Clients not reading profiles red flag?

joyblissjoybliss
in Pro Cuddling

I have two locations on my profile at all times. It’s either a nearby city I often travel to or another location I plan on traveling soon too. The first paragraph of my bio explains where I live and host and my travel plans. it’s always easy to see who doesn’t read profiles when they message you to ask you to cuddle tonight at the travel destination you haven’t gotten to yet. Are clients not reading profiles a red flag for you? Platonic cuddling is about connection on a soul level but when someone messages you after only seeing your pictures wood you speculate they have ulterior motive? Also, I need to make sure they read my profile to see my travel dates, that I don’t host when I travel and that I don’t leave or ask for karma due to privacy philosophy.
Here’s recent conversation
-Cuddle tonight?
-uh oh you didn’t read my profile. I’m not in San Diego yet. Please read the profile to make sure we are on the same page
-oh ok enjoy your last days in Austin see you soon
-haha I live in Austin
-why does your profile say San Diego
-if you read my profile you would have known
-wow. No wonder you don’t have any karma

And then he blocks me

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🙄🙄🙄

I have no words….

Comments

  • Sheena123Sheena123
    edited May 2025

    It can definitely get annoying cuz I’m half in Florida, half in Canada so I get it. I get a lot of guys that don’t read my profile and ask the same questions over and over. That’s why I also have a lot of copy and paste answers in my notepad so if someone asks a question easily answered in my profile, I just paste my generic answer to them and carry on. Some just like to order us like pizza 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • GuyverGordonGuyverGordon
    edited May 2025

    Okay ... I got the issue you find yourself in:

    🙄You have two whole paragraphs of profile (which doesn't account for all the reading you have to do on the bottom.) Do you realize how much reading you have to do in order just to get to your profile? I mean, it is bad enough, you have to swipe your finger left to right (if you are at home) or up and down (if you are on the search page). But now you want him to do all that reading?

    🙄But if you leave him all that information in the profile, how is he supposed to know where you are or where you are going? How is he supposed to know that blue (and pink) is your actual hair color? How is he supposed to know about the Australian accent or that you really love those last minute requests?

    With that said, how about you come to Atlanta in about an hour? I'll sweeten the pot by promising good karma. 😁

    If you read all that without the heaviest of sarcasm; then you read all of it wrong. 🤪 For the record, I read your profile. I actually had to read it a few times to make sure I wasn't mixing the untruth with actual truths. I'm hoping you see this as the obvious joke it was meant to be.

  • joyblissjoybliss

    @Sheena123 😱😱😱 order like pizza that’s a great metaphor

  • joyblissjoybliss

    @GuyverGordon LMAOO!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    There is a considerable proportion of clients who just will not read profiles in the first instance, or at all. They are perfectly capable of reading, they just .... won't. This is nothing to do with cuddling and occurs in basically any circumstance online.

    Not reading the profile is not a red flag in itself: some of these people do become perfectly normal clients. But it is strongly correlated with red flags in general. In other words if somebody hasn't read your profile .... there will probably be a red flag along in a message or two.

  • joyblissjoybliss

    @CuddleDuncan thanks for your input

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