Rural Cuddling Desert

Fredrick_HugsFredrick_Hugs
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This is mostly just a way to express my frustration with my situation. Hopefully a few of you might have a few good ideas. I live in a really small town just shy of Yosemite National Park. The nearest large city, Fresno (500,000 pop.) is about an hour away. Beyond a few guys, the closest pro cuddler is a two hour drive and there is virtually no females (here on the site anyway) anywhere nearby. I'm an admin of a FB singles group and ran a poll asking if anyone would hire a professional cuddler to gauge interest and everyone said no. I've posted ads on Craigslist seeing if anyone was interested in a cuddle group and got zero response. I moved into the area about 1 year ago and haven't made any good friends yet beyond a few people connected with the BDSM community meeting for games or discussions or going out for Karaoke. In other words, I don't sit home all the time, not trying. Its just the reality of small town life. Thanks for listening. Rant over.

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  • MizzKittyMizzKitty

    @Fredrick_Hugs, I know the area, I feels for you, lol, but yeah it's kinda spread out. I too live in the desert, and know what it's like to be in a kinda out of the way town. Sometimes I go there, and I wouldn't mind another friendly face, and a little work while I'm in the area. Let's chat. I'll send you a message.

  • [Deleted User]BluShadeCool (deleted user)

    I know this is off topic. But have you heard any stories about people disappearing in Yosemite Park?

  • [Deleted User]choicesvital (deleted user)

    Well I feel the pain.. I have moved down to almost country side from city to help my mother and I face similar challenge. All cuddlers are at minimum an hour plus drive for me. Plus lately it’s not easy for me to even travel.. If anything, I sympathize with the situation..

  • JackyJacky

    I am also kind of in a similar situation. I am open to travelling and propose meeting at an equidistant place if and when I get to the point of meeting someone.

  • MizzKittyMizzKitty

    For anyone this might help, I'm usually willing to travel about 2 hours away, and try to make myself available when visiting in other towns that may be nearer to you or may be willing to set something up. Moral of the story, doesn't hurt to ask, I'm willing to try if I can.

  • cranefritzcranefritz

    Definitely feel for you. Even in larger towns it may be difficult to find a cuddling partner. I travel often for work and usually try to have a cuddle session and many times I come back home without having found a single available cuddled. I hope you find someone soon!

  • [Deleted User]Theshystud (deleted user)

    I feel the same way....no one to cuddle where I'm at

  • gemini_islandgemini_island

    I'm not in a rural area, but can anyone give me tips about my home area, Houston Texas? ??

  • Fredrick_HugsFredrick_Hugs

    @BluShadeCool There's been a few fatalities due to falls and rock slides but I haven't heard of any disappearing people. I haven't been here long enough. The park is certainly big enough to get lost in and it does have dangerous critters.

  • warmlyhelenawarmlyhelena

    I'm really sorry that this is the reality where so many folks live. I take for granted so much of what the city makes available. However, for what it's worth, spend most of my time daydreaming about the rural life I hope to escape to some day!

    I think I'd like to trade availability for peace and solitude...but I'm a certified shut-in!

    I know that doesn't help. But I do keep having a little fantasy of doing a cuddle road trip once I get an airstream! I'll put the Yosemite area on the list :)

  • TallmannTallmann

    This is what I get with the filter set to 300 miles:

  • TallmannTallmann
    edited July 2018

    I like your creative use of FB and craigslist. I have tried local dating sites but here in Belize these sites are not well populated. I’ve been talking about cuddling with a few guys on Grindr of all things. I met one of them in person and we both determined we are definitely both on board with this idea but he lives an hour away. It won’t be a frequent thing. I met a lady friend in the village who I am preparing to broach the subject to. As I learned in “Ask a Friend to Cuddle” forum, a lot more finesse is required when presenting the idea to a woman. So this is how I’m trying to get something together outside this web service. When you’re in a desert you gotta get creative, I guess. It also helps to have this community here at CuddleComfort for online support and general sharing.

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