Multiple cuddlers or puddles

HuggycatbearHuggycatbear
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Who's had sessions with multiple cuddle partners at the same time? What is your experience? Is it cooler?

I sometimes have trouble knowing when to switch focus when talking with multiple people at once at let's say a Meetup when you are still new at meeting others.

I would want everyone to feel included.

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  • SpaceGoatSpaceGoat
    edited September 2025

    I'm no help. I'm on the pro side and I'd LOVE to have a friend that would do double cuddles with me! I would think maybe make sure you click with at least one of the pros beforehand by exchanging a few messages and convo can flow easily between all three in person?

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod
    edited September 2025

    I have! I've had a couple of threesome cuddles. Once was another woman and a man, both of whom I met on here and knew very well before we all got together. Another time was at a cuddle party where I was cuddling with a man I had met there. I saw another man walking through the piles of couples, looking for someone to cuddle with, but everyone was taken. He looked a little sad, so I motioned him over, and he was so happy! It was loads of fun!

    @SpaceGoat Hey, I'm in Florida, too! You're about 2.5 hrs from me.

  • HuggycatbearHuggycatbear

    Oooh @BlueIris, you're making me want to explore this. Sounds like so much fun! 🤗🤗🤗

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    @Huggycatbear I highly recommend it! What we did in my first threesome was the two persons on the outside concentrated on the person in the middle and gave him all the attention. We all had a turn in the middle. It was wonderful!!

  • LadyVelLadyVel

    I haven't had any here but I have had cuddle puddles with friends before. It can be fun.

  • HuggycatbearHuggycatbear

    Awww, I'm all about fairness and inclusion so I love this idea of middle switching.

  • SpaceGoatSpaceGoat

    @BlueIris hi florida friend!! wave

  • MTexMTex

    I have attended a cuddle group & I highly recommend it. They teach a lot of valuable tools for consent. It's nice to be able to connect with strangers in a controlled environment. I got my first cuddle with a woman & it was very comfortable.

  • jonnyquestjonnyquest

    Never cuddled with two pros/multiple cuddles but it's something I've been thinking of trying one of these days.

  • SideonSideon

    I've been incredibly fortunate to have experienced multiple cuddle puddles, from 3-5 people, at different times. They came about because of after-cuddle Meet Up gatherings, the first and second cuddle puddles in Vegas, and the third and fourth times in Denver. All cuddles were a mix of men and women. I've experienced cuddle puddles with Pros and enthusiasts.

    Consent is the operative word and theme, from start to end. Sometimes you're not sure who's touching you or whom you're touching. Sometimes people have to change positions for comfort and to cool down, because a cuddle puddle will generate a lot of body heat. In one specific cuddle puddle I almost LITERALLY died because @munkg and @quixotic_life and @pmvines made me laugh so hard I couldn't breathe and almost choked to death, but other than death by laughing, I think the risks are minimal and so totally worth it.

    There is a timelessness that happens and it is glorious, @Huggycatbear .

  • HuggycatbearHuggycatbear

    Thank you for sharing @MTex and @Sideon !

    I think dying of laughter might be the best way to go 🤣🤣🤣

  • RedFox16RedFox16

    I've done puddles or community cuddles before 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

    It's awesome and everyone tends have a great time! 🤗🤗

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel
    edited September 2025

    I am pretty open about so many things but multiple cuddlers at one time…I have come to the edge, dipped my toe in, and just feel stressed about it. So I have never done that. Don’t know why. Definitely my problem—I own it—paid the mortgage—and I question why I did.

    The idea stresses me more than anything. I probably just need someone to just grab me, tell me to exit the emergency fire doors in my mind, and throw me into the middle of the cuddle pile.

    I will chat everyone up in a room full of people but a big pile of epidermis, polyester and cotton makes me freeze and experience anxiety. One on one…no problem at all.

  • MonkeyNeedsAHugMonkeyNeedsAHug
    edited September 2025

    @TheFunCartel

    I’m part of a group that cuddles fairly regularly. Over the last couple of years, we’ve probably cuddled between 15 and 20 times (typically for 3-4 hours at a time).

    But I don’t think we ever start off in a puppy pile / puddle. After we check in verbally, we pair up. There’s often a trio if there’s an odd number cuddling.

    But we seem to always end up gravitating toward each other. It just feels like a natural result of everyone being co-regulated and feeling safe and happy and accepted.

    🐒

    PS
    Some info about our group is at the bottom of my profile page.

  • MonkeyNeedsAHugMonkeyNeedsAHug

    And fwiw, we don’t dance (much) during cuddles. And we don’t dress like we’re going clubbing. But we agree this video, which I have shared before, accurately depicts how we vibe during our sessions.

  • TenderEmbracesTenderEmbraces

    Sounds like an experience id like to have.

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