I'm certain that I would cuddle more if distance wasn't a factor.
@GuyverGordon ππππ
So, when I first read the opening post to this thread I guess I took it a different way, ...and in my mind I started to think. I soon realized specific cuddlers were being recognized and called out and that is awesome as they have probably brought great joy to others, meaningful cuddles to the masses and have been part of this well established community. But with that said, I guess I'm going to go the route my mind took me initially. First and foremost, I would cuddle with my wife. That is where my heart is, that is where it should be, that is probably where it will always be after 30 years regardless if touch is currently in our lives or ever going to happen again. After that, I may reach out over the many miles to a couple ex-girlfriends and my first wife... just to cuddle them and let them know that I was there in mind and spirit when they went through some tough things in their life but I could not be part of that any longer. I never held any animosity towards any of them, never stopped caring. Beyond that, the connections I've made here... there is one young lady (no longer on the site) I would surely cuddle if given the opportunity...we have remained somewhat in contact and I knew from day one and our first interaction, she needed that cuddle and I wish, I could provide that support and safe zone for her. There are others (and you would probably know who you are) ...one that we agreed, we would be perfect cuddles for eachother! A couple others... dear friends that I have made that have led to fun and friendly conversations from afar that have, for various reasons in their lives, also lost that touch. More recently, I have made a couple friends, closer to my age that would probably have been wonderful companions throughout life, would be great cuddles. One is going through tough times and has big decisions ahead of her... I just want to be that friend she needs, I would drop everything to hold her if I could. Another has spent most of our time conversing, trying to steer me to a better path and I appreciate that and that in itself lends a certain attractiveness. Another, a younger person, far south of me... would cuddle her with all the love I could afford. She is sweet and needs it, I can tell. There is also a trend with some younger cuddlers nearby that I fear will probably lead to some making the wrong choices. Maybe not good moves for their futures, and for them, I just wish safety and happiness. I don't judge these individuals, as these decisions are made for their own perceived survival, perhaps for the betterment of their family, their children, whatever it may be... right wrong or indifferent ...but it's not for me to judge and while yes, this site is for a certain type of interaction, I also feel we could all do a little better in getting to know these individuals and perhaps guide them down a better path, MAYBE cuddle them? Because yes, bad people do make bad decisions. But all people making bad decisions are not bad people. I would hold each one in a strong embrace if I could... assure them, it can get better! This site has meant a lot to me. It's giving me friendships and hope and a way for me to sometimes forget about my own problems and issues and to understand there are many others that are facing similar if not worse situations.... sadness, challenges, lonliness... ALL needing hugs, kindness and words of support. And, I surely would not leave a few Pros off my list... worth every penny if given the chance to cuddle them. There are a few with hearts of pure GOLD that it would be an honor to do so. I may even take one to a movie if that is what it takes! π I think I would cuddle all of them...those that are here for the wrong reasons, and, those that are here for the right. Here is to happy cuddles for everyone, and let's hope those availabilities, boundaries and miles are overcome whenever possible! β€οΈ
Definitely @SunshineHug
So many lovely people. I'd be ok with retiring and going into cuddlerama nirvana, coast to coast, male and females, Pro or enthusiasts. I'd be ok with cuddle piles and parties too. I'm not tagging anyone because my peeps know who they are.
@Homesteader no need to worry. You probably weren't around back in the day when I was quite honestly the biggest problem on this forum. Barely an exaggeration. I am cool as a cucumber haven't pulled out any hair so no need to stifle your posting habits on my account.
@Sideon Iβm with you! The list is long!
This is what I'm talkin' 'bout!!!
@munkg ~ You're welcome! I meant what I said!!
@Adragayle ~ It's kind of nice to find out that your being in the world is appreciated, though, isn't it?
@TenderEmbraces ~Right?? Just wait until we perfect the technology for Jump Rooms or Teleportation!! IT'S ABOUT TO GO DOWN!!! lol
@MissAdventurous ~ You ARE appreciated!!
@Stuvent60 ~ Okay... Glad you felt comfortable sharing a few thoughts!!
@cuddlebear757 ~ Thanks for that!
@Sideon ~ Um... If you decide to make this happen, I believe both I and @VitaminJ, who shall DEFINITELY be added to my list!!, would maybe be willing to serve as Fabulous Facilitators to those wonderful shenanigans!!!
Now... More! lol
I went and found them!!! The Awesome Rocking Karaoke Cuddlers!!!! Ooo-RAH!!!
@VitaminJ ~ Because we'd ROCK OUT on "Living on a Prayer"!!
@Sheena123 ~ Knows she and her'n have my Grandma's heart!! Kiss my boys for me!
@cheeseboy ~ Can't forget you!
@ScroogeMcducky ~ Oh, the songs we'd sing!!
@UglyDuckling ~ My fellow music enthusiast!!
@Vocalist100 ~ Would you squeeze me while we side-hugged and duet-ed "War Pigs"?? THAT would be worth seeing!!
@donhulio~ Because I was sad when he left. I always wanted to squeeze him AND his camera..
@DaveFromSussex ~ You know you really do listen to that!! Either way, I'd jump the pond... Just wait 'til we get that Teleportation thing down... lol
@Tigerlilly32 ~ You'd be peeling me off if I got to see you do "Bohemian Rhapsody"--complete with the ad libs!! lol
And I also wish to add:
@TxTom ~ Because he'd squeeze me, too! lol
@KozyKim ~ Because I absolutely MISSED the chance to squeeze her when she came here! And because I'm STILL grateful for her humanity toward those lonely ones That was both kind AND beautiful!!
@PeopleLikeUs ~ Because he unlocked a whole new cuddle goal for me: Cuddle Bars!! Amen to the alcoh...nevermind! lol
The amazing @SunsetSnuggles ~ Because I like her pretty dresses!! I could take a few lessons!!
@achetocuddle ~ Our cuddle's theme song would be either "Sundown," by Gordon Lightfoot, or Bob Seger's "Turn the Page"!!
@Motorbaby ~ If you wear your MCU gear over here, you KNOW what you got coming!! lol
I FOUND HER!!!! @Ineedahugortwo ~ Because she just makes my Soul happy!
It's so cool to give roses where roses are due! We don't always remember to take a moment and SAY just how much we appreciate each other!
So, if distance, availability, and money weren't an issue, I would cuddle to my hearts content, travel and cuddle to meet all the cool people I have seen here. There are lots of wonderful people but I think one of the furthest from me currently is @CharlieBear - who seems like such a warm, fun, and nerdy guy! π€
Ooh... @LadyVel ! I feel you on that one.. And he's a big, solid one... like an excellent piece of vintage, REAL WOOD furniture you gotta get someone to help you move!! Can you imajen cuddling HIM!!
Thanks for that!! I'm RIGHT WITH YOU on that one!!
Good to see you!
We Jedi Masters have to stick together!
Thank you @Homesteader !! As much as I'd like to say "there are so few of us remaining", I know that ain't so lol
Still waiting for squeekytoy to return. I know she switched to cuddling only women but I am willing to make the change.
@Homesteader the babies give a kiss back ππππ½π½π½
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Oh man! @MissAdventurous @mettamso @Daniel77 @icantbake @JL_Borges @xandriarain @CuddlyKitKat @CuddleConnected @Lizhin to name a few !
@WestsideMarc Howdy! I'm a Texan ππ
I won't tag her but there is this lady who cuddles out of her van and she's made it into this super comfy looking and professional cuddle zone. It seems like a wonderful experience. She is ALL the way across the country though.
@Ineedahugortwo
@Nature_Lover_
@shecuddless
@CuddlyQueenV
@lovingspoonfull
@Sheena123
Among the wonderful people that I have met here, Iβll name one that I technically havenβt cuddled with yet - @xelda
Ummmmmm, there's SO many cuddly people I'd snuggle with!! π€π€π€ Buddies I've already cuddled with....those I've only video chatted with.... And (almost) anyone I've messaged with here π¦π
Aweee! @Homesteader and @GuyverGordon !! Back at you both ππ€π
@GuyverGordon πΈπ«ΆπΈ
Awwww @Maverick07 . I'm so glad I have my notifications still on for CC. That's the sweetest compliment ever! One day our travel paths will line up!
There are some dear friends in states across the country who I would very much love to cuddle...some for the first time, others for repeat snuggles and adventures. π« βοΈππ€©
Personally, I choose not to tag, as these types of topics often prompt the frequent posters of the message board to be heavily favored, which can cause the quiet ones to feel left out. Just know that engagement on the board has no effect on your value, and hopefully we'll all connect with our long distance buddies for a warm, sweet cuddle, in the future! π
@GuyverGordon @Homesteader Thank you for thinking of me! π«
~ Sunset Snuggles
π« Enthusiast π Travel Junkie πΈ Shutter Bug
@GuyverGordon youβre the man my friend. π
@FLCuddleQueen without a shadow of a doubt. Legit amazing person.
Anyone I would cuddle would be a distance-cuddle, as Wisconsin is an intimacy desert lol.
But for me it'd be anyone who wants to lay down and cuddle, someone to relax with for a few hours or get sleep cuddles in
@cuddlebear757 That is very nice of you π€ Thank you for mentioning me.
Don't forget our conversations over some of the most splendid places to live in the East Bay, as well as the cuddle journey!
Within limits, I personally think that all of us could benefit from a long embrace every day, and that includes friend or foe or just some random person I donβt know in real life.
Can you sense the transformation that occurs when one acts with kindness and sincere compassion, irrespective of any bias or stress bias? What a beautiful moment to share and heal.
@pmvines π«ΆπΌπ₯°π€ I really feel like weβd have a super wonderful time. π
@Jillybear87
You're damn right we would !!
I actually think it would be nice to be able to meet all of the mods. So far I've met most of them, including several former mods. Only ones holding out are @stormydaycuddle (despite me being in Colorado 3 times and you being to Alabama once in the amount of time we've known eacother Grrrrr) @cheeseboy and @netrunner. Then my CC get out of jail free punch card will be complete π.
@Snugglesthesia
@lisa2cuddle
@Aubri
@HeartSalveHugs