I’ve tried both… and I have strong opinions. But I’m curious… Do you prefer Big Spoon Energy or Little Spoon Vibes?
Vote below and sound off in the comments as to why your opinion is right!
Both.
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Both is definitely the correct answer 😅
I adore being the big spoon - it's just pure delight to hold someone warm and close. I also absolutely love wrapping around a guy and helping him feel safe and protected.
Lastly, having an arm wrapped across my tummy is one of my least favorite sensations, so little spoon is a position that can make me feel uncomfortable, unless they rest their hand on my shoulder, waist, etc. I'll even opt for an arm hooked around my neck from behind, over the tummy thing. 🤣
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I've always found little spoon made me feel safe. There's someone there to hold on to me.
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Depends on what you want to feel in the moment. I’m 💯 with @IronLemon on this. I prefer little spoon to feel strength and to feel safe.
I like both but I think I have a slight preference for little spoon.
Shorter dude here. I love both, but I have no issues whatsoever with being the little spoon.
I like being the big spoon. I like making people feel safe
I love being the little spoon its a safe place
We tall folks call getting spooned "the jetpack" 😅 And with someone who I feel really safe with, it can be something truly special! Squeeze me with the ferocity and pride that a little Chihuahua does when she's protecting the WHOLE HOUSE. 🤩
But most days it's big spoon time, om nom nom.
@MeltWithMiles what would it be if a tall cuddler jetpacked on another tall cuddler? Parachuting? Am I a parachute? 😂
@cuddlefaery Hahaha, heck yeah! I'm also picturing those hiking backpacks that go way up over the head. Some even have that little flap for rain protection, 11/10 cuddle position 🤣
I much prefer to be the big spoon, it feels more natural to me, I'm a big guy. I've not tried being the little spoon too often so far since meeting people from this site, it's been ok, I'll have to try it again!
I'm a tiny person. I am usually little spoon, but on occasion have gone big spoon to someone. the last time I did it. it was actually to give the other person nurturing. they had fallen asleep.
Big spoon. Little spoon. Just don’t try to fork.
I enjoy them both almost equally, depending on the moment.
Big spooon. - but here’s the twist - I prefer being the big spoon, but with me lying face up and the little spoon held safely in place in my arms.
I love being the big spoon. 🥰 Being the little spoon can be nice, but only with certain people. Some folks just aren’t very good at being the big spoon, and you really feel the difference!
As a man I prefer to be the big, to give that masculine energy but I do sometimes little to receive. I’d say 71:29 ratio, if we’re really counting.
Sometimes I like to be the first big spoon especially if the client is nervous or anxious… I will switch off when they are ready to do so. As far as personal preference both are equally comforting to me. Each masculine/feminine energy positions are very healing to me ….
I like big spoon more because I like the feeling of encompassing someone but sadly I'm not big enough to do that to most people
Most of the times ive been little spoon it feels like the person behind me isn't really there cause usually they either aren't close enough or they were to small
Little spoon for me
Neither one. Those are my two least favorite positions. I prefer big bear or little bear, but my all-time favorite is head-in-lap.