Have you had requests for scratching someone’s crown of the hear firmly? Like really firmly, almost forcefully. What did you do? Or have you asked for it?
I would recommend some tea tree oil shampoo and move on. As far as requests that can seem harmless...is it a request or a requirement? If the cuddle session goes on very happily minus the dandruff party, all good. But if (to the requester) it's just not a good cuddle unless there's a little unsanitary scalp torture among friends, that's a hard pass. 😅 ps. sheesh!
It’s my experience here that as time goes on the quality of posts on the message board and the topics just continue to degrade. The most vapid one that I can remember was a post called what’s your favorite color?
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I haven't asked anyone to scratch my head or been asked to do so before but when someone did do it to me it felt nice. There's also this thing that's made out of metal or something like it with a bunch of prongs that you press down on your head and when it speads throughout your head it feels really nice.
That’s one of my favorite things to do with a cuddler! I put some tea tree oil on my fingertips if they’ll allow me to and also have longer nails.
Sheeeesh indeed
Scratch your own crown with this:
Not to be mistaken for this...
No but you're welcome to scratch my tiara
I have encountered people who love having their head scratched really hard. (In other contexts.) Dandruff-free, they were.
Head scratching and various other physical things can be legitimate requests. The two key identifiers are, is it a requirement? (Bright red flag, as @Auroradream says.) And is it made before or during the first/second session? (Also a red flag.)
These kind of things are not a standard part of the cuddle repertoire and are appropriate only when you know your cuddler well. The trouble is, that most requests like this are not legit. If you're unsure, Report them but keep the conversation open. The Mods can then investigate their history.
@TxTom that almost looks exactly like what I was talking about but maybe better
@TxTom I think I would enjoy the fuzzy facehugger too. 😜👍