I'm in once a lose 100 pounds and undergo hair restoration. I will be the biggest cash cow this place has ever had.
I don’t know how the Pro application process goes, but it might be beneficial to tell any aspiring male Pro that they will NOT have female clients.
Just say it upfront, bluntly and in no uncertain terms.
I think that would be a great way to keep people with nefarious motivations out. Also makes it less of a scam as you would know, this will not be profitable & you better be doing this for the love of the game. 🏀 🤗
Lastly, I really enjoyed listening to that Spotify & greatly respect what you’re trying to do here @justjennn .
I had one enthusiast a couple years back that was such a good cuddle that I said, if anybody could just instantly know how good you were, you would do well to be a pro. It was the dreamy, cuddle puddle, laughing and crying all night, kind of cuddle so therapeutic for both of us. 1000% pure intentions lol, which made it so easy to let my guard down and really have the most amazing connection. I would recommend him as a pro and I would pay him to cuddle again. But he has abandoned his profile:(
Hi everyone, I’m James in Spokane, Washington!
I started out here as a pro a few months ago, but didn’t have any luck in my area. I did get some amazing karma just based off of a chat conversation I had with a pro in another state. That made me feel so seen and valued 🥰
A few men in here discouraged me from being a pro because there’s really not a demand for male cuddlers. So it didn’t seem that paying to be a pro was a good investment. It really is a woman’s market I suppose. But I’m hoping that changes someday. Just today a female pro encouraged me to attend some meet and greets and build some connections and karma and try it again. That was definitely nice to hear, since I’ve had such hopes for this venture.
I have so much affection and intentional energy and empathy to give. Feeling pretty touch deprived and hoping someone in my area gives me a chance! I’d love to travel and Cuddle in other cities too! I’m so ready to thrive in this!
P.s. @KozyKim I think I’d fill his shoes nicely! Hope to get the opportunity someday 🤗
Aah thank you for the mention @sillysassy and @OhioMike! It’s a bummer I got sick and missed out on meeting both of you at the Galveston meet & greet!
I’ve truly found hosting cuddle party rewarding - and I continue to host them seeing how my own life continues to be transformed by it. Last year health challenges forced me to take a break from events - but I’m truly looking forward to starting up again!
As for my own nominations for male cuddlers, two people I have cuddled with myself are wonderful humans @nurturingman and @SuperManCuddles. Also @billiam who I have had the pleasure of meeting at one of my events is just a beautiful soul. I’d say if any of you got the chance to cuddle any of them - go!
I’ve thought about becoming pro, but there’s not much market for cuddles in my area. Especially not a male cuddler. I also need to build more karma. Maybe one day! I’ve had many compliments about my cuddles from people I’ve met on other sites, so it might be worth a shot.
@RadiantHugs Thank you very much! It is always a pleasure to spend time with and cuddle you!!!🤗🫂🎉
I would have to go with @nurturingman even though he is no longer a Pro, he was one of the most professional and warming spirits I’ve cuddled on this site! Can’t praise him enough!
Thanks, @Connecticut1977 ☺️
@Katelyn_B I have personally found that regardless of the genders I'll cuddle with for money, most people do not want to hire a man to cuddle them. I always see people saying "you'll get more business if you open up your practice to cuddling with men," and while that's partly true, what limits a male pro is not so much his clients' gender as his own. I believe what has to change is the market, not just the man; that is, there have to be more clients of any gender who are willing to hire a man as a professional cuddler.
@CozyCudy wouldn't that be nice I would love for you to try. Sorry I thought I commented back
@nurturingman: Good luck! 🙂 I hope you are able to find clients, and kudos too to the (apparently) few men who have made cuddling work for them as a business.
If it helps I pay myself for every person I cuddle. Even though they may not know it, my cuddle partners have had the rare opportunity to embrace greatness and that’s worth something.
They will have to embrace humility somewhere else.
Interesting topic!
I had a previous account here (deleted for dumb reasons, RIP old account), and I dabbled in being a pro for almost a year. I was encouraged to do so by a lovely professional cuddler. One aspect that no one really has discussed yet is the disparity between male and female pros in how you maintain your professional status. The site currently does not charge female pros a monthly fee to be a pro. They just have to pay a percentage (I believe it was 15%) of their booking every time they get one. Meanwhile, men must pay a fee around $25 a month to maintain pro status.
Not only is it an incredible uphill battle against all sorts of stigma to be a male pro, but you are actively losing money just to keep the pro tag. I believe this is also something that discourages male pros from staying pro. How long would you keep a pro tag if you're getting zero clients, male or female?
Just my 2c and something that hasn't really been brought up yet.
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I don’t know any male pros but kind of excited to get to know some
@Calming_Hugs I have communicated with for many years (he is not a pro)! He always has an abundance of positive energy, interesting life experiences to share, very accepting person, good communicator and active listener. If I was in London or he was in Florida would definitely 💯 meet in person!
@Drewski11138 The fee exists because male pros do next to no business, so the site would have no way to make any money off them otherwise. All of the revenue burden would fall on the women.
Me. I'm not a pro and barely a cuddlers, but still pretty sure I'm awesome.
@VaughnCuddles I didn’t see your mention before. Thanks, and right back at you!
@Big_Green_23 your statement about Male Pros would NOT have any female clients. That unfortunately is incorrect. When I was cuddling as a Pro, I had numerous female clients. So if you want to give advise, always give positive advice, never negative!
@safensecure4u2 love your input on positive advice!