I feel most people are looking for more than platonic and I’m frustrated

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  • edited July 2025

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  • @lonelybored

    Sounds like you're minimizing what women say they experience from boundary pushing men and implying that the women should expect it to happen and if they don't like it then to only cuddle women ?

  • @pmvines I'm not sure if this message will get to you but I function through logic and HONESTY. I signed a allegiance to my creator and I'm bound to be honest in all aspects of my life or try to be. Everything i typed above is honest. The only cuddling that nearly guarantee platonic is if u know them for decades like a best friend parents sibling (few exception like those in the south) but if you're cuddling a complete stranger, expect them to want beauty and make moves, it's the women's duty to set boundaries. That's not victim blaming, that's skill development. Use words, etc (i won't type the other options they can bring). Are we really just gonna pretend men will not cuddle based on looks or what they can do during that cuddling? I don't like to say I'm Christian because I'm a faulty human but im not gonna lie for you or anyone. See how many 400 lbs female pro get customers and compare that to attractive ones, be real.

  • @Auroradream yes I did update it to make it a bit more specific because of the feedback I received here so thank you for that! Movie cuddling sounds like a great idea!

  • @craM thank you so much for the advice! I will look into the course you mentioned! : )

  • I've done everything in my power to make every cuddle platonic so I don't have to confess to my creator, to the point I'll only cuddle in public with people around and the last pro I met in public got mad at me for being "too cold" that she left before 3 hours I paid and made false accusations, in public with camera and people around... That girl was dangerous I had to block her because she keeps threatening me over a negative review I left lol. I'll never leave negative review ever again, that girl scare me. Anyways your price reflects that, how you deal with your customer behind closed doors is between you two but don't be delusional expecting young men to be neutured. Many if not most men will try, every female pro here who says otherwise is LYING.. YOU'RE ALL A LIAR IF YOU DON'T AGREE. Increase your target customer to 70yo and up or females only, then u won't have to worry about that. Otherwise increase your skill and prepare yourself if you cuddle younger STRANGERS. "Oh men should learn not to cuddle for looks or wanting more" lol. You can type that all you want, it won't change FACTS. Strangers are not gonna judge you for your inner beauty, otherwise 60yo women will have thousands of customers here. But if they're young and pretty, heck, put $300 hour price and you'll still get customers, but there's unspoken rule if they paid that much.. Just heads up

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)
    edited July 2025

    @lonelybored Sorry to interrupt, but if that's how you feel, why are you here? If you don't believe the fundamental concept of the site is workable, then isn't patronizing the site kind of pointless? It's like watching sports if you think the games are all rigged.

    BTW, you've been reported for your comments about lesbians above. That kind of attitude does not belong here.

  • edited July 2025

    @lonelybored

    Sounds like you're minimizing what women say they experience from boundary pushing men and implying that the women should expect it to happen and if they don't like it then to only cuddle women ?

    @pmvines Yep, that's exactly what @lonelybored is saying,Redacted for forum rule infraction

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