Yet another one of these posts

edited October 2025 in General

Please stop spamming the forums with angry posts about sex workers. Making a burner account to seek sex work from someone just to turn around and report them is not going to be taken seriously. If someone on the site is doing sex work and they have links to escort profiles, onlyfans, sugar daddy sites, porn pages, etc, just report those. Text convos are not viewed as evidence when the account reporting is using a burner account. Angry exes, spouses, stalkers etc do the same kind of reports, and it is incredibly easy to fake a convo. That’s not bs. Here’s an example that took me 5 minutes. (This is a fake convo I made myself, not a real screenshot from a report.)

Also, why give them business? Uploading their phone number and nudes Is just going to send more people their way. I really don’t get it. And as if sex workers are logging their sex work profits in the booking panel. Are you under the impression they are logging an extra $500 so the site gets their cut? That’s just silly…

Anyway, sorry, I work a day job and have to stop what I’m doing to remove a bunch of posts, and for the 1000th time, mods are not paid. We have zero stake in the site. Protecting a sex worker does not do anything for us. It’s so incredibly frustrating being accused of doing something like secretly allowing sex work when we absolutely are not doing that. Yet somehow it’s totally cool to target people and post their private info on a public forum. Please stop. You’re not hurting the admins. You’re hurting the mods that are freely offering their time to try to keep the site safe. Can I return to work now? Thanks…

Edit: Also, when a legit report of a sex worker comes in, they usually have few bookings and they are 0.5 or 1 hours in length as they are fudging the actual session length and booking the minimum to pay as small of a fee as possible. They are also more likely to be booking off-site. Not in every case, but a lot of them.

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  • 💯💯💯💯

  • edited October 2025

    Agreed! It is way harder to verify a text. If possible at all.

    On another note @CharlieBear being mad means something. I’m sitting here shocked.

    On yet another note, I think it would actually boggle people’s minds how much time we spend protecting the site from inappropriate users pros very much included. And yet no one ever believes us..😢

    That text though. 😂😂😂

  • @mods I BELIEVE YOU and so do many of us ! 👍. Thank you for volunteering and the awesome efforts you peeps do here ! 😊

  • Maybe they will make a movie. Cuddle Pimps; a story about an evil cabal of moderators and the kickbacks they receive from sex workers to let them operate on the site. I’m writing this comment while on one of the many yachts I own.

  • [Deleted User]Circle5 (deleted user)

    "you harlot" 🤣🤣

  • @CharlieBear

    I just clicked on the Map of Cuddlers thread and zoomed in on your location.

    Nice place, man.

  • Moderators ripping asunder the curtains of the cuddle boudoir and allowing us a peek into the games people play.

  • Wow! 😯

  • I'm sure y'all have enough on this site to keep you busier than a one legged man in an ass-kicking contest . . . but that "text message" and "harlot"!!! LMAO!!!

  • Okay now that everyone got to see what I really look like it’s time to move along.

  • @CharlieBear Are you going to include that text thread in your novel series? 😜

  • @TxTom
    Haha one of many properties of mine 🤣

  • @GuyverGordon
    Yes I will fake many convos but pretend they are real to make the novel more salacious.

  • edited October 2025

    So much love for you mods.

    There is clarity that must always be spoken about YOUR VOLUNTEER UNPAID POSITION as
    Babysitter
    Police
    Referee
    Comforter
    Vigilante

    And so much behind the scenes that we don’t even know about to help make this site an enjoyable place to connect with likeminded individuals.

    As always…

    I BELIEVE

    …In who you all are and what you stand for. I also know there are a ton of other people who don’t frequent the forums but have the same opinion. ❤️

    In my quest to remove an image reported I deleted one other. If you want to put that one back up go for it . -Stormy p.s. hugs

    No worries at all. I am so sorry I had to take any more of your VOLUNTEER minutes @stormydaycuddle

    Removed text. [CharlieBear]

    I am always believing in YOU!!! 🩵🩵🩵

  • @CharlieBear That's the way to do it 😄

  • @CharlieBear sounds like that movie where Kevin James plays the author that accidentally publishes non-fiction.

  • @CharlieBear Looks like the reported pro was banned after all.

  • edited October 2025

    @Sooson
    The person that had reported her and made these posts, I don’t think that they are faking any of these conversations. Though the manner in which this information is obtained isn’t how we do it. So I’m treating those conversations as I would any other report.

  • edited October 2025

    @Sooson
    Also, that person has gotten a ton of pros banned for being sex workers. I don’t understand the forum posts because we ban them all the time based on reports from this person, who usually has more to provide like links to sites that we can verify. I understand the frustration that they have when someone remains on the site, but we just need to be able to verify it someway other than just a text conversation. In this case, the moderator that looked into it more was able to find evidence that backed up the report so she has been banned.

    Edit: "evidence that backed up the report"...Well, the source of the nudes at least.

  • edited October 2025

    I think we should make it clear that we’re not telling people that they can’t report sex workers if they see them. We have a lot of regulars who keep the site safe by doing that exact thing. It’s the way you do it that matters and whether you have the evidence to back it up. Because it’s not fair for us to ban people with absolutely no evidence just because someone says so.

  • @CharlieBear
    I was very surprised she wasn’t banned the first time he posted about her, several days ago. He posted all the same info, links and photos about her. But her profile stayed active during the investigation. I think in the past, you time-out those questionable accounts while they are being investigated. I found that to be concerning but I’m sure there’s a logical reason?

  • @CharlieBear @Sideon @JoyfulHeart @cheeseboy @stormydaycuddle @netrunner @RadiantHugs

    Man oh man I appreciate you 🩵🩵🩵

    Thank you on a thousand seen and unseen levels. You all are tireless dealing with the smarmy sorts.

    Please know I am so grateful!!

  • @g_w_t_w
    I wasn’t the mod that took that report but the mod that did had made a note on the account as they didn’t see any links to back it up at the time.

  • Thanks and as always I appreciate all that you and the other mods do!

  • The forum got kinda hectic for a few minutes. I went to respond to someone, and then BOOM… some guy floods the thread with breasts and buns.

    Made me lose my train of thought. I was stunned.

  • I'm really sad I missed out on this drama - if someone can fill me in that would be cool. I live for the Chisme.

  • @NikkiFM apparently, this site had a vigilante. But, today he decided to be a supervillain.

  • Is sex really work?

  • @g_w_t_w
    I just checked the original screenshots of the text convo in the report and they do not match the ones that were posted in the forums. They start off the same, with the same timestamps, but then diverge wildly. So the report that the mod looked at initially was much more tame than the one posted in the forums. It seems the one posted to the forum was probably faked to make it look way worse than what we saw in the report...

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