Better system for getting rid of creeps that pretend to consent but are actually trying to assault women.
I think everyone who creates an account should be ID verified... whether they are pro or not...too many banned people can re create accounts to stalk/harass. Currently unsafe for pros
Searchable Messages (by keyword and username) is still top of my list.
I like the change made to the favorites section; I feel that the friends section could benefit from the same layout.
I would like to be able to choose a time zone when I am booking sessions.
I think someone mentioned sorting favorites and messages once. I’d second that. Would be nice to be able to group them by location for example.
@lovingspoonfull you read my mind that's exactly what I was going to suggest also. It would make it much easier to be able to sort by location for those of us with multiple cities.
I'm not sure if this goes here or another thread, but I noticed that for some reason (at least on desktop) I can't remove people from my favorites while on my favorites page anymore. So say I favorited someone but they delete or deactivate their profile for a while, now it's just stuck there taking up space. I like to clean it out and used to just go down removing any like that but now the only way I can remove someone is by clicking on their profile and removing via their profile page. This takes longer and doesn't allow me to remove profiles that I can't access anymore (whether it be deactivated, deleted, or otherwise). I don't know if this was some bug in a recent update or not, but thought I would point it out.
@CSnMUS87 I think that was intentionally done. (But that is just a guess) It is a very recent change.
@CSnMUS87 If you click on the three little dots at the top right hand corner of the page it lets you edit your favorites. And it'll have the little trash can next to the person if you want to delete them
@MTex I missed that as well. Thank you for sharing! 😁
Glad I could help 😊
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Remove inactive profiles after like 90 days would be great. Give the option to take offline if taking a hiatus.
Remove inactive profiles after like 90 days would be great.
Nope. This has already been discussed ad nauseum, but you can adjust your search criteria to only include profiles that have been more recently active.
Give the option to take offline if taking a hiatus.
That option already exists, it's a deactivated or muted profile.
@GuyverGordon @MTex Thanks though now I see I'm able to remove again like before so time for a cleanup.
This might have been said but that's a lot of pages to search through. I wish there was a way to archive conversations in messages. Like I don't want to necessarily delete them and want to be able to reference them later, but a way to archive conversations i know i won't be following up on any time soon.
Does this site alert you if someone made you their favorite? If it doesn't, can it do so? Or at least give you a number if how many favorited you?
Or at least give you a number if how many favorited you?
That could be kind of fun ... I could see that being a little frustrating too: either a "Who is favoriting me?" or a "Why is no body favoriting me?" 😅
Can this site also allow folks to opt out who has visited our profiles? Especially gender-wise?
Like, let's say you're a lady. And other ladies accidentally / innocently clicked on your profile for all sorts of random reasons. Can this site create something where we can opt out to see who has clicked on our profile. Sometimes you just don't wanna see it. Maybe by gender or age. Who cares if it's there, just who wants to continue to see that?
Like let's say you're a lady in your 20s and you keep getting dudes in their 50s peeking at your profile. You don't care that they do or why they do, you just don't wanna have to see it--so can we create a thing where we just don't have to see it? Or see etc, like still leave it there, we just have an option to block seeing certain things, within reason of course, we can vote on what to block...?
@89cadillac If the issue is you are getting a lot of men visiting your profile, yeah, we all get that. Most are prompted by something you posted. (Beyond that, no idea why men who cuddle women are checking out other men who cuddle women). What you're suggesting would probably only work for enthusiasts ... pros need to see who visited them so they know who they can reach out to.
@895skfkakd @WriterGF At least for me that is true, probably 99% of people I visited that are male are either because I'm looking for context to something he posted or because I don't remember seeing his post before (and curious who it is that has posted).
@WriterGF yep. It's not an immediate bother to me, if / when dudes land on my profile, but if I could block seeing it, I would. I know it's not personal or serious, but like, I wouldn't wanna know who lands on my social media pages either; I'd just rather not know.
And I'm sure the info is useful for others. And that's why it can be optional for anyone to choose to block certain details or not and for me, I'd make the feature not permanent.
First time on the chats and would request a few things (if the platform supports it): 1. Reverse sort these huge/long chat threads so the most recent comments are first by default. 2. When an account is deleted, auto delete ALL their past comments too, no point in keeping them around to make scrolling through the long chat history like this painfully and unnecessarily longer. 3. Ability to mute (not see) comments/anything posted by Pros and just see Enthusiast content (why I'm here). 4. Add location after person's screen name (or "multiple" if too many to fit in that space) so you know where each person is located without having to look at their profile 5. Ability to mute all but a specific location or range across the site. I'm in Hawaii. Does me no good to see content from outside of Hawaii or even off of the island of Oahu. I believe this would be true for most but not all, they just want to see content within say 50 miles of their location for example.
@HealingTouch808 Sorry, just wanted to ask about #5. Are you referring to only wanting to see profiles from your area? Because you can search profiles by location. Stuff like chat in the forums wouldn't be able to be sorted that way, in part because some members travel to cuddle and would have multiple locations.
@WriterGF Thanks, I understand how to search profiles by location, but yes, I was referring to chats, like especially under "Cuddle Requests". I get that some travel and maybe I'm too new to get the feel of how much but I suspect the majority of Enthusiasts are primarily local to their geography or within a small range and with today's technology it shouldn't be too hard to code that into the backend and give us the option in Settings to only see those either living within a specific distance or willing to travel in a range that includes our location or overlaps our geographical range. Reality is that the vast majority of Enthusiasts aren't going to travel to Oahu (cost prohibitive) for cuddles. As it is with as few profiles that are from on Oahu and the fewer number that are reasonably active it's kinda pointless for me to waste time looking through chats. Sad that this is one of the largest, if not the largest site to connect Enthusiast cuddlers and there are so few on Oahu. Thanks for the response though.
For some reason the add karma button that was added is not working on my phone so I can’t leave a karma for my client. Maybe it will work on a laptop. Anyone else having this issue?
Update: it’s working now!
It would be nice if there was an indicator either in message, profile, or both, if you’ve had a session with a person before. Something to the effect of “previous session 1/1/24”. I know that I can look through past bookings, but it would be quicker if it were indicated while messaging or on their profile.
@CentralFLCuddle whenever I’m done with a cuddle, I’ll write it in the notes of that persons profile: cuddled this date, and some feature about them for me to remember them
@Sheena123 I keep a spreadsheet of that info, but I love the idea of adding a note of when we last cuddled. I’m annoyed I never thought about that 🤦🏻♀️ Thank you!