I'm confused about what to post on here vs what not to post. I'm trying to follow the community guidelines and policy and I see random posts. I don't know if that makes sense or maybe I'm just overthinking.
In the general section post what you like other than about sex religion or politics
Can’t talk about drugs or rock n roll either
Lol jk
You can post topics that raise awareness or get people thinking. Or things you enjoy or are frustrated with. Of course, anything cuddling centric, but it doesn't have to be.
They make the rules up as they go and they definitely favor the females. Don’t bother trying to book something with an enthusiast those are all fake profiles.
Posts like this draw negative attention to the poster. I'm leaving it here for now so that it can serve as an indication of your true feelings about the site.
@JoyfulHeart (Moderator)
@johnloveshugs whoa boy do you have chips on your shoulder. What rules are they making up??? And how do they favor women? Enthusiasts are not fake they just offer free cuddles so they get bombarded with messages.
DeFiNitElY FavOur thE feMaLeS 🤪🤪🤪🤪
@johnloveshugs
Try putting a couple pictures of yourself up, a bio, and reaching out to people by striking up normal conversation to see if you'd get along at all.
I used to be an enthusiast and I would not answer a single message from blank profiles like yours. Gives nothing to talk about or verify safety or compatibility.
@Sheena123 quit taking all those favors, sheessshhhhh
@coolrunnings12 what? Sorry, I can’t hear you with all these favours drowning me right now 😆😆 what is a female to do?? 😂😂😂
@Sheena123 😅🤣😂
book something with an enthusiast
I think I see the problem here. For those that need a reminder: You don't book with enthusiasts. You start a conversation with them and go from there.
(As a side note: I've found that also treating pros like normal humans makes everyone happier)
Oh how quickly these threads go off topic lol I don't think the OP was interested in hearing about booking anything with anybody
Whatever happened to the pics of posts thread?
@pmvines - off topic? Oh, I don't know... OP said he keeps seeing random posts. Some of the responses here underscore his point so maybe they Are on topic? 😂😂😂
That is actually a pretty good point lol
@johnloveshugs posted: "Don’t bother trying to book something with an enthusiast those are all fake profiles."
🙋🏻♀️ Female enthusiast here. If I were fake I'd have a better picture and worse verbiage. 😜
@johnloveshugs posted: "They make the rules up as they go"
The rules are quite easily accessible and have been around a good long while. If you're feeling targeted by volunteers whose sole purpose here is to keep things civil and platonic, perhaps looking inward is the next step.
~ Sunset Snuggles
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Just thinking about the wording, perhaps "booking" with enthusiasts could only happen with "fake profiles" in the sense that they are pretending to be an enthusiast only to ask for money once they communicate off-site (I've had this happen before). So yes don't try to "book" with an enthusiast, for I'd say the chances of one that would actually "book" aren't being truthful with their profile status. However do try to get to know enthusiasts, build a rapport, and discuss when you both may have time to cuddle if it leads to there. That being said, I've met a few enthusiasts before and always had great cuddle sessions with them as well as pros.
I am confused also: In the NFL, what constitutes a catch?
In the NFL, what constitutes a catch?
A blue chip NFL player who is single, tall, and photogenic.
@TxTom 🤣🤣🤣
Still confused. My cousin was just sentenced to 20 years for mans laughter. Must of been a really bad joke.
@johnloveshugs I assure you- I’m FAR more “real” than most on this site can handle, but I’ve heard from just about every cuddle buddy I’ve ever had that your opinion is most definitely substantiated! And I’m sorry for that. It’s REALLY hard to be a strong person in the world today, but I promise.. We’re still “here”! hugs
@Analyticalace89 Personally, I don’t think anything not related to cuddling should be allowed. When I joined, I don’t think it was.
This “social” section creates nothing but drama and that doesn’t scream “comfort” to me. I understand that people may “need” it to feel connected to others, but there are other not subject focused sites people can do that on.
This site’s for cuddling and inviting anything else into it allows for an unlimited amount of “gray area” and that’s where things get dicey. Drama doesn’t appeal to me- My cuddle buddies are cherished and I don’t recommend using these message boards as a basis for choosing one due to what is and isn’t allowed.
Politics, religion, and world events (past or present) should be avoided. I keep seeing this “What’s everyone listening to” thread and it’s annoying. Listen to what’re makes YOU happy! Or the “what’s for dinner?” thread- Are you trying to make everyone hungry?? I don’t understand the point, but I’m a very focused thinker.
Comfort comes from personal connections and those connections should be formed “privately” . I recommend reaching out to those closest to your area, make an attempt to meet in person, and go from there. Communication needs to be open and these message boards are definitely not the place for that!