It's definitely a matter of perspective. I've had someone message me on here that he didn't see himself cuddling a "much older woman" unless I had a lower hourly rate. The age difference was only ten years, but that comment made me feel like I was talking to a manchild. Or DudeBro as @Katota calls it.
@Auroradream You’re actually young. (Old is over 94.) But in general, life experience should cost more!!
The youngest client I’ve cuddled was 23 the oldest was 81,I believe he confessed .., but his profile said much younger
@FunCartel_ "Don’t let anyone shame you into what you do not feel comfortable with or make you feel less than because someone brags that they cuddle all ages and genders. Yes, theoretically it should not matter, but biology and culture are a part of all of us and as long as we do not hate on those who do not fit our preference, then be yourself and follow your preferences to find your comfort cuddler."
@Homesteader - I agree with FunCartel 100%. Yes, in a perfect world, the age of your cuddler wouldn't matter. But in the world we live in, it does for some, and that's perfectly valid. We make decisions based on a variety of things, including gut feelings and past experience. Listen to your gut, don't give in to pressure, and do what's right for you.
I welcome it, especially for emotional check ins and touching base once in a while
Whoa... @TheFunCartel ~ I'm so used to your being ornery that it sometimes BLOWS ME AWAY, just how REAL you can get!! Thank you! I'm committed, personally, to defining my own Self, to allowing my internal convictions to ALWAYS outweigh external validation, but I'm also open to Self-examination. I appreciate your thoughtful words
@BlueIris ~ LOVE your screen name! Thank you for your insight. My "gut" and I have a full-on, solid connection! lol I'm genuinely glad that younger people are discovering that platonic touch has its own, unique benefits--- and I wish them well in their journey! It's just that after living this long, I find that I, personally, can only relax in the presence of another who's also walked through hell with gasoline drawers...and come out on the other side. And since that's a PERSONAL perspective, I don't accept pressure about it.. It just is what it is! Thanks for the kindness, the encouragement!
Age to me is just a number. I don't discriminate at all. We all need and deserve cuddles. 🤗
No age limits here. Everyone has something to offer and everyone's needs are valid. 🤷🏼♀️ We can all learn from each other.
Honey hot boom boom burger
I’m open to all ages
The youngest I’ve cuddled with was 26 and the oldest that I’ve had a cuddle session with was 64(ish) I can’t quite remember. I don’t think it’s really about age ….. it’s more so about how someone conducts themselves. I’ve yet to cuddle with anyone between the ages of 21-25 (21 would be the youngest for me) I also think that age range would be on an individual basis. And take me some time to get acquainted. Only because I’m not sure how I would connect. As long as there was pure intentions I don’t see anything wrong with it
I cuddle with everyone over 18
With the person I’m cuddling with, I enjoy hearing their life’s story and journey and have found that most younger than about 35 just haven’t had enough life experience to hold my interest. I’m sure there are exceptions, but that’s my experience and preference. If it matters, I’m 58, but young(er) at heart.
is there an age that you are NOT comfortable seeing someone? The Stone Age. I think the lack of light in caves would make it challenging seeing someone.
is there an age that you are NOT comfortable seeing someone?
The Stone Age. I think the lack of light in caves would make it challenging seeing someone.
Just rub each other's stone and make a fire.
On a serious note : I do not discriminate against anyone in their 20s.
The older the better, life experience and perspective is amazing!
I never really had grandparents (last one died when i was 9), so it just doesn't compute for me to have that closeness with someone of that age. Though 50-60 i don't mind, depending. For me it is more about having that friend/buddy vibe to hang out with someone and have physical affection like if you were naturally friends and had that. I don't often find myself hanging out and chilling with people in another tier of life like that. But I'm not unequivocally opposed.
42 is always the answer. 😂 jk. 100 is fine as long as my stairs won’t be a problem. Back in the day, forever ago, when I was a pro, a client couldn’t do stairs made me sad. He had a long drive.
42 is always the answer.
I didn’t realise it matter if you are older and that it has to be a chepaer rate. The does not sound fair at all….
OMG! @Auroradream For reals!? I don't know how you were able to keep your cool 😯 That's some super dude bro behavior....Ewwwww! 🤮
42 is always the answer
Only if the person remembered to bring a towel
Thank you @RedFox16, it wasn't an effective tactic to say the least!
42 is always the answer Only if the person remembered to bring a towel
... which everyone knows is the most useful item in the universe
@stormydaycuddle @Jubal @GuyverGordon
Exactly correct
@jubal as a mod I'm looking at your comment and thinking… I really hope people who read that are Douglas Adams fans. lol. Anyway, people who aren't should be. It should be a law. -Stormy P.S. so long and thanks for all the fish.
I don't have age limits, have met amazing folks up to their 70s
When I first started offering cuddling, I assumed age would make a big difference in comfort or connection. Turns out, not so much. I’ve been surprised in the best ways by people of all ages.
I started cuddling in my 70s. Age hasn’t been a problem for me.
No age limits here. Though I’ve had great experiences with my younger cuddle partners, I’d love to find someone closer to my age, hard to come by in my area. But age really is just a number here, plenty of nice people at every age.