My life has been changed through cuddling. I had a career where I needed to be hard on the exterior and not allow the real me to come out. Cuddling allowed me to open up and really soften myself and be authentic. I met a very special cuddle professional who has helped guide me through a shift. I am now happier than I've ever been. For that reason, I hold the act of cuddling as something that needs to be guarded from the negative places people can take it. I read through some of these discussions and like others find some of the questions similar to phishing. Skin on skin is one that comes up constantly. There is no arguing that it is special. Thats why they take newborns and place them on their mother's skin. However, we have barriers in cuddling and those should be held sacred. Why, because if we don't someone will step in and either regulate cuddling or worse ban it. When our discussions start getting creepy, yep it's pretty easy to spot them, luckily we have a moderator who watches out of them and keeps them from going too far. However, as members it might be best if we just not participate in the discussion at all. Don't feed into the conversation. Don't throw angry comments at the person, hateful speech doesn't do anything but propagate anger. Just point out you feel this is not in the scope of what we do and leave it at that. Most of all, think about what you are communicating when you send the initial message.