Serious question, is overnight cuddle session even possible? Can someone cuddle that long? Or is it more about paying for companionship at this point? Cause I would hope everyone would fall asleep ? I’m genuinely curious!
I love overnight cuddles. It’s very fulfilling holding someone through the night and waking up to them, to even continue cuddling. It’s a must, really.
I’ve never done it with a pro but would love to. The next time I have an overnight business trip, im definitely going to try. At that point though an overnight doesn’t end up being specifically all about cuddling. I would imagine you would probably have dinner even if it’s just ordering in. You would of course spend quite a bit of the time sleeping also. It sounds amazing. My only concern is, it would have to be the right person to spend that much time together.
I would love to experience that. Never experienced that even in my 25-year marriage. But the cost would be prohibitive for me. I have bills to pay that are more important than cuddling bills.
@Morpheus You’re welcome to do an overnighter with me. I’ve done several. Everyone has been great. Well..., except for the one where the hotel fire alarm went off in the middle of the night and we were told to Star where we were, but the alarm kept going for another 1/2 hr For pricing, I usually consider the cuddle a total of 12hrs at least. For about 5 hours we are awake and cuddling, taking etc. I don’t feel it’s right to have a client pay for sleeping. So usually I’ll charge for the 5hrs at a discounted hourly rate as the hours increase and make allotments to my price based on if they had to get a room especially for the cuddle, or if they had to travel a distance to see me etc. less of a discount if they’re closer and staying at my home overnight. But yes, you can cuddle that long, and it’s both cuddling and companionship. I’ve done it with boyfriends, so what’s the difference really with clients? Other than you’re not being intimate. I cuddle my client until they fall asleep. If me or my client change positions during the night it’s usually right into another cuddle position.
As has been stated, overnight cuddles are amazing because you can 100% relax while cuddling, to basically cuddle and relax into a deep slumber. Then you can wake up into more cuddles I have cuddled people to sleep and then left (save some money), which at least gives you the deep sleep that being cuddled to sleep provides, but then you wake up alone =( I have done a few overnight cuddles, but they don't come up very often. Mine are just an "add-on" to a 5+ hour paid cuddle session.
@Morpheus I think you are right it does have to be with the right kind of person. I think these sessions aren’t just for the client but also for the pro because you both bring things to the table not necessarily expected and opens a whole new world for both parties. My very first cuddler was so amazing knowing I was new and I had so much fun just hanging out with him. We cuddled, discussed life, passions in life, children, jobs and God we laughed, that is what this is about.! We watched TV, laid on the bed just legs all over each other and just talked. I feel like I have known this man forever and it felt more like a pajama party with my male best friend. The second time he was near me I drove 2 1/2 hours to spend time with him and we were having so much fun I spent the night and that wasn’t planned. It’s pretty awesome when you meet cuddlers like that. We don’t watch the clock, I don’t say oh you owe me another $$ amt. After the first couple hours it was about the fun we were having and not about the $. I can’t wait to see him again. If you are ever in the Harrisburg area or close to it I’d love to cuddle with you as well!
I'm sure plenty of pros offer overnight or a variant of such. I do as well but of course the cost varies and i believe some of us have a request to meet before an overnighter. With my overnights, I offer being there awake the full time. I guess you can say dinner and other activities can take place like talking, board games, or watching movies. Any safe home activities.
I only am "open" till 10pm but I STILL LOVE SLEEPOVERS. I don't offer them as a standalone type of deal anymore because my trust in that type of arrangement was shattered by a bad experience... Can't even enjoy dinner at a client's home, because I once had food drugged by a date years prior to even getting into cuddling. Totally agree that it's always best if you jive together and know the other person well. I am pretty much only going to spend the night with somebody if I have an extensive cuddling history with them prior to this year and if it would not be safe for me to travel home past 10pm.
I'd offer overnight but it would have to be someone that I had already cuddled with before. I'm very leery of new people lately due to a bad experience with a cuddler.
I'm with Missy. I need to build up a certain level of trust b4 I'd do an overnight session. A few cuddlers have inquired about it but nothing serious.
I offer overnight, but I would like to do something like watch movies or play a game. I agree that it is best to do it with a cuddler you already know.
I didn't think I would do overnights with new clients, but I have and have another scheduled. I've been either really lucky or good at weeding out the creeps. Don't know which, but I haven't had any experiences yet which give me reason not to trust those I choose to schedule with :-/
Overnight cuddles are one of my favorite things. It's so nice that no one has to get up and drive home, and the joy starts right up again when you open your eyes. It's amazing Highly recommend!
I have a 3 session minimum before doing an overnight (which I haven’t done yet, but I’ve found that’s how much time I need to really have enough trust to do one).
I’m thinking of offering to stay up all night, too, even though I don’t schedule past 10PM. Because I’m such a light sleeper, I don’t think I would probably sleep much, anyway.
I’m looking forward to my first overnight, though!
All good feedback; and i agree it has to be the right person on both sides for that kind of committment.
I love overnights. I give discounts for 6 or 10 hour overnights. I like pretendilng I'm a body-pillow.?