@Katota Ooof!
@Katota
Can you perhaps fit in some time to dilly dally ?
@pmvines Gentle Farts ain't that a band?
Music and touch and soft conversations but mostly escape from the outside world
@Auroradream
If not , then it really needs to be 😂
@pmvines
Algebra, vacuuming, printer repair, spam call trolling, catch up on TOS reading, emergency food inventory assessment, putting spare change into the paper rolls and reading old yearbook comments.
Or if I’m feeling really out there, DND my phone, bury ourselves in my softest sheets, put on my best cuddle playlist and mutually melt.
@WestsideMarc all of that checks out - except printer repair. No one ever enjoys printer repair.
Sleep, talk, I love taking naps or talking/joking before falling asleep, watching a movie is good too, on the weekends I could spend all day with my gf just chilling in bed cuddling watching anime or taking short naps.
✨While cuddling, I like to create an atmosphere that feels peaceful and restorative. I often project calming visuals like ocean life or tranquil landscapes onto the wall, paired with soothing music in the background. From there, I tune into my Cuddler’s energy. I’ll usually ask how their week has been, and depending on their response, I adapt the tone of the session. If someone comes in carrying stress, I naturally take on a more nurturing role, offering grounding touch, a maternal presence, and gentle reassurance. If they’d rather not talk about what’s on their mind, I’ll guide them into relaxation, encouraging them to focus on simple sensations like my fingers through their hair or the light trace of touch along their arms or chest. On the other hand, if they’re in a talkative mood, I’ll match their energy by being playful, lighthearted, or simply a great listener who can share laughs.
Every session is unique, but the common thread is this: I aim to provide exactly what my Cuddler needs in the moment. That could mean emotional support, quiet mindfulness, or just a safe space to unwind and share joy. For me, cuddling isn’t just about physical closeness. It’s about helping someone feel seen, supported, and genuinely cared for.✨
Ha. I didn’t realize I had already responded to this thread. This is probably a more accurate description of my sessions so I’ll keep it here.
Reading a book outloud … usually a physical book, but it could be an electronic book. I haven’t done it yet but, you could read a movie script together and each decide to read certain characters, and use a specific voice for each one. I’m going to find my copy of the Casablanca script right now!
https://courses.cs.washington.edu/courses/cse154/13su/exams/resources/The_Princess_Bride.html … a free script of The Princess Bride!
I love deep talks and great music. I also like watching cartoons and having snacks!
Depends on who I am cuddling...
I love having a good little yap session then maybe putting a movie on and just relaxing ☺️
I’m pretty easygoing when I cuddle 🤗
I like to just relax and be cozy, whether that’s spooning, leaning in, or hanging out under a blanket. I enjoy chatting while cuddling too, but I’m good with quiet if that feels better for the moment or is what my buddy prefers ☺️ Sometimes light rubs if it’s comfortable, but mostly it’s about being relaxed and connected.🦊🫂🌟
Watch a relaxing movie, like something nature related Massage each other Depending on the mood/person either talk or share comfortable silence Feeling comfortable enough to doze off
Music. Hugging. Change position. Repeat all night.
Look for hidden cams
I love softly rubbing the other persons arms/neck ( if they are okay with that) and holding each other
@RedFox16 that sounds nice 😊 I like talking during cuddles too, and I’m also a great listener 🙂
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I’m not picky when it comes to cuddling, as just being together with someone is amazing. I find it extremely relaxing just holding someone, being there just embracing. I like cuddling while under a blanket, spooning, hugging, just to mention a few.
Most of the time I find myself being the dominant one, holding my partner as that usually fits my supportive personality, but sometimes I really enjoy being held by my partner too. I guess I haven’t experienced enough instances where my partner has held me, but I do really enjoy how calming it is.
I usually open with a hug when I meet my cuddling partner. I also like to experience and give extended hugs while sitting or reclining.
I also like giving light back rubs, and giving gentle head massages if that’s something that my partner is comfortable with.