Showing up for you, first. Showing up for someone else, second. Be present in each and every moment. Take what you get and experience it as if it were to be your first time. Just a penny for a thought-that is all.
What a clear, beautiful reminder directly from the Collective.. through your heart of care... Thank you! It's sometimes hard to resist the distractions, down here...
@duchesscuddle I agree with your sentiment, but I have a question. There is no right or wrong answer. But if someone sleeps most of the session do you consider that being present? Just curious. Anyone else that wants to answer that question is welcome to as well.
@TheFunCartel If they are lucid dreaming, they are present.
@TheFunCartel I've had a Pro Cuddler (calls herself a ”Cuddle Therapist“) say that falling asleep was forbidden but totally fell asleep on me one time. I've also had another Pro fall asleep and drool on me. And Enthusiasts falling asleep.
I think that part of being present is just being in tune with your needs. Consent should be foundational to the sesh, so if you don't want a Pro falling asleep on you (or she/they say.s it's a boundary), communicate that beforehand or wake 'em up.
@DaveLaughs Oh I do communicate that but I had one that I couldn’t roust from a sleep no matter what. I thought she OD’d on something.
Personally, I feel honored when a cuddle partner feels comfortable enough with me to fall asleep in my arms. I actually love it!