)

    I will chime in here.

    As an enthusiast, I often get contacted by people with next to zero information about themselves in their profiles. Certainly nothing in the "About Me" section, but not even anything about relationship status, or whether they can host or want to be a guest, or height. NADA!

    I have no idea if these people are just looking around or just don't understand that zero info is not likely to lead to a successful cuddle. I've stopped caring! LOL

  • mickcuddlemickcuddle

    I agree that if someone is serious about making a connection here, there should be adequate information in their profile. But, I realize that what is important to one person may not be to another. I have kind of a rule I use in all online sites, and that is don't ask for anything you aren't giving yourself. So, if left-right handedness is import to you,

    Don't ask: Are you left handed or right handed?
    Do ask: I'm right handed what about you?

    BTW: in my mind left and right handedness should only be important if you are making seating arrangements at a dinner table, and maybe not even then.

  • [Deleted User]galowglass (deleted user)
    edited July 2018

    @mickcuddle That was a "handy" disclaimer. grin

  • [Deleted User]SJSpooner (deleted user)

    @mickcuddle - Actually "handedness" can be an issue in negotiating which side you'd like to lie on, etc. I am actually left handed and so usually prefer to be on the right side of someone if I am going to be touching them with my hands. My left hand is dominant and so I prefer to be in a position that leaves that hand open for things. LOL

    Just felt inclined to throw that out there! :-)

  • happybearhappybear

    **these things are important, at the dinner table, in bed, and in a profile, it helps everything move along smoother. i'm left handed and I prefer to have it available to massage their back as oppose to be under my cuddler's head.

    @SJSpooner - the profile is so important, its sets up a dynamic, that which to relate too, it says a lot about a person, and sometimes what they are looking for. I read your profile and appreciate the effort in putting it together, I read a lot of them, stop caring for the one's that are incomplete, a lot of good people here.

  • [Deleted User]Stitcher (deleted user)

    As another left handed cuddling enthusiast, I agree that being left handed can impact cuddling positions. :)

    I also don’t understand folks who leave their profiles completely blank. I get that not everyone is going to want to share everything about themselves on their profile, but when there’s no information there I feel like the other person is being standoff-ish and anti-social. Personally I prefer to cuddle with people who give off a more approachable vibe.

  • mickcuddlemickcuddle

    @sjb1973 thanks for the lefty tip. My older sister is a lefty, but growing up in the 1940’s and 50’s they relented and let her write left-handed but catching and throwing a ball and a bunch of other things, they pretty much made her go with the righties. I forget sometimes how hard that must have been.

    @Stitcher and it seems somehow that the ones with the empty profiles are the ones who send other people the most questions!

  • [Deleted User]DivinMomntTruth (deleted user)

    I v3 been trying to put information in my profile over and over and over and over again, and it always gives me an error message saying data rate field required!

    I looked up errors for people, deleted my account and started it not through Facebook, and it is still entirely not working. Every time I add all the profile stuff it gives me that same error message. Is there somewhere I should be able to select my own personal required rate? Because there is not one over and over again. I've been searching using both mobile and regular PC. Please help

  • CuddleStellaCuddleStella

    As a pro, i don't mind those who send me inquiries when they have almost no information on their profiles. however, as a pro, i understand that MY info is definitely helpful in the process of scheduling a session. I provide the incall location and my availability is generally open to anytime, i just can't always promise that i'll be free because someone already may have booked me. lol

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