Strangest experience

bvpbvp
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How are you all? I have never posted on this forum, I've been a long time member and have had nothing but great experiences with everyone I've ever met from this site... until today.

I was corresponding with a very well reviewed cuddler and made an appointment for today at 11 am. She lives an hour and a half from me and I so I left by 9:30. I got stuck in traffic on the George Washington Bridge so I ended up arriving 10 minutes after the scheduled cuddle start time. Communicated with the cuddler the whole time, she said it wasn't a problem just that we had to end it at the scheduled 1 pm end (2 hour cuddle), which I told her was fine. The apartment complex was a little confusing so I went to the wrong door at first, but I found it, texted her, knocked at the door, called her and she sent a text telling me to go away and please leave. She has many great reviews (two mentioned communication issues, but they sounded like the fault of the client) and there is not one single reason I can figure out for this type of behavior. If you have any ideas, please let me know. There are not many cuddlers at all on Long Island near me, so I took a chance on someone far away because she seemed like a perfect match. Instead I wasted four hours, tolls, and gas with no consideration, no explanation. I guess I learned my lesson not to trust people on here. Thank you for reading, peace out.

Comments

  • theo_theo_

    Wow that is horrible I think you should get in touch with mods. Being nice and respectful has to go both ways. Paying customers have to respect professional cuddles, but professionals have to respect their customers too.

  • theo_theo_

    Or at least leave a “nice” review on their page

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc

    OMG man that’s a terrible story. I can’t even imagine the sadness, frustration, heavy disappointment and pure fury that must have evoked for you after all of that, AND a 3 1/2 hour round trip to boot!

    Taking your story at face value, and giving you the benefit of the doubt that you have not left out any pertinent information, I would absolutely write her the worst 1 star review on the history of CC because it probably doesn’t get much worse than that, although it always could, and be very specific like you are here.

    Next I would most certainly report her as well (and provide screenshots for the mods) because that is such an egregious action that person should be banned to the max and not ever allowed on this platform again!! I’m so sorry that happened to you man I really am.

  • bvpbvp

    Yeah, it was so strange. Perfect communication until I walked to the door. I sent her a picture of my driver's license so she knew exactly who I am and what I look like. Then again, if someone is that inconsiderate, I wouldn't want the session anyway. Just a shame I wasted four hours to find that out and then get no explanation.

  • Muffintop_1Muffintop_1

    eh... Like the song says..."let it go"

    She may have been having a horrible day and I wouldn't take it too personal....These ladies have a tough gig....

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc
    edited May 2025

    @Muffintop_1 Really man? THAT’S your response after that backstory?! I took a quick glance at your profile and found it telling that YOU WROTE “your friends would describe you as a sarcastic asshole”.

    Have a little compassion for the OP man come on! This guy drove almost 4 hours round-trip and got completely ghosted in the worst way and all you can do is say to him to let it go and defending her that sheeeee may have been having a horrible day and saying how rough she has it? Really? Wow. That’s rich.

  • cuudledragoncuudledragon

    Someone asked to lick my armpits, I never accepted their requests again and reported them....they are banned

  • cuudledragoncuudledragon

    @bvp omg that's horrible!!!! I just read your story....why would someone allow wasted time on both ends....

  • Muffintop_1Muffintop_1
    edited May 2025

    Yea it sucks for him it truly does...

    However what good does it do to leave a bad review, what good does it do to even think about it for a minute more? Move on and maybe try not to pick someone so far away. He already said she had tons of good reviews. So leaving a bad review would possibly take food of her table when ya dont know the entire story.

    Who knows whats going on but I do know there are ALWAYS 2 sides to every story.

  • Sheena123Sheena123

    There are always two sides to a story buuuuut some of us are thinking that if this is a legit story and she was that weirdly unprofessional, who’s to say she won’t do it again? If this is actually what happened, there definitely should be a karma on her page about it. I’m sure others would like to know that there’s a chance she could flip a switch and screw someone over. (Only if this is 100% accurate). I’ve heard a lot of stories from men similar to this and eventually it’s found out that the pro shut them down because he asked something really inappropriate or said something that scared the pro. Perfect reason for a pro to react that way. Not saying the OP did this but if what he said is true, a review stating this should be given to warn others.

  • MTexMTex

    What I'm thinking is maybe her significant other came home early and she didn't want there to be a confrontation.

    I would definitely leave a Bad Karma and Report it.

  • bvpbvp
    edited May 2025

    I agree that reviews are extremely important and should not be considered lightly, but I also agree people should be warned. At the very least it's a communication problem. At least she could say sorry you're late, I have to cancel. She knew how far I was coming and that I was crossing the busiest bridge on the East Coast and I was texting with her the entire time.

    She did say she had another session scheduled right after mine was over at 1 and I told her that was fine and I have no problem ending our two hour session at 1 like originally planned, a shorter session was no issue for me.

    @Sheena123 I would completely understand if there was ANYTHING inappropriately said by me and even if there was something that could be construed as inappropriate I would not be typing on this message board. Ironically it was her who offered more services for more money and when I asked her what her "skin to skin sensual therapy" was, she only replied "it's a more special cuddle."

    I was frustrated about the waste of time, confused by the response from her when I got to her door, and thought I could see if there was some reasonable explanation that I didn't think of, because I NEVER had anything close to this happen from this site. If she had only a couple reviews or there weren't more than two dozen clients who were happy with her I would leave a bad review, but that just looks like I'm the outlier in this situation and hopefully that is the case- although I do wonder why anyone would schedule sessions with two different people right after another like that.

  • CaringSoulCaringSoul

    I'm so sorry to hear that. You should leave her a 1 star karma review to warn other potential clients. This is unprofessional & unacceptable. Respect goes both ways.

  • pmvinespmvines

    @cuudledragon

    Just out bug repellent under your arms , I guarantee they won't try to book you again

  • bvpbvp
    edited May 2025

    @MTex Ohhh... I didn't even think of a significant other, see that's why I posted this in the first place, it just makes no sense, but that would. Still have more respect for your client and explain that. The last thing I want is to cause a scene.

  • cuudledragoncuudledragon

    @pmvines thats a lovely idea but my skin might go crazy, def will think of some alternatives that do the same 🤣🤣🤣

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    If it was a significant other situation, it's interesting ... if you had shown up on time for your session, would she have booted you out when her partner came home? Does her partner know she's a pro or not?

  • friendlyj311friendlyj311
    edited May 2025

    Wow! So sorry to hear that. I too have to travel to get to my cuddlers, so I know how that goes. But luckily they are all understanding that traffic and stuff happens. Especially traveling that far. I'm sure you prolly hate doing it, but have you reported her? That's so not cool!

  • VincentArthur1VincentArthur1

    You should leave an honest karma to warn future cuddlers.

    Sorry that happened to you.

  • pmvinespmvines

    @cuudledragon

    Or could scotch tape some sand paper ? Spoiled shellfish guts ?

  • bvpbvp

    I couldn't leave a review if I wanted to, it says I've been blocked by her. I've had too many excellent experiences on here to let this one linger. All in all, it's a great community and some people just flake and who knows why? Significant other? Double booked? Every other cuddler I've met on here became friends and I still have a positive "relationship" with them all. Maybe the next one who gets this treatment from her will write a review before she bans them too, or maybe (and hopefully) I will be the only one disregarded by her.

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited May 2025

    There have been several occasions where I planned to see someone from the site and booked a place and they couldn't show for whatever reason. Only once had I actually done that and literally crickets. I didn't leave karma because things happen. I try to not to have main character syndrome or that my feelings need avenging. That being said those were not situations where I had hired a cuddle pro, just merely were meeting as friends so I really honestly don't know what I would do in this situation. On one hand I can see leaving a negative karma for unprofessional behavior ( assuming things happened as OP described and there wasn't more to the story to have made the cuddle pro sketched out ), but on the other hand something like this when there was no actual cuddle to speak of or money exchange, and it's more so time and effort not going as planned does, to me and just in my opinion only, seems a little like revenge karma.

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