WTH just happened ?😐

mistic233mistic233
in General

So I have been a cuddler on the site for about six years now , along the way I have had numerous cordial interactions with pros and non pros alike , but I have never had an interaction that went 180 so fast and so hard as this one went , I was totally blindsided by it but it kind of makes me laugh now lol , I would like someone more socially adept to explain me what went wrong here , I have one theory ... this person ego is prob so big and so fragile it got bruised when I took too long to respond lol

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  • mistic233mistic233

  • dan_bluedan_blue

    Probably because you said the face is familiar. I don’t have photos up precisely because I don’t want to be found by people I know.

  • ImmersedwarmthImmersedwarmth

    @mistic233 seems to be more connected with the mention of the cuddler's face than the delayed response (?). Who knows? I've been blocked (unbeknownst to me initially) for a lot less than that. 😂

  • mistic233mistic233

    loneybug I don't really mind it was just friendly banter to me, I think the response I got was a little nutty to be honest

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    If it was a female, she may have gotten creep vibes from you claiming to be familiar with her face because it can be taken that you might know the area where she lives or people she knows. Stalkers and creepers are a thing, and if she has children her radar may have really gone off.

    What seems like friendly banter to you is cause for concern for her even if you meant nothing by it.

  • stormydaycuddlestormydaycuddle Mod
    edited May 2025

    The best this can be is speculation at another member's expense. Was it weird? Maybe, depends on how you look at it. Which is my point. We don't want to discourage members from talking to each other because they see a conversation they were in on the forum being talked about - Stormy.

    p.s. to the OP you have the right to be confused. I just think since it's an unknown it might be best not to spark a speculation battle.

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