New to this site, can someone explain the rules to me? I wanna be able to connect without doing too much as I’ve been told this site is sensitive. Feel free to hit me up in you’re in California .
As an enthusiast female, you'll be buried in messages pretty quickly. Major rules are 1) keep everything platonic 2) you can't charge if you're not an approved pro and in general make sure you vet any potential cuddle partners before cuddling for your own safety.
yeah. while I've had some mixed experiences, overall the ones that were good were great. some people that message don't come back and finish responding. welcome and good luck
I wanna be able to connect without doing too much as I’ve been told this site is sensitive.
Just another SW on the wrong site. If you read the quote from the OP she was obviously aware what she shouldn’t be doing but was.
I'm also new here. What's an approved pro and how would I know if I'm approved? I've never professionally cuddled with anyone and I don't know what an enthusiastic cuddler is. Can someone please tell me?
@Affectionlark I checked your profile and you are an approved Pro, you have gone through the application process and now have that status. And your profile looks great, I love your last sentence and your clarity. There are a lot of rules to follow as a Pro. It’s best to read all the stickied topics at the top of each forum discussion list. It’s a little more complex than just starting to book clients. You can’t initiate contact unless someone has shown interest first by viewing your profile or messaging you. An Enthusiast is anyone who is not a Pro. An unpaid cuddler. Take time to get to know someone before meeting, be very clear about boundaries and respect the TOS. Best of luck! 🤗
@Affectionlark Welcome to the site. There’s some great info here and it looks like you already have some pretty clear boundaries in your profile.
I'm looking to only cuddle via video chat and I'm open to texting via WhatsApp. You can be located anywhere.
There was an interesting thread that might create a good fit for both of your circumstances…
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/24068/texting#latest
Best of luck to you and as always “May the Cuddle Gods be EVER in your favor!” 😊
How do you handle a virtual cuddle?
@Serafina_smiles I usually follow my cuddlist’s flow. Majority of the time we end up chatting about life. I offer regular voice call or zoom.
@Serafina_smiles, on my description of my page I simplified that answer with the best clarity I can but to give you an example of an ideal cuddle in my perspective,
What to Expect on a Video Call
Expect a cozy, relaxed space where you can just be yourself and unwind. I bring a warm, caring energy — a mix of sweet conversation, genuine laughter, and quiet comfort. Whether you want to talk about your day, share a few smiles, or simply enjoy someone’s company, I’m here to make it feel easy and natural.
We can even watch a movie or show together — something light, fun, or nostalgic — and just let the moment flow. After booking, I’ll send you my Discord, Google Meet, or Zoom link so we can connect where you’re most comfortable.
My goal is to help you feel calm, cared for, and genuinely connected — like spending time with someone who truly enjoys your company. 💕
I will actually copy this and create a post because that is a wonderful clarifying question ❤️