@respectful I am not offended at all. Keep up with your feedback
I'm not aware of any website that provides security for its users. All the websites I've seen which bring people together who want to meet each other have warnings that the user is responsible for screening people and the website is not responsible for anything that happens.
Eveyone one of us here is responsible for our own comfort zone and safety. We're in a big ocean, full of a variety of creatures, large and small, benign and malignant. I don't think any reasonable person would try to put that expectation on the site. It's not a reasonable expectation. @pmvines is not the site police and he know's it. Still, some people try to take him down a notch, or continue to bash the site. Don't try to label him as the PC Police when all he is doing is (correclty) screaming Shark, Shark!
Maybe it's just me, but @charliehustle seemed pretty defensive for someone not being accused of anything.
@pmvines, I for one am glad you made this post, it's a great reminder for those who would think otherwise that they have to be respectful of each other, I'm not sure why you got so much backlash in comments. Everyone on here deserves respect and should expect others to follow the rules this site lays out. I feel bad for those who've had bad experiences from those who chose not to.
@Bobby_M82 I think it is you. Perhaps you need to self examine.
Fools
Shark!
Funny . I'm not even referencing what 2 adults choose to do with each other lol. I am referencing non consensual sexual advances. It has recently happened to several women on here and I felt like starting a thread asking users to think twice before they act to ensure there is respect for boundaries. I suppose anything can be debated but why this sparks defensiveness with someone is a bit puzzling to me .
(@galowglass hands the can of shark repellant to @pmvines.}
@pmvines please stop already. Your not a hero. Stop looking for unnecessary praise. You just stated the obvious.
Respect women, remain within the CC guidelines, yada yada.
If you must help the CC community then help us get people to get cuddles. Even the pros.
Its nearly impossible to finally get a cuddle.
So many people get banned or leave or just seem like frauds.
@charliehustle You should hang out with PsychoThingy1, 2, 3,... and others and start a b*tching club. All I see is you trying to reframe the argument to make it look like there is a problem where there is none.
We get it. you can't wrap your head around the idea of this as a community, or that people here will reject you if you are found to be in violation of the rules that we are agreeing to.
Just because, as you have clearly laid-out over various incarnations of userIDs, that the agreement cannot be enforced; well all that doesn't mean that most people here don't willingly choose to abide by it.
You seem to want to keep re-framing the agreement and it's enforcement as some evil, draconian, dictatorship. It's not. Some guy got the idea of creating a site, governed by a set of rules. That rest of us just liked the idea, agreed to the rules, and showed-up.
You sound like a disk that keeps jumping back to the same arguements/points. Please move on.
And again, the entire premise and purpose of this thread is meant to address people pushing themselves onto others who are not consenting to it, such as groping, molesting, and sexual assault. There is obviously nothing anybody can say to you that will make you stop trolling so it is pointless trying. And perhaps the reason nobody will cuddle you is due to the posts you leave, with the non stop inciting and arguing, and minimizing the notion of not being a slime ball. Not exactly making yourself appealing or putting your best foot forward. And for someone who just opened this account you sure seem to have a chip on your shoulder, and seem to be rather focused on people being banned. Perhaps you are bitter from yourself having been banned...
@galowglass is such a coward. He blocked me so I wouldn't check out his profile and see what kind of weak person he or she is. COWARD
@galowglass weak weak coward.
@pmvines you appear to be very judgmental. It seems to me you a little perv who just has a front that you dont want a relationship.
But you will pay for cuddles? Ha!
it's a shame how fony people can be. Just enjoy the coddling and sthu.
galowglass bows to @charliehustle. I would be hurt, if it weren't so true. You got me. I've been called-out. Still, I'm politely asking you to leave-off with the pot-stirring but again, it's your decision. Only you can dictate your response.
Since I am close to being banned, let me say this.
@pmvines cannot get a date. Therefore he says upfront he is not looking for a relationship. Dont be fooled.
Peace and One Love
Yes there are many unreported incidents I have read about and have personally experienced harrassments online here. Like @pmvines stated, I can't just cuddle ANYBODY but some people just can't take "NO" for an answer and started trashing you the minute you decline. Thank you @pmvines for creating this thread.
I need a V8
@pmvines you just did.
Admit it. You are a perv like the rest of us Mr CC Police. Lol
@angela10 all @pmvines is state the obvious. My issue isn't the content of what he wrote. It's in the context he presented. Coming off he is better then others. Yeesh.
Its like saying call the police if your home is broken into. DUH!!!
@galowglass at least is quiet.
Have a nice day and weekend everyone.
shark, shark, shark.. There it is again, "like the rest of us"... You should be working for the media. Acting like there is consensus in your position. And it's not like stating the obvious. It's simply calling out another kind of shark behaviour. If you keep your mouth shut when you see injustice, you're part of the problem.
You act like he was restating the obvious. Sure. But that's not what it was. Good for Pmvines, for speaking out in support of those experiencing issues.
PS. I was formatting this when you made that last quip. You had already goaded me into a response earlier. So, "good job!". If the earlier stuff hadn't already, "triggered" me, that quip would certainly have suceeded! Huzzah!
PS. I appreciate the morning mental exercise. Thanks for the entertainment content as well. I haven't smiled this much in months.
@galowglass good for you!
I am not nor claim to be nor have made any assertion that I am better than anybody. Where does this delusion come from? You have just created a new account for the purpose of trolling, as you offer nothing but flame wars. Zero. Zilch. Nobody has once declared they are better than you. However you are taking plenty of opportunities to put yourself beneath others. You are welcome to say as you wish about me. I have been here long enough and people know enough about me. I have nothing to prove to you. You are like a toddler throwing a tantrum, attention seeking for some sort of unknown to us reason. I can speculate why, however I simply do not care enough about you to bother.
I care about you though. Have a great weekend if we don't chat sooner.
Cowards
If anyone wants my contact info hit me up. I'll be happy to speak open and honest.