Well, while I have been on here only a short while, and not made a great deal of headway in terms of cuddling, I have met some really nice people. There is no doubt to me now just how important this site is. In reading bios (mine being no different) it has opened my eyes to just how many people live day-to-day without "touch" in their lives. Some bios literally have made me sad... I think many of us would reach right thru this site and hug and hold so many people that need it uf we could. I have tried to make friends, maybe leading to cuddles someday, maybe not, but figure we can all use that virtual "hand to hold" in life. I try to compliment people as well (hopefully NEVER taken the wrong way) as I feel that too can brighten a day, stir an emotion, etc. Plus, I feel people should be forthright and honest with feelings if in a positive manner. As a married hope-to-be cuddler, my picture is not posted. (I guess I don't feel particularly great about being on here, but it does give me hope. ) I share individually in fairness to others as they should see who is on the other end of their conversations. I will say, one LONG TIME cuddler on this site told me I was "handsome". Let me tell you, that meant SO MUCH! I relished that compliment for days, lol...read it a few times. So I guess, moderators approving I hope, everyone would be conversational, be open and be complimentary. People need another's ear sometimes, just like they need hugs! Making friends may just lead to the best cuddles! Wish me luck as I wish for you as well! I hope others join in this conversation. I for one would LOVE to hear what brightens your day & what great experiences this site has brought to you 