Please Forgive Me

cuddlezpleazcuddlezpleaz
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Guys, i know I've been posting a lot lately. And my posts get removed and my accounts get banned.

I think I've just been a little bit jaded that I feel invisible to women. And that I have to pay for cuddles, while the tall handsome guys get it for free.

But you know what? Maybe this is just my place in life. Maybe I was meant to be like those little ant-sized, invisible men. Maybe I wasnt meant to date women. Maybe im just meant to be an insignificant object that follows them around. Somewhere to place their feet onto after a rough day at work. Maybe thats my calling.

Who knows. Someone said I need therapy. Im pretty broke right now. Where can I get free therapy? Would it help? Idk. But you know what, I think i just need to accept my place in the intimacy marketplace.

Im just an insignificant object that women dont notice. And thats OK! Its my place

Comments

  • SideonSideon

    Maybe you're banned again. And will be again. Therapy is a good option since we aren't qualified to help you here.

  • SideonSideon

    Keeping this thread up for a while. Thank you, community members, for your vigilance in keeping CC safe and troll-free.

  • stormydaycuddlestormydaycuddle Mod

    Invisibility has nothing to do with it. Height has nothing to do with it. In some cases, it’s going to be you don’t mesh, in other cases, it’s going to be other people have ruined it for the team, and in other cases, it’s just going to be a busy Friday and the person has no time. I am sure there are more reasons that have nothing to do with you. Taking it personally only causes yourself more distress . you are not broken. You may need to take a different perspective and have patience. I don’t know about the reactive blame game either towards yourself or others being the right way to go about this. In my mind, taking a proactive approach to make sure that you have a good opinion of the person you’re trying to cuddle and empathy and safe space for yourself and others might work better.

    Leaving this up.

  • stormydaycuddlestormydaycuddle Mod

    @Sideon beat me to it kinda my response above is long winded.

  • CharlieBearCharlieBear Mod

    There are a lot of us that have felt the same. I know I have. But I never blamed anyone else for it. Being tall/handsome does nothing to make anyone a better platonic cuddle partner. Work on yourself because no one is going to be forced to cuddle with you. Something I have learned in other areas of my life is that expressing my lack of confidence/self-esteem is a sure-fire way to turn people away. When I stopped doing that, things got so much better for me. Anyway, good luck.

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