What's YOUR ideal cuddle buddy?

I'll go first! I'm a very short person so I wouldn't mind someone the same height/weight as me. Someone who's more on the quieter side and nerdy like me. I'm VERY selective and picky about who I spend time with so... yeah :smile:

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  • Well, they need a body with 2 arms to wrap around me. I'm willing to go down on the number of arms, though.

  • I wouldn't complain about more than two arms.

  • ... that would be handy

  • @GuyverGordon you’re always armed with a good pun. 😇

  • @lovingspoonfull 🤣 ... un-limb-ated ... (Sorry, that was the first thing next to come out ... I was just introduced to Wicked)

  • edited October 2025

    My ideal cuddle buddy is someone who likes to cuddle. If they like to cuddle, then it's already a 10 out of 10 experience.

    But if I'm to be picky, then I would like to cuddle with someone who doesn't have the need to always talk. I'm sure I could think of a few other things to be picky about, but I'm not too picky.

  • edited October 2025

    @tallteddy lolol
    My ideal cuddle buddy would be someone that wants to stay in bed all day either napping, talking or watching something on TV, a bonus is someone who wouldn't mind listening to my crazy anxiety thoughts, another bonus is if they enjoyed anime or asian dramas like KDrama or JDrama.

  • I would love to experience cuddling with me!

  • @Auroradream 😂. You are really missing out!

  • OP: Similar for me. I get along well with a bookish, social introvert.

  • edited October 2025

    I love those bear hugs where they pull me into their chest and their chin rests on top of my head..and you feel both arms wrap around you. Amazingly warm and tight. There's something about being consumed by welcoming arms and not wanting to let go! Oo..and temple kisses while in this embrace. Bonus! 🥰🥰🥰

  • 🌸 I love reading how everyone describes their ideal cuddle buddy: connection looks a little different for everyone, and that’s what makes it so special. My favorite part of what I do is creating that cozy, judgment-free space where someone can finally exhale and just be. Whether it’s a quiet, steady hug or a lighthearted conversation between laughs, my sessions are all about helping you feel grounded and at ease.

  • edited October 2025

    For me, to be seen, understood, and embraced is the truest form of cuddle. My ideal cuddle partner is someone who detects my nonverbal signals.

  • An ideal cuddle buddy must have a matching personality you can be comfortable and safe with. The best is when you can totally relax and tell they are in turn just as relaxed and comfortable.

  • Ooh, love this question. Safe to be around. Comfortable to talk to and comfortable to be quiet with. Non-judgmental. Welcoming of whatever emotions that may arise. Knows how to both receive and give. Someone who both wants to hold and be held.

  • A female shorter than me around my age who shares my same political and moral beliefs.
    Someone close by who can host or who doesn't mind cuddling with my very friendly 8yr old 70lb pittie puppy.

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