@HRichard Also one of the many guys that I interacted with but never cuddled took me on the longest/highest hike 🏔️ of my life! So well worth the friendship, karma and connection, without cuddles too!
@pmvines 😆😆😆
Mustachio! Lol 🤣🤣🤣
Love it! 🤩🤩🤩
@HRichard The mustache 🥸 is cool 😎 🎉
To follow your karma trail
I go to jimmy house
@HRichard I read the original post. I read the responses about your mustache. I HAD to visit your profile to check out the mustache for myself. I was NOT disappointed. Well done, sir.
I hope no mens are looking at my profile!
Keep those handsome, cuddly eyes on your own paper, please!
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S/.
Too late
They could see if you’re getting any cuddles. They can see if you by any chance may be in to them. People are human.
Old man yells at cloud lol..that might be me dam..
Maybe they are objectifying you
Probably same reason I visit a female's profile wether pro or not. I only cuddle with men but on a female's profile I usually check if they seem active, if they have Karma, and if kinda in my area since there are not that many cuddlers where I live. And there are some females who I am online friends with on here so we message.
Basically, don't think much of it. They probably aren't trying to cuddle with you but maybe just want to see if you have Karma to see how you are doing on the cuddling side and how long you have been on the site to get it.
@MonkeyNeedsAHug 🤣🤣🤣
@pmvines
@tacpmurg
Never heard that one before but I now love it 🤩
I'm slightly puzzled by the number of men that visit my profile, I am straight and not bisexual and cuddle women not men. I have nothing against the gay community but about forty percent of my visits are from men and I'm not entirely sure why ? 🤔
Has anyone else experienced this 🤔
lol. It's not that deep. People visit profiles for a variety of reasons especially if you post on the forums regularly...
It’s because of your name. It’s why I changed my name to what it is now. Twink was attracting a particular crowd before that.
Do you have any old prison friends on the site?
How is anyone supposed to know your sexuality or preferences in cuddle partners before they view your profile? Are they supposed to automatically know somehow?
A public profile is just that - public. It's no different then passing by someone on the street: Some people may ignore and walk by, some may nod their head at you in acknowledgement, some may say hello or smile, and some may stop to talk with you. If you don't want unknown people viewing your profile, you shouldn't create a public profile.
@Bear65 I missed so many fine dining experiences because I wouldn’t eat at restaurants with a male head chef. Then I discovered what chef’s kiss actually meant. I wish you luck on your journey of discovery.
Yes, I see your point but, is my profile coming up in their search ? If so why ?
I get that some guys are after some kind of daddy hug, but that's not why I'm here, I just find it odd and peculiar 🤔
The other thing I have noticed is that when I've left a karma message for a community member I get one or two visits from guys in that area, almost as though they are being territorial about "their patch" ???
Very Neanderthal 🫤
An example is to read the Karma left by a female pro, and see how the pro expresses herself
@TheFunCartel 🤣🤣 you are a treasure
Bear is using the term Neanderthal to describe the behavior of Homo sapiens. I thinks he is actually thinking about Homo erectus.
I want to explain the difference, but I am trying to avoid mansplaining.
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What makes their visits inappropriate, odd, and peculiar?
I find it odd and peculiar, not to mention highly concerning, that you assume any man viewing your public page is actively seeking some kind of kinky dynamic with you, @Bear65 . This isn't the platform for that. It says way more about your mindset and intentions than it does about the hapless strangers who happen to click on your profile.
It's also absolutely hilarious that you've now invited far more people of any gender to view your profile. Methinks this was intentional and you're actually wanting the attention 😂
@Bear I want to apologize in advance for how many accidental tags you might be getting 🫂
Poor use of the term Neanderthal as it spreads misinformation.
Most modern humans have some Neanderthal DNA as we were close enough to interbreed.
Evidence suggest they were perfectly capable, but had higher calorie requirements which may have reduced their viability in scarcity. However that shouldn't be thought of as the only reason they no longer exist as pure Neanderthal. The other clue to where they went is right in our DNA. They were simply merged into what is now modern human.
The other thing I have noticed is that when I've left a karma message for a community member I get one or two visits from guys in that area, almost as though they are being territorial about "their patch" ??? Very Neanderthal 🫤
Speaking as a straight man who has looked at the profiles of men who have left karma for a woman I was considering booking a session with, I can assure you I have ZERO interest in the guy. I was looking to see what, if anything, she said in the karma she might have left in the guy’s profile.
Likewise, on multiple occasions I have had men from from a city where I recently had a cuddle looking at my profile. I never once assumed they hitting on me or were being territorial 🙄 I have even had men direct message me asking about a woman I had cuddled with. I didn’t take that as hitting on me or being territorial either.
At least 1/3 of my profile visits are from men and I do not feel even remotely threatened or bothered about that. I have noticed that I get more of those visits when I am more active in the forum.
In conclusion, there are two types of people in the world. 1) Those who can logically extrapolate from incomplete data.
@cuddlefaery
I find it odd and peculiar, not to mention highly concerning, that you assume any man viewing your public page is actively seeking some kind of kinky dynamic with you,
100% agree with you