Booze: in praise of

edited May 2025 in General

Alcohol gets a lot of bad press. The 'hair shirt brigade', having done away with smoking, have it firmly in their sights. And, indeed, it is true that abuse of alchohol is bad for you and/or others, no argument there. Don't drink and drive. Don't drink if your doctor has told you not to. Keep it very modest or zero when you're pregnant. Don't buy booze with the rent money. Recognise if you might be alcoholic. Don't drink at all if it makes you violent. Etc.

But use isn't. Use of alcohol, if you fancy it and it suits you, is good for you. As a young man I drank quite a lot and it was brilliant. But over the years, as my social life quietened with age and age itself began to count, the amount I drank petered out to virtually zero. And I missed it, I really missed it.

In the last couple of years I have put some effort (and some money) into increasing my drinking, and it's been a howling success. A long-lost friend coming back into my life. Does me nothing but good. Being slightly squiffy is a very pleasant sensation, I can't recommend it highly enough.

The killjoy arm of the medical professional will say that anything more than a glass of red a day is doing some form of damage, and in purely medical terms I'm sure that's true. But in purely medical terms we should eat nothing but barley, with occasional raw liver for a treat, and absolutely nobody thinks that's a good idea. The reality is that if you fancy a few drinks on an appropriate occasion, they'll make your world a better place. "A little of what you fancy does you good" as they say. And it does.


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  • edited May 2025

    This is a prime example of the dangers with presenting opinion as an absolute fact. It's triggering for those who are in recovery and struggling with addiction, and makes light of complications caused by prolonged alcohol consumption even in smaller quantities. This is irresponsible. Just a hard no from me on this one.

  • @pmvines I agree fully with your response to this post. More than even the topic itself , I am disappointed in the OP ‘s decision to post this (and of course the future editing by the OP that will proceed )
    It is fascinating to read this considering the source. The amount of lecturing and chastising that comes with the OP’s history of posts is what I find hypocritical. Explaining with this imaginary authoritative voice to CC members that they should be drinking daily etc is totally irresponsible. Coupled with the demeaning of medical professionals is rather insulting.
    Im with you that this post is a hard no , especially without knowing the individual situations of the people that are reading this.

  • Stating an opinion as fact does not make it so, regardless of how emphatic the statement

  • I'm going to agree (at least partially) with the OP. Responsible use and enjoyment of alcohol is not a bad thing. But, it does take a very long time to develop the experience and knowledge necessary to know how much is "too much" for the individual in question.

    I certainly love a good bourbon from time to time, which for me is a double jigger about twice a month. If I'm over at a social gathering (cookout etc) and my host offers a beer, wine or the like, I'll have one. I might accept the second one but rarely take more than a few sips of it and usually just keep it in hand the rest of the time.

    I also understand being considerate of those who do have alcohol problems. One of my fishing friends is a recovered (recovering?) alcoholic, and he had to tell me directly that it's ok for me to enjoy a drink around him. But there are others who I would not do so with - @pmvines I suspect that you fall into that category, and if we were to ever meet, I'd stick with coffee around you.

    Ever disregarding any discussion about responsible use vs misuse/abuse, we know how well Prohibition worked in the 1920's, and that's not a chapter of history that I'd care to repeat.

  • [Deleted User]gem7 (deleted user)

    I agree with responsible use of alcohol but promoting and praising its usage is a bit much for me.

  • edited May 2025

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  • FYI.

    This post was flagged multiple times. There is opinion, and then there is the fact that alcohol IS a drug, and promoting usage, even though the OP speaks with authority and definitives, is not sanctioned nor warranted. Moderators moved the thread offline.

    Some members rightfully questioned where the thread went. To be 100% transparent on what happened, what we decided, and how things went down once the original post was flagged, we agreed to lock the thread and move it back. We aren't ashamed of our decision. We aren't saying the original post was ok. We aren't saying anyone, regardless of tenure here, is protected from criticism or moderator actions. We're leaving the thread as an example of locked and inappropriate topics.

    Cuddle on (soberly).

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