I'm open to anyone regardless of age. I think it's wonderful to bridge any age gap if that happens! One of my most consistent clients is 30 years older than me and we have a grande time time talking about all the things and learning from each other during our cuddles.
@Gwynne42 - I think you are onto something about social circles. In my present role, I am the only Gen X while the rest of the team is all Gen Z. We get along great and are very comfortable with each other.
Age gaps with cuddle partners has never been an issue to me but it may have been for some people I have reached out to who didn’t respond.
Absolutely open to cuddling and connecting with anyone who is safe and respectful 💗
@JohnR1972 While you may suspect that non response was prompted by a problem with age gap, I invite you to consider that many other things are possible. As responsive and attentive as I aim to be concerning my inbox, sometimes messages are missed. Just a thought. ✌️ 💗
Mark Twain once said, “Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.” While I’m young, I’ve found that I make the best connections with people (women and men) 30-40 years my senior. My old soul keeps me going, I wouldn’t change it. Turn on some Rick Astley, George Michael and Lynyrd Skynyrd and let’s vibe out!!!
Hey there I’m a pro and I cuddle all ages.. no discrimination here. Is all about the chemistry and connections. My best sessions have been with older gentlemen's. Step out of your comfort zone and have a welcoming attitude.
Hello fellow cuddlers! I personally am right in the middle age-wise, so not sure how much my option would contribute to the debate 🤷🏻♀️ I’m pretty comfortable cuddling people of any age, gender and ability. Soothing knows no age, if we vibe and keep to the rules and good hygiene, everyone is welcome 🤗
@Nature_Lover_ I agree 100% and I didn’t mean for that comment to sound like a complaint or something that happens frequently. I was just acknowledging the possibility that age might be an issue with some people and non-response is the path of least resistance.
There were at least 2 pros on here about 2-3 years ago who had a statement in their profiles they only cuddled with men in a certain age range (roughly their age +/- 10 years). However I think both of the ones I saw have either been banned or deleted.
As a pro, whoever has the dollars and follows the rules is a welcome cuddler. 🤗
Connection is huge bonus. Age is irrelevant.
As a pro, whoever has the dollars and follows the rules is a welcome cuddler.
@Bripic that’s the real and most honest answer. 👏💯
I Would not mind an older cuddlebuddy. I would prefer one actually. I think if everyone is respectful of eachother's boundaries age doesn't matter.
I prefer to cuddle with women who are at least my age or older, and by older, I mean at least five years but no more than fifteen. However, if I really feeling the vibe with someone, I might stretch that to twenty, but that's as far as it goes.
@pmvines methinks you have a rival for zombie threads reanimator 😂
I've cuddled from 18 to well into 70s. Does not matter, an adult is an adult.
I’ve had young guys and “older” guys attempt to push a session entirely too far before. Age is legit just a number! The more life experience a person has, the more they have to offer conversationally. I lost my grandma in January of 2025 and there’s SO MUCH I wish I would have asked her about that just never occurred to me before. All I can say is make the best of every moment you get with anyone and everyone. Be respectful and conduct yourself as you’d want others to (according to the rules as stated in plain english on the home page of this site!)
I live with a four year old and her mom... she (the little one, not the mom) came in for a cuddle last night. So freaking precious. As far as work goes I've cuddled ages ranging from 20's-80's. It doesn't really matter to me.
My community/friend group ranges from 2-80 (possibly higher, but I don't know everyone's age). One of my favorite people to cuddle with at cuddle parties was my friend's mom. She was hilarious and so personable. She unfortunately passed away a few years ago. A lot of the community went and cuddled with her while she was on hospice.
I used to think, oh it's the older ones who push the boundaries. But truly, any age of human can be bad with boundaries. I haven't found much of a pattern. More of the mid ranges if anything, although my vetting process is so good at this point that no one's messed with me in a long time.
Youngest person I’ve cuddled with was 20 and the oldest was 47. Most of the pros I cuddle with are in their 30s or late 20s
They are human ….age shouldn’t matter
I’m 50 and age means nothing to me. I don’t care if they are 18 or 100. When I was much younger, a woman more than twice my age was very interested in me. The age difference didn’t bother me. I’ve cuddled a girl half my age that kept dropping hints that she wanted to do a lot more than just cuddle. I played ignorant. I’m not looking for sex… I’m actually scared of it because it’s been so long and I definitely don’t want to commit to anything. Just looking for friends who like to hug/cuddle.
Age is just a number. I’m comfortable cuddling all ages as long as they are respectful and I feel safe…except men under 30. I am not generalizing or saying every 20-something yr old is like this but emotional and logistical maturity are still emerging.. at least in the experience I’ve had here, so for those reasons to prevent uncomfortable situations and maintain peace of mind and safety I do not cuddle men under 30 but offer online sessions. I do understand there are 20- somethings yr olds who can be very mature . 🤗🤗🤗
@zoeloveshugs It’s science. Frontal lobe isn’t usually fully developed until age 26-30.
I've noticed that with younger partners I tend to feel more of a pull towards embodying a mentor type role, which is not the kind of experience that I'm seeking from cuddling connections. With people who are closer to my age it's easier to have things feel mutual, or to allow myself to feel taken care of.
A body is a body. Two bodies touching = a soothing hormonal response. I’ll take the mellowed out 80 year old over the 18 year old any day
Here in Albuquerque, it appears that the older professionals near my age are more expensive than the younger ones. I can't afford much, but I don't want to be creepy or make anyone uncomfortable, either. Advice? Thoughts?
I've cuddled with people 30 years older and 25 years younger. I don't believe it's an issue for most pros. Doesn't ever hurt to reach h out and just inquire if they're free to set up a cuddle session. See how or if they respond
The formula I have heard is half your age + 7. I guess this starts working if you're at least 14 or older.i suppose It could be problematic if your over 150 .
@trysdet
That formula was definitely created for a avoiding statutory situations with dating/sex.
I suppose it has some value in adulthood as well. But it becomes subjective. For example a 40 year old now has a cutoff with 27. For some 27 year olds that's a hard pass. But there are 25 year olds how may be very open to someone who's 40.
And with all that in mind, one can imagine cuddling being very much separate from dating or sexual/erotic touch. So the standards may vary from person to person.
For me it’s not an issue. But I can understand the age range when they list it. I have cuddled some way younger and older than me. I’m sure my age has been a factor in not getting reply’s back when I reach out to other cuddliers but it’s ok. I have always been very open minded to ANYONE that likes to cuddle .
Consenting adults? OK.