As someone completely new to this community (one cuddle session done so far) that has been kind of a loner for a while, I don't even think I would want to be in a non-platonic relationship at this point. I just feel like spending some quality lazy-time with some like-minded people. I can definitely see how others may try and make a more intimate relationship out of cuddle sessions, though. Touch can bring on feelings for someone that isn't quite sure of what they want in the first place
I would say neither. If I happen to get an unpaid cuddle that’s great. If I have to pay for one that’s ok too but I won’t equate cuddles with any sort of connection
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@MaverickLegend This is where I am at, accept I will not be paying to cuddle. 😏
I agree with you on not equating cuddling with "romantic connections". Nope, not here for that, I can be friends with a cuddler if said cuddler 's definition of FRIENDSHIP matches up with my definition.😁👍
🤷🏼 Dating apps are a mess
Very true, a lot of my experiences on dating apps were disgusting and awful.😌😕
I'd rather keep on praying Werewolves in existence...🙏🐺🙏🐺🙏🐺
Lol! Which I have not given up doing, by the way.😜
Then join another useless dating site/app. Nope 😌👎
@Katota > I'd rather keep on praying Werewolves in existence...🙏🐺🙏🐺🙏🐺
You and me both 🤣😂
@Katota @Runawaycuddles Yeeees!! Lose the dating apps. Bring on the beasties! 🤣 🤣
Shes back!
@Katota Just stick to the singles sites. This is a sure way to avoid attached or married people.
I’m a hust-ler. Happy to exchange my time and company for monies.
@NikkiFM Valid as hell 🤘🏻
Just stick to the singles sites. This is a sure way to avoid attached or married people.
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@Sooson Are there humans on these "singles sites"?
Because, lying is a thing amongst humans. 😌Particularly the ones claiming to be "single" when in reality they're not. 😕👎
Nah, I'll stick with Werewolves they have no reason to lie about who and what they are...Unless it's from humans, I can understand and sympathize there. Lying is a survival thing with them! 😁👍
Lose the dating apps. Bring on the beasties! 🤣 🤣
@mauvefox
@NikkiFM 🤑🤑🤑🤑
My view of cuddle therapy is just that-therapy. Therapeutic massage (reputable and above board places like Massage Envy), guided meditation and acupuncture have been relaxing and healing treatments I've experienced. Amongst the many gifts I am grateful for (life, family, friends, interests etc), legitimate, platonic cuddle therapy has been one of them. Since joining this site, every cuddle session has been a positive experience. The cuddliest (the term "provider" seems appropriate. I guess the idea of you "find what you are truly looking for" is on point.
@TheNewNovelist
My view of cuddle therapy is just that-therapy.
This is my stance on pro cuddling exactly. I understand that for a lot of people the idea of cuddling professionally seems strange, but it's fully just something we're not used to yet as a culture. Its considered completely socially acceptable to get naked and and have a stranger rub you down on a massage table, the same way that cultures with public bath houses and topless sunbathing find public nudity completely inoffensive and nonsexual.
In a culture that consistently devalues people's basic emotional needs emotional self care that involves others is still seen as weird, strange, and even inappropriate or "wrong", but it's just discomfort with something new to us as a collective 🤷🏼
Very insightful thread, OP!!
I'm definitely, specifically, seeking the platonic nature of the cuddles we can receive from this site. It's the PERFECT answer to an unfortunate mismatch in Love Languages between committed partners! I'm like one giant nerve ending, with Touch being a big thing with me. My Fella? Not so much...lol
I was SOOOO GRATEFUL to find this site!! Still am
I am seeking platonic cuddles. Touch is my love language. In past romantic relationships, they thought any attention meant running to the bedroom. I don't want to do that all the time. So I had to refrain from touching them, keeping me from feeling fulfilled.
I just want the cuddles. This site is perfect for just the cuddles and not worrying about the other partner expecting more.
My 2 cents,there's a lot of lonely people out there.Pro's,clients enthusiasts etc..What percentage is anyone's guess but yeah I agree the majority will probably be men...I started cuddling a few years ago out of genuine curiosity.And now in retrospect I can see how for some people the lines can get blurry..If you're someone that's lonely,touch deprived or even not too comfortable being around women(I had a pro tell me a story about that) and then start cuddling you may be in for a surprise..I do this every now and then,kinda like going to a spa,I book a session with a pro and for the next few hours or overnight I just forget about the world and enjoy my session.And fingers crossed the pro enjoys it as much as I do.One pro I'm actually starting to consider a friend,I wasn't expecting that so it's a pleasant surprise....Even though I'd bet a dollar against my life that people have dated someone they met on this site,I guess my attitude towards this is a lot like @SwtCara,at the end of the day I'm just here for the cuddles.