I thought we were not allowed to reach out to enthusiasts.
You are allowed. It’s more like you shouldn’t to prevent the spread of cooties from enthusiasts who are carriers. But if you must, cleanse your house with sage and wash your hands three times for twenty seconds.
You just click on their profile and if you think they’re “safe”, send them a message. As an enthusiast myself, I DEFINITELY do if they’re in my area. Most of my cuddle buddies come through KC for work though. I have 2 here locally, but ((work schedules!!)), so I could always use more! This just isn’t at all a daily priority for me..
@pmvines 🤣🤣🤣 It’s the 21st century, Dude!! WAKE UP!!! (and yeah, I know you were joking 😉!!)
@TheFunCartel ha! Duly noted!
@KozyKim to clarify pro messaging you cannot send welcome letters to people who haven’t at least visited your profile. Visiting their profile then sending a message can be seen as unwanted attention grabs which get reported a lot. Just wanted to point that out so pros reading the thread don’t go that route.
@stormydaycuddle is there an acceptable way to indicate, as an enthusiast, that I'm okay with that happening? I really don't mind anyone contacting me if they want to. Is it just up to me to block or report if I don't like that?
Had the same ?s as diegosensible
@great_pillow08
Or was I 🤔
@diegosensible @Drew4100 i simply put a statement in my profile saying that its ok to message me first. I know other guys on here have done the same thing. Cant imagine a pro would get in trouble for initiating contact in such circunstances.
@Jubal you would think, but there guys who have started threads complaining about pros contacting them. I think the site operates on the squeaky wheel management style by forbidding pros to reach out first. I have no problem with anyone reaching out, because if I am not interested I do not reply and if I have too many inquiries I ignore them. That’s from the easy-peasy method of message management.
Almost all of the women who have initiated first contact with me were pros. A handful of times, women have sent private messages based on my comments in forum discussions. I can’t recall an enthusiast woman ever reaching out to send me a message about cuddling or getting to know more about me. Glad to read in the comments that it happens.
@KuddlyKoala I love bears, but I don't think they'd cuddle me without mauling me
Even if it’d be a koala “bear” 🤭
I actually have had a few non-pros contact me first (usually after I viewed their profile), but most of the time it was someone who got their profile banned I believe so glad I didn't have to contact more and have them attempt to scam me. However there has been at least one or two (maybe more if I forgot) that were genuine profiles who contacted me first. I haven't met these people though since they aren't local. It's quite rare though. for every 1000 profiles I visit, maybe 1 will initiate contact (not including pros - those numbers are higher).
I reach out to guys that visit my page in occasion!
@pmvines 😆 And not only that but …
@stormydaycuddle I just read this message.. But it does seem like that's what I was saying. But what I meant was if they visit my site I may send them a message, but it's never solicitation. It's just welcome or great profile about me section.
I reach out to myself in an exercise of positivity and to raise my confidence. Inevitably I ghost them.
@TheFunCartel is that anything like this?
@Jubal More like this…I am a talented dancer:
lol i didnt know it was customary for pros to reach out to folks lol. I only respond, or check a profile if im contacted, maybe thats a bit abnormal? regardless, mostly its guys who visit, some women, but so far only guys reaching out. That said ive only been on for a month!
@pmvines @OhioMike
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Yes they do! It just depends on the person there’s no definitive answer. 🤗
@TheFunCartel 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh lordy, I think my subconscious blocked that scene from my conscious memory for all these years!!!