My experience is 100% different. I have met some amazing women on here and have made some very deep connections with them. I can see how the cuddlers are busy replying to messages sent by casual lookers but once you get past the looking phase and contact cuddlers with the actual intent to meet...I think things often work to great success. I for one am glad I am on here and am super excited to continue to make connections.
It's true there are areas that are cuddle deserts. I live in one. There's no cuddle culture in my state; most of the men in my area are looking for one night stands.
There are men here on CC who don't understand that it takes quite a bit of getting-to-know-you before the average enthusiast woman feels safe enough to meet you for a private cuddle. They think it's going to happen instantly or they say there are few to no enthusiast women on here. They have never had to fear for their safety as a man, so they don't get it, they get frustrated, and make posts like the original one in this thread.
There are no shortcuts, guys. You have to put the time in to get to know us and make a real connection, unless you want to pay a pro.
@BlueIris Well said. The world of enthusiasts takes time, patience and commitment. The "just sign up and immediately cuddle" idea that the site promotes really refers to hiring pros.
@BlueIris : Even as a pro, I vet any potential clients to ensure I’m going to be safe. I’ve had to report many people for getting creepy in messages before even meeting a first time. And I’ve blocked people for getting hostile when I tell them I’m not comfortable meeting without chatting first.
I see new users on the site all the time. Maybe not in my area but I will often travel to meet up with pros on a weekend. Gives me a chance to also explore a new area as well and I’ve met some really amazing pros in doing so. That does get expensive but I think it’s well worth it!
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