I believe there is a limit to how many people you can block… so if you have me blocked, you’re wasting one of your blocks cause I wasn’t going to message you anyway 🤣
I remember my early days on this site when I was really bothered by seeing I was blocked by someone I did absolutely nothing to (or even had interaction with.) I was new, I was seriously touch deprived and would bend whichever way in hopes people would like me. This people pleasing behavior had some dishonesty at its core - since I often pretended to get along when I really didn’t. That turned it into a powerful trigger when I came to know someone random blocked me. It’s almost as though I was ashamed inside that someone had figured me out for the fake mask of likability which I was trying to hide behind.
Then something incredible happened - I started to get cuddles - mostly by hiring them - but cuddles nonetheless. This changed my world - I began to like myself. I no longer felt unworthy and undesirable inside - and no longer felt that I had to pretend to be someone else just so I’d be liked. I remember the first time I said “no” to a cuddle (and subsequently to the relationship) - and how freeing that felt to not be a slave to another person’s controlling behavior only so I could earn myself a few hugs and cuddles.
Now I just don’t care who blocks me - I don’t even try to figure it out. It’s almost as though I am grateful to them for pruning down my options.
Posting my own experience, ymmv.
@RadiantHugs Thanks for sharing that part of your journey. Glad you found some inner peace. Sounds like it has helped you form a great attitude.
@RadiantHugs posted: "I remember the first time I said “no” ... and how freeing that felt to not be a slave to another person’s controlling behavior"
Excellent stuff. I remember the day I said no to an unhealthy person in my life. I sat down that night and wrote up all my new boundaries...no more answering their drunk calls at 2:00 A.M., no more going to save them from their bad choices, no more saying yes to appease them. I never read them what I wrote, but it became my new code of conduct. Having healthy boundaries and being able to say "no" felt amazing, and has only gotten easier, since.
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The reason? It's VERY trendy these days
I'm sure if there was a block irl people would be using it waaaaaay more than online
(Blocked happens but it's nothing to worry about🙂
I sometimes block people cause I keep accidentally going to their profile especially after reading karma - as to not seem like a stalker .. or they say something ina forum that makes me uninterested in conversing with them
Enjoy your time out. No pro bashing. Read the forum rules while on your vacation from this forum. This is the second time today. -Stormy Stardate: 06/19/2025
Providers here are targeted by almost relentless nonsense from bored trolls to bitter hostile incel types ^ and all the eh in between. As someone who needs to be in a high-vibe, overflowing with love state to even entertain the idea of cuddling as a fake job, I prioritize protecting my peace, therefore I block pretty ruthlessly to make sure there's space remaining for all the great things coming my way. Sorry not sorry. Only space for love here.
Off to do some blocks. Have a great day everyone!
@jumble posted: "I strongly advise you to get a real job and do something worthwhile with your life than worrying about who and why someone blocked you. You know there are real jobs out there and people just don’t have the time to think about this nonsense because they have work to do. Seriously."
Some people here make a full-time living as Pro cuddlers, and improve the lives of many.
As for blocking, someone's occupation doesn't determine whether they have a technical question about blocking, or if they experience anxiety and wonder why someone ghosted them.
Everyone has the right to ask questions, and there are kind ways to suggest someone redirect their thoughts. Your post was demeaning all the way around, and served no purpose but to cast you in a negative light.
What is a "real job"? Working for another employer? If somebody pays you for what you do, it's a job even if it's working for yourself.
I see no value to blocking anyone. Let's be honest, if someone REALLY wants to see your profile they will simply open another account. It's happened on multiple occasions. Where there's a will, there's always a way.
@Sapio8469 If they are that bothered to open themselves up to being banned, more power to them! That's both circumventing a block, and having multiple accounts, so insta-ban heading their way. 😄
Oh no! I’ve blocked some people just to keep them from showing up in my filter. I didn’t realize they might be able to find out and I’d make them feel bad. That’s not great 😕
I don't know about others but my blocked list is extensive. Viewing my page more than 5 times out the month without so much as a greeting is terms for you to be blocked. Only because I actually reach out to those whom visit my page, especially if they do it often. So if you continue to view my page after I reached out and you still dont say anything it's giving stalker vibes and I'm blocking you with a quickness.
@ShaySnuggles same. Repeatedly Staring in my windows while wearing a ski mask and can't respond when I extend a friendly greeting despite your painful social awkwardness means we don't need to ever know each other😳
I block anyone I don’t want to relate to in future. It’s just my way of keeping track of those I like and those that don’t interest me. No need to take it personally. In fact I appreciate being blocked so I know who’s not interested in me.
Let's not call people out by name to criticize them on the forum. Additionally, tagging someone in the forum after they have blocked you would be considered an attempt to circumvent blocking, which is not allowed. @JoyfulHeart [Moderator]
Totally missed the post that got blocked, but to that fine friend i would like to inform that I actually work a 50-70 hours a week between two jobs, and that's not cuddling. Sounds like they are harboring some resentment and taking it out on strangers.
@Junenye There are some folks who resent the fact that they can't find cuddles for free and they take it out on pros, unfortunately.
@WriterGF
Yeah. I feel like water should always be free. But when I went to the gas station I had to pay for it. I really tore the cashier a new one. So angry about that.
@Junenye I think the harboring of resentment about professional cuddling is one of the saddest,and depressing parts of this forum
She is one of those pro's where a canned response is sent to whomever views her page to encourage engagement and bookings,
That or I am owed a whole lot of canned messages. You know what? I am going to go demand them right now!
I block pros that my clients ( or potential clients) have cuddled , because in the past , I have had pros contact me to "share" Information about past or potentially clients. Telling me that they are unsafe etc. I like to make my own judgements. 🤷😉
Update: I've made my demands known ... I think they were heard; I am going to get my canned messages. I was quite candid...
Update: She blocked me ... 😱
(We are friends ... all in good fun 😉)
Sorry if someone asked already but does it tell you if you been blocked. I’ve seen deactivated and deleted on my messages. But not blocked.
@morningdeww It will tell you if you visit their profile or if you go to the page where you message them. (It won't alert you outside of that, I don't think)
My page has an In Memoriam video entitled People I’ve Lost by Blocking in 2025 running on my profile.